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eyesopened -> RE: "Pretending I'm lesser" (4/10/2008 2:04:27 AM)
Well now that the 'playmate' has answered and i'm late getting to this thread my comments are probably moot. my Master is above me, i am below Him. That's how we roll. my position in the relationship isn't about value it's about my station within the relationship. my station within the relationship is not about my position within the world. i am His slave, not submissive to the world at large, therefore there is no conflict whatsoever with my desire for a woman's right to choose or equal pay for equal work etc. As slave, i am expected to serve Him and even protect Him, should it come to that. i could not serve properly if i felt powerless within the world around me. i should be capable of doing battle with the cable company or insisting the dry-cleaners gets the shirts done properly. If i understood the original question, the problem was with the word 'pretend' and i can say that there have been times in my life where i had the utmost respect and fondness for a Dominant but yes, it was a weekend of fantasies fulfilled, honest and real submission for the period of time we were in each others presence but nothing more than that. It was a form of role-playing and certainly there was 'pretending' because of course it was understood that the relationship was not about a pairing, just scratching an itch. And yanno? there's not a darn thing wrong with that.

Poetryinpain -> RE: "Pretending I'm lesser" (4/10/2008 8:06:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: peppermint If she has to pretend....then this isn't for her....except as a certain kind of role play that doesn't interfer with reality. Yeah - people tell me that all the time - I should leave the scene because I'm not a real submissive. So what's wrong with a little role-playing? Those of us who compartmentalize our lives into vanilla life-BDSM play belong here just as much as 24/7 people do. If we are turned on by BDSM activities, and we need them for full enjoyment, why would others presume to tell us to get out of their playground? pip, puzzled

colouredin -> RE: "Pretending I'm lesser" (4/10/2008 8:11:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Poetryinpain quote: ORIGINAL: peppermint If she has to pretend....then this isn't for her....except as a certain kind of role play that doesn't interfer with reality. Yeah - people tell me that all the time - I should leave the scene because I'm not a real submissive. So what's wrong with a little role-playing? Those of us who compartmentalize our lives into vanilla life-BDSM play belong here just as much as 24/7 people do. If we are turned on by BDSM activities, and we need them for full enjoyment, why would others presume to tell us to get out of their playground? pip, puzzled Thats fine, why people dont accept that they want that is beyond me though. Also just because you want to engage in kink doesnt mean you have to pretend to be submissive, in fact you can adopt the term bottom if that makes you feel more comfy, there isnt true or real or anything, there is however self awareness, lying to others and yourself wont lead you to happiness. Just because some say 'just' in it for playing as though its a crime doesnt make it true, ignore that rubbish, do what you enjoy.

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