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sweetnurseBBW -> RE: When is enough enough? (4/8/2008 6:17:12 PM)

If something doesn't seem right to you then it probably isn't. Sit down and talk about what is going on. Everyone's feelings need to be out in the open and things need to be sorted out.




lalbobbilynn -> RE: When is enough enough? (4/8/2008 6:19:35 PM)

As much as You wish for us to answer "when enough is enough", i think You have already answered Your own question ...

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ORIGINAL: lexi24

I have been with my Master for almost 2 years now and i love him very much.  So here is the problem,

I have told him i am sick and tired of this and nothing seems to be changing.



The hard part is taking action to make Yourself happy.
b.~ 




Daddyslilpookie -> RE: When is enough enough? (4/8/2008 6:44:30 PM)

I agree with lusciouslips19 here. I think something is going on and you are afraid to realize and deal with it. Only you know the answer and what to do about it. Goodluck




Daddysredhead -> RE: When is enough enough? (4/8/2008 6:46:30 PM)

Dearest Lexi,

I feel for you because I know what it is to want your mate to do something that, for whatever reason, he is not ready to do.  The waiting is excruciating.  I suggest keeping the lines of communication WAY open, be honest with yourself and with him.  This is critical if you two are going to be to work things out successfully.  Whatever you choose to do, make sure that you are true to yourself.  Some people can wait a long time, some cannot.  Only you know what is right for you.

Blessings and best wishes,
DRH




nwcutie102 -> RE: When is enough enough? (4/8/2008 6:47:59 PM)

i don't wish to distress you, yet honestly.... something more is going on here. seems like emotional withdrawal, physical withdrawal




SirMIkeSD -> RE: When is enough enough? (4/8/2008 6:58:48 PM)

He needs to talk with someone about this, it has become an obsession.  It sounds like it started simple enough and now he can not let losse of the control and security that being there brings him. 

Mike





trueshadow -> RE: When is enough enough? (4/8/2008 7:54:05 PM)

He's just not into you, as they say.  That's my take unless proven otherwise.




MissAngelandsub -> RE: When is enough enough? (4/8/2008 8:42:35 PM)

Personally I would have left along time ago, but I would have talked about it first with him and seen what was going on in his mind. So best thing to do would be talk with him. And as someone else said getting a guard dog is alot cheaper than a security system and pretty darn effective too if you get the right kind..[:)] ( I have two pitbulls and they are more than enough protection for my home)




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