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RE: A Double Standard? - 4/8/2008 11:22:34 AM

Wolfsrealm

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I don't think you're being bitchy at all, Chelle. You made some good points about his profile, which I hadn't checked in a while. Neither had he--he doesn't really use that one anymore, and it makes sense that he didn't think to change it when we made our couple profile. There's no excuse for carelessness though. I'll humbly ask about it at some point. Thanks love.

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RE: A Double Standard? - 4/8/2008 11:23:47 AM

DesFIP

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Really? I get mail damn near daily from men who don't notice, or care, that I'm taken. Your experience is not common.

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RE: A Double Standard? - 4/8/2008 11:28:56 AM

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

What do I have to chum the water with to get a frenzyed sub?

Now I'm gonna start with perving Ray's profile every day, then move to short emails, then longer emails...

I don't get the sharks because I don't have a picture up.

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RE: A Double Standard? - 4/8/2008 11:36:05 AM

RCdc

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You may know not to be jealous - but you clearly are by posting this.
Why does it matter that she commented on his myspace? Unless she wrote of her undying submission for him, I hardly find a simple comment on a dominants profile concerning.

You have an issue with submissives contacting your dominant, talk to him about it. I have numerous friends who are interested in BDSM - dominant and submissive. We contact and write all the time. I have a myspace, so does Darcy - and we have different friends. Submissive or not, why is there any concern of someone posting on it?

I find this an over reaction and insecurities - talk to your Master about it and remove your fears and need to 'growl and push away'.

the.dark.

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RE: A Double Standard? - 4/8/2008 11:39:06 AM

MissAngelandsub

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I am of the minority than no one but females and people from the forums contact me and if they are from the boards usually contact me about something I said in the boards. Makes life less complicated too