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Personality turn offs. - 4/11/2008 8:41:29 AM

Leatherist

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I think the ones I have dealt with in the past that got to me the most was the victim complex. Seriously-you cannot win in that situation. I really DO try to be positive for the most part.

Anyine else want to join my rant over the negative personality aspects we seem to run across?

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RE: Personality turn offs. - 4/11/2008 8:43:59 AM

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My current fav is the pushy submissive male that turns into an insult spewing monster when he doesn't get his way.

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RE: Personality turn offs. - 4/11/2008 8:44:06 AM

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People who operate in "always a crisis" mode. Every day, there is a new crisis, usually of their own making.

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RE: Personality turn offs. - 4/11/2008 8:44:57 AM

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The good old "my molehill is your mountain" thing kinda got to me as well.

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RE: Personality turn offs. - 4/11/2008 8:47:07 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Leatherist
Anyine else want to join my rant over the negative personality aspects we seem to run across?

Well, it's a tie between giggly, vapid airheads who talk and talk and never really say anything and the opposite end of the spectrum - bitter, cynical grouches who try to assure themselves and everyone else that the "happy" people aren't really as happy as they say/think they are. One type is about as grating as the other - just in very different ways.

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RE: Personality turn offs. - 4/11/2008 8:50:35 AM

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What about Doms who think and act like they are holier than now or gods gift to woman and they really pushy. That right there is a BIG turnoff.

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RE: Personality turn offs. - 4/11/2008 8:52:30 AM

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What about Doms who think and act like they are holier than now or gods gift to woman and they really pushy. That right there is a BIG turnoff.

They would make a great match for the "twue slaves" who set the bar at about the height of the moon, and then whine that no one is good enough to meet thier standards.

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RE: Personality turn offs. - 4/11/2008 8:54:35 AM

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Vanity and control-freakery: major deal breakers.

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RE: Personality turn offs. - 4/11/2008 8:55:20 AM

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"I am the DOMLIEST DOM MASTER CAPTAIN SINGLETAIL PANTS EVAR! You aren't lifestyle? You suck!"

>.< I do not like egos. They make me vaguely nauseous.... then there are the doms that are pushy... but after you turn them down, they get huffy, and declare that they didn't need you anyways... they have more slaves than they need at home at the mansion anyway!

Hehe. ^_^

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RE: Personality turn offs. - 4/11/2008 8:57:39 AM

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You mean mother thumb, and her four daughters?

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RE: Personality turn offs. - 4/11/2008 9:01:54 AM

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The subs that write to me in a first time email asking to move in with me and be my slave forever, the Doms that have a submissive side and all but propose in their first email if I'll only let them live it out, and all other signs of desperation. The other is the taunter - "I'll be you can't leave a hand print on my butt." (I'll bet you're right because with that attitude I'm never coming close to you! LOL)

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RE: Personality turn offs. - 4/11/2008 9:05:50 AM

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For Me, there are five ( and sadly it seems the majority of the males I meet fall in to these categories)--

1. i am, i'm not, i am , i'm not--uhm let me think about it and i'll get back to you.

2. i have a Mistress but want time with you cuz your neat.

3. i am here to serve you, but ( it has to be on my terms)

4. oohhgoody, i can be naked all the time with my winkie all ready for you and my ass all read for your strap-om--let's go!

5. yes you are the Mistress but i AM a man and i have more experience

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RE: Personality turn offs. - 4/11/2008 9:06:06 AM

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My Biggest Turnoff, The ones who set demands and boundries and rules before I have even decided I am even interested in them as a person yet. Before you tell me that you require Me as your Master to Respect your No Other Partners rule, you should first make sure I WANT to be a partner of yours first ..... shouldn't you?

Other than that is Negativity. Turn Off Instantly. When someone starts getting negative no matter how perfect they are on paper they are as worthless to me as tits on a nun.

::NOTE:: It is One thing to be upset about a situation but the Defeatist Attitude and General Negativity about a Situation or Group of people serves no point. To be clear Racism is Retarded. Have a reason to hate the individal not use an individual to hate the race.

I am Currently just LOVING (Dripping with Sarcasm) the "I want you to Beat me, Hurt me, Use me, Fuck me, Take me, Break me, right after you accept that all my insecurities will keep me from ever being able to actually meet with you in person ...... EVER" , Type. This type is my Favorite so far because no matter what you present to them they find some other reason why they need more time but in the mean time they flirt and tell you how "Different" you are and how "Refreshing it is to meet someone who cares the way you do" and how they have "always wanted to be with someone who felt the way you do" yet every discussion on meeting ends in more excuses or total dissapearance of the person at hand.

I am not interested in switching but I am SICK AS HELL of Dom's who have this superiority complex and inform every sub they talk to that whatever kind of relationship they are in, it is lacking something and that they are worth getting everything they want and then when the sub tells the dom that they are happy where they are they are called "Fakes" or "Cyber Teases" I have a friend who has been sending me the E-mails she gets from certain Dom's ... She will send me The Whole Series if it gets really ugly and I gotta say. Some of the Doms who post on these forums, They are TOTALLY two faced. They say one thing here and then when under cover of C-Mail they become EXACXTLY what the Profess AGAINST on the forums. It's Funny actually.

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RE: Personality turn offs. - 4/11/2008 9:15:55 AM

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My worst ones are the time wasters. People I will never meet, who want to spend endless time picking my brain for ideas they will never use.

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RE: Personality turn offs. - 4/11/2008 9:16:32 AM

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I have to say it's the perpetual "victim" for me as well. The ones that can't even have a discussion where you might disagree because to have a different opinion "hurts their feelings." That's when I have to just smile and politely excuse myself.

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RE: Personality turn offs. - 4/11/2008 9:17:44 AM

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Drama......unending drama.
No sense of humour.
I know everything, you know nothing.
My way is the right way, if you don't agree with my way, you are WRONG!
Whiners.

And let us not forget.......STUPIDITY!

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RE: Personality turn offs. - 4/11/2008 9:18:13 AM

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I have to say it's the perpetual "victim" for me as well. The ones that can't even have a discussion where you might disagree because to have a different opinion "hurts their feelings." That's when I have to just smile and politely excuse myself.

God forbid you tell them to get over themselves-they tend to explode.

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RE: Personality turn offs. - 4/11/2008 9:27:40 AM

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I don't really let others get me down. Fuck 'em, life is just too short.

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RE: Personality turn offs. - 4/11/2008 9:34:24 AM

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The 'angry at the world & it's not my fault the entire world sucks' attitude.Or the 'I am owed more than I have achieved' attitude. Hmmm now that I think about it, the one that bugs me most atm is the 'I'm not a man who faces his responsibilities because 'its not my fault' that I drove drunk because 'the world owes me more than I have achieved' combo that causes a lifetime of deceit and law breaking! Ohwow no more caffeine today. I promise!

Maturity or lack of, is what it boils down to.

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RE: Personality turn offs. - 4/11/2008 9:35:42 AM

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Well.when I see these traits these days-I will just point them out. And I will basically offer a choice-knock it off-or go away. It seems to work for me-you get what you put up with.

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