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RE: Addicted - 4/10/2008 9:52:03 PM

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*hands BR a hanky*   It'll be ok.

Thank you red.......

Carb withdrawal and Hitachi withdrawal at the same time!!

Maybe I'll up my caffeine?!

Oh my gosh, yes! Soul sister!

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RE: Addicted - 4/10/2008 9:57:40 PM

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Oh my gosh, yes! Soul sister!

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RE: Addicted - 4/11/2008 7:22:47 PM

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I agree... frequent use of any one thing can become addicted. I found that I have had to have this discussion (with a lot of clients over the years) to stop masturbating. They had become so use to their own hand that orgasm became difficult from any other mean... A woman's body, mouth or who or whatever body part was not able to suffice from the perfect fit that one's own hand could perform...

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RE: Addicted - 4/11/2008 8:19:14 PM

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I could only come from a vibrator for years and years because that is what I got used to do doing. With my Sir, we didn't use vibes very often and we still don't. Now, when we use the Hitachi or one of the other vibrators I'm able to have wonderful orgasms. However, I now prefer sex or his fingers to any other way. Give the vibe up for awhile and see what happens.

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RE: Addicted - 4/11/2008 8:23:26 PM

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i caved. i'm trying. really, i swear i am. it's back in the drawer now. cross my heart.

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RE: Addicted - 4/11/2008 8:25:23 PM

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Well my Master is now the keeper of my Hitachi...........

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I am soooooooo gonna be

with no Hitachi and no orgasms!

*wonders how long it will take to reset my cum button*

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RE: Addicted - 4/11/2008 8:51:47 PM

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i have no master to keep mine from me. i'm wondering the same thing, hon!

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RE: Addicted - 4/11/2008 10:08:51 PM

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geesh! i'm going to have to go out and get myself a Hitachi and see what all the fuss is about..

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RE: Addicted - 4/12/2008 4:44:32 AM

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geesh! i'm going to have to go out and get myself a Hitachi and see what all the fuss is about..

I was just thinking the same thing. I am just not sure if I want a LTR. I wonder if Best Rental carries them.......

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RE: Addicted - 4/12/2008 5:13:21 AM

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geesh! i'm going to have to go out and get myself a Hitachi and see what all the fuss is about..

i call mine my "sleeping pill" it gives you one of those really hard orgasms...i like it right before bed...knocks me out.

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RE: Addicted - 4/12/2008 5:40:53 AM

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{ stop using the vibe... }

< Message edited by TysGalilah -- 4/12/2008 5:46:58 AM >

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RE: Addicted - 4/12/2008 5:44:33 AM

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What??? Too much information????

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RE: Addicted - 4/12/2008 5:50:28 AM

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What??? Too much information????

grinz and too much reality!
life with no vibe???? ack!

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RE: Addicted - 4/13/2008 5:38:13 AM

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geesh! i'm going to have to go out and get myself a Hitachi and see what all the fuss is about..

It's like no other vibe. I REALLY recommend it. My Sir likes to tie me to the bed and torture me with the Hitachi. I love my Sir.

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RE: Addicted - 4/13/2008 6:34:06 AM

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Someone got a link to somewhere that carries this article - as a UK-based person I've never heard of one and admit now I'm mighty intrigued.

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RE: Addicted - 4/13/2008 6:45:01 AM

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It could also be the position you are in when you use it. (I've had that happen to myself) I get into a routine of masturbating in the same position, and after a while, it gets to where I can't bring myself to orgasm in any other way. Some sort of odd "body memory" or Pavlovian response going on. The only way to fight it is to wait, let the need build up for awhile, and then start in again deliberately using different stances.

The problem with toys like 120v vibes is: it's like having a player piano, instead of learning to play the insturment yourself. It's sooo easy to just let the machine do the work... So, you get the response, but far less of the satisfaction. (IMHO)

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RE: Addicted - 4/13/2008 9:42:20 AM

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oops..

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RE: Addicted - 4/13/2008 9:43:29 AM

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i had something similar once upon a time.. Hitachi is just way too good.. My advice would be, hard as it is, take a break.. You'll be more relaxed and more open to any kind of stimulation within a week or so.. Worked for me at least.. x

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RE: Addicted - 4/13/2008 9:46:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: Deliena

Someone got a link to somewhere that carries this article - as a UK-based person I've never heard of one and admit now I'm mighty intrigued.

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=1993

Just an example Deliena.. you can get them from other sources much cheaper, imported from America for example.. they're quite widely available within the UK infact if you shop around :) x

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RE: Addicted - 4/13/2008 9:47:07 AM

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stop using the vibe for a while.

Don't masturbate for a couple of days, even a week or more. It will allow your clit to become sensitive, not to mention you'll be horny as hell.

That's what works for Me anyway.

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