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Scent Driven - 4/10/2008 6:06:16 AM

selena123

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Being a therapist and hearing patients throughout the years that have these submissive tendencies, ignited a spark for the Dominant Female that laid dormant in me. Since joining this site, reading the forums and delving with intensity in the world of Female Supremacy via literature of the subject, I have finally taken on a male slave. What I have found is that this man is driven with intensity by my scent. He is extremely fixated by the smell of my feet. The sweatier, the better! I own a home 5 states away from primary residents and travel frequently. My slave insists (begs} for me not to freshen up when he picks me up from the station. His passion for the raw musky scent of my Woman hood and backside drives him insane with lust, servitude, and desire. Leaving him extremely agreeable to all my needs, wants, and desires. I question what is driving him? Is it just the scent of a Woman? Or my persona, ownership, and enslavement of him? I am looking for opinions from My Sisters in Dominance and slaves.
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RE: Scent Driven - 4/10/2008 6:40:21 AM

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The nose is a very powerful organ. Smells bypass thought and go straight to primitive parts of the brain. If this wasn't so, then perfume companies, candle companies and soap makers wouldn't do so well.

Whether it's an apple pie baking that makes you think of your grandmother's house when you were young, or a pair of unwashed panties put into a ziplock bag and mailed to him to arouse him in your absence, it works.

This is a trigger to his sexuality and submission, stronger in him than in others. Don't try to undo it, learn how to use it for your advantage. If he does something wrong, then make him wash you off with a strong deodorant soap so he himself sees the connection between his disobedience and losing the smell he wants. If he goes above and beyond in devotion, give him said panties in a ziplock to take home. Good boys get to kneel with nose in your crotch, bad ones sit in chairs on the other side of the room.

Make him earn what he wants. Knowing you do smell so wonderful and only being allowed small sniffs should help teach him to hop to it when you issue an order.

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RE: Scent Driven - 4/10/2008 10:53:32 AM

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Agreed, as a training measure, this can be quite effective.
i, like Your sub, am tuned into fragrances. it tends, at least in my case, to be person specific. There are fragrances that i might find difficult to deal with elsewhere that are quite welcome from my desired, or well known one. it seems strange at times, but tends to be rather delightful.

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RE: Scent Driven - 4/10/2008 1:26:11 PM

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This seems like a good topic for submissive men to respond to...

As a domme I am quite feral, so smells and tastes are important. I like to take a man's scent and to bite/kiss him in places where I can breathe him in--around the neck in particular. I can live without cologne, but I enjoy it when a man picks one that suits him and uses it well--a light mist over warm skin is best, and the chest/abdomen is a good place to put it.

Personal observation: most men of any orientation seem to get a lot of romantic/sexual data from the way a woman smells--that's why they sniff her hair when they embrace her (or steal her underwear as a trophy, for that matter). Shampoo and soap, perfume, sweat, sex...they pick up on all those things.

I once worked all day in a soundbooth with a young bluegrass musician, trying to cut the soundtrack for a short video. He finally worked up the courage at the end of the day to tell me that I "smelled exactly like his ex-girlfriend"--over whom he was still "messed up" apparently. Poor guy...six hours of torture...

I was mildly mortified, because I normally don't think of myself as a woman whose scent fills up a room, but apparently some men are MUCH more sensitive than others, especially when there are emotions involved. Seems like your boy is one of those--I have a good friend whose submissive husband is much the same, and is always dying to be queened before she takes her shower after work, rather than after.

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RE: Scent Driven - 4/10/2008 1:31:54 PM

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Pheromones are powerful things, and if I remember correctly, they are secreted through sweat. It's not so much the "tangible" smell that's driving him wild, I think, as the one that's striking him back in the most primal parts of his mind.

Similarly, it's been proven that smell is most closely linked to memories and emotions. The smell of fresh-baked cookies may make you remember being a child in your mother's kitchen; for victims of a traumatic experience, the smell of smoke may trigger a panic.

Personally I can't stand the smell of man-sweat or woman-sweat, but I will say that when my boy wears his Acqua di Gio aftershave, I go freaking wild. THAT, if you ask me, is my darling's smell!

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RE: Scent Driven - 4/10/2008 1:50:02 PM

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I cannot think of any one kind of smell I enjoy to an abnormal degree. I really don't pick up on smells too often, even those of my Owner. I've always been more auditory/mentally charged when it comes to such things. Sounds and ideas will turn me on like there's no tomorrow. However, I supposed there are a few interesting things to note.

I love the smell of her bodywash, and I have my own bottle of it. I do sleep in a T-shirt of hers, with panties she bought me, with Vlad(my stuffed fox she got me), a quilt she gave me...and of course, with her collar around my neck. This, within itself, isn't scent based, since I've washed the T-shirt and it smells like me moreso than it does like her by now. I just like the mental aspect of sleeping and being kept clothed, warm, and safe by what she's given me. Kind of like a total reminder at the end of the night of just who I'm owned by.

So yes, I'm not very scent driven at all. I don't think there's any one smell that's guranteed to turn me on in and of itself...

Angel on the other hand...well...from what I understand he's been trained to be entirely dependant on the smell of baby oil.

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RE: Scent Driven - 4/10/2008 2:53:56 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama

This seems like a good topic for submissive men to respond to...

Hehe, reporting for duty, Ma'am! *salutes*

I know that who I like and enjoy spending time with in general, even outside of a sexual nature, relies heavily upon scent. Folks I like usually have pleasant scents, or at least they become pleasant. People I don't like tend to have foul smells about them, and people I don't really know smell kind of neutral (beyond just "Hey, that's another human" recognition).

The women I've been sexually attracted to, all have had distinct and very memorable scents, pleasing to the nose and tongue. Getting a good whiff sets me off to being an eager, lustful, giddy boy. ^__^

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RE: Scent Driven - 4/12/2008 11:26:06 AM

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I love the smells. Smelling a womans dirty luandry is hot, or being around her and smelling her body odor is highly arousing.

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RE: Scent Driven - 4/12/2008 4:16:39 PM

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As a foot fetishist myself and lover of the female body i also belong in the category of the original scent that comes from the Lady i am to be serving. The scent is a unique mark of the D and there is a need for the submissive to get to know the authentic scent that only the comes from the Mistress's body. Like any pet identifies his owner by scent i would also feel the same need to have imprinted and registered in my brain the authentic scent that comes from my owner, and that is from any part of Her body. i would love to tongue clean before Her shower!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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