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Face Slapping - 4/9/2008 9:51:19 AM   
blckmlslv


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Status: offline 		I am probably not alone in my love for being bitch slapped. Recently, however, I was told that being slapped in the face could put one in danger of suffering a detached retina. Does anyone know anything about such a possibility?
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RE: Face Slapping - 4/9/2008 9:55:15 AM   
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RE: Face Slapping - 4/9/2008 10:40:50 AM   
blckmlslv


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RE: Face Slapping - 4/9/2008 11:48:54 AM   
thetammyjo


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Status: offline 		As with everything human beings do, there is always some risk. How much risk depends on experience and understanding and should be weighed before you do any activity.

Slapping is something I greatly enjoy but I never worry about causing damage because of the care I take when I do slap. No, it would not be classified as a "bitch slap" but probably a very intense display of authority and power between two people deeply connected to each other. Because I am fully aware that slapping can also have a profound emotional impact it is not something I do casually or often but that's my standard.

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RE: Face Slapping - 4/9/2008 12:06:46 PM   
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http://www.ecstagony.com/eng/info/artsaf/safeslap.htm


Dammit. Black eyes are so cute!

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RE: Face Slapping - 4/9/2008 12:28:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: darchChylde

http://www.ecstagony.com/eng/info/artsaf/safeslap.htm


I'd find another source of information...from the site disclaimer:

"The authors of this pages have no formal education in the matters published in this site, and they don't claim to be experts in the area.

The texts in this site cannot and should not be considered professional advice, but the opinions of laymen with some knowledge in the game. "

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RE: Face Slapping - 4/9/2008 5:06:35 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I can speak only for Myself, which seems to be a rather loud voice today.

My first slave, michael, had this as one of his hard limits.  It wasn't an acitivity that I explored until years later.  I didn't get into face slapping until I met My pet, at a much later opportunity.

I see it today as I do many other things.  Do your research.  Understand your top, and yourself.  Know what you are getting into before taking on this, or any other form of play.


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RE: Face Slapping - 4/9/2008 5:09:21 PM   
slvemike4u


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Status: offline 		A little "bitch slap"is  good thing.When the slapping leads to headaches is where i draw the line

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RE: Face Slapping - 4/9/2008 5:14:36 PM   
MistressRouge


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Status: offline 		As with all techniques, it is all about the Top's control in the wrist, varying the connection and impact.

I enjoy face-slapping, yet I adore more the leather gloved, face/chin grab, that alone can have the same impact, as a swift, sharp slap.

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RE: Face Slapping - 4/9/2008 6:53:41 PM   
SubJordanTyler


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Status: offline 		I've never been big on getting face slapped. but I have enjoyed being pulled by my hair, getting the face/chin grab as mentioned above, or having a hand around my neck like being choked.  Those have always worked for me.

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RE: Face Slapping - 4/9/2008 7:21:27 PM   
undergroundsea


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ORIGINAL: blckmlslv
Recently, however, I was told that being slapped in the face could put one in danger of suffering a detached retina. Does anyone know anything about such a possibility?


I do not consider myself an expert on the matter but here is what I have picked up from forum discussions and seminars. These points appeal to my intuition.

Face slapping has greater risk when it causes the neck or the head to jerk violenty. This scenario is most likely to occur when a slap is unexpected and delivered with great force. To mitigate this risk, one can reduce the force of the slap (especially when unexpected), allow preparation for the slap, or cradle the face in the other hand to prevent a whiplash motion.

It is best to aim the slap on the cheek. There is greater risk for injury if the slap lands on the temple or the ear. A slap delivered on the lower jaw, especially if the jaw is open, can also cause injury. A slap inadvertently delivered on the nose carries great risk of embarrassment for the top for having such bad aim ;-)

Making contact with the fingertips against the cheek is least likely to cause injury. I have heard at least one woman say she does not like sting and prefers the slap delivered with the palm for its heavier impact. The heavier impact, be it by weight of hand or by strength of delivery, can create mini-concussions.

All that said, I am a proponent of RACK.

Cheers,

Sea

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RE: Face Slapping - 4/9/2008 7:26:55 PM   
Lynnxz


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Status: offline 		I have heard (don't quote me on this),  that slapping with the fingers to the cheek, as your other hand is holding the other persons head, is safer.

That way, you are supporting their head to avoid whiplash, and using your fingers on the cheek controls the impact. Nothings ever absolutely safe, but there are better ways to do things I suppose.  I would guess that backhanding someone is a little less controlled, and more likely to hit closer to the eyes.

I have also heard, that a person who has received laser eye surgery, is more prone to eye injury from an impact like this.  I remember when I was in basic training, our DS saying something about certain types of laser surgery could disqualify you from joining the army, because a heavy impact could cause the lenses of your eyes to burst.... craziness. This could also be our DS's being odd again, but you never know.

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RE: Face Slapping - 4/9/2008 8:01:19 PM   
khem


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Status: offline 		If it's a light slap, I'll do it without holding someone's head.  For anything serious, I'll have my other hand on the other side of their face.  I have no desire to give someone a neck ache (or worse) for a week (or more).  I want my forms of torture to be deliberate and controled - not the result of fucking up.  Face slapping is something I enjoy, I'm getting all hot even thinking about it 

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RE: Face Slapping - 4/9/2008 8:45:59 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		If you do it wrong you can break an ear drum, damage the eye socket, detach the retina, break the jaw. This is very edgy play and requires people to know what they're doing and to be willing to take the risks. Since I've got implants in both eyes, it's way too risky for me.

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RE: Face Slapping - 4/9/2008 9:58:58 PM   
MsBearlee


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Status: offline 		Very edgy play…perhaps if one winds up like a world-class pitcher!  Everything is relative.  If someone cradles a face in one hand and lightly slaps a cheek…winding from the wrist, not the shoulder…how on earth is that very edgy play? 

Nobody is gonna loose an eye or a tooth with a slap about as rough on the face as flopping in bed from a standing position.  I don’t wanna scare the newbies.

Having said that, supporting a face and head with one hand and landing a slap on my guy’s face, who is expecting it…a slap sharp enough to bring tears to his eyes as I tell him again to open his mouth (bouncing my strap-on off his chin) and smiling as he keeps his mouth closed…wincing and waiting for yet another slap.  He loves it…I love it.  I like to see my fingerprints appear on his face, I love to see his eyes well up; his nose begin to run as he chokes back his tears…resolutely shaking his head one more time.  He wants yet another slap and when he gets it, he sucks my dick like a man who frequents glory holes…released to his abandon, pretending he was forced.  It’s a game we like to play, but hardly edgy.
 
Okay, that one was for you, sweetie.
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RE: Face Slapping - 4/9/2008 10:15:04 PM   
aidan


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ORIGINAL: MsBearlee

Having said that, supporting a face and head with one hand and landing a slap on my guy’s face, who is expecting it…a slap sharp enough to bring tears to his eyes as I tell him again to open his mouth (bouncing my strap-on off his chin) and smiling as he keeps his mouth closed…wincing and waiting for yet another slap.  He loves it…I love it.  I like to see my fingerprints appear on his face, I love to see his eyes well up; his nose begin to run as he chokes back his tears…resolutely shaking his head one more time.  He wants yet another slap and when he gets it, he sucks my dick like a man who frequents glory holes…released to his abandon, pretending he was forced.  It’s a game we like to play, but hardly edgy.



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RE: Face Slapping - 4/9/2008 10:38:32 PM   
liks2plzlf


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Status: offline 		A mans slap could cause injury. A womens slap!!! LMAO

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RE: Face Slapping - 4/9/2008 11:40:23 PM   
Lynnxz


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ORIGINAL: liks2plzlf

A mans slap could cause injury. A womens slap!!! LMAO


Someone's asking for it 

Haha

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RE: Face Slapping - 4/10/2008 4:48:38 AM   
chezzy52


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Status: offline 		Face slapping is a limit with me...not a hard one but a limit nonetheless.I don't like it and i never have seeing i was slapped hard in the face at a wedding for no reason whatsoever.The woman doing the slapping really hauled off because i accidentally brushed her boob as i was turning to carry drinks from the bar.That happened in the days when i had a hair-trigger temper so let's us just say what followed wasn't pleasant..no i didn't strike her...but i made it clear that her actions were unacceptable and if i had to..next time i would hit back and then looked at her boyfriend who was a good friend of mine and said.."and you won't do a damn thing about it either".Of course i have had a serious attitude adjustment since then..oh hell that was 34 years ago.I am not one of those types to run to a local play party and be humiliated in front of others.I am very private about my life and what i wish to achieve but i wish for all of it to be behind closed doors or gates or whatever.

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RE: Face Slapping - 4/10/2008 5:23:09 AM   
MsBearlee


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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

quote:

ORIGINAL: liks2plzlf

A mans slap could cause injury. A womens slap!!! LMAO


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