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MsStarlett -> RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. (4/17/2008 3:39:57 AM)
Sorry to hear that one didn't work out for you, Venus.

MistressVnus -> RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. (4/17/2008 5:29:12 AM)
quote: Sorry to hear that one didn't work out for you, Venus. Thank you for your thoughts. I'm a bit sad myself. But, life goes on. And, everything happens for a reason. A new candidate has already proven to be much more honest, forthright, and with similar SPIRITUAL beliefs. And he even talks about things besides bdsm. chuckle I'm finding that a rarity, in and of itself.

Skully7000 -> RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. (4/17/2008 6:43:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xBullx I get contacted about this. I think I scare the fuck out of the females that want it though. I don't allow any conditions in any encounter I have with others. That in itself seems to thrill them until they discover I'm quite serious. I guess if you really want a cuckhold situation the Bull won't be submitting to anyone. His will reigns supreme. I completely disagree with this. I've been a bull a few times... more so from a Poly situation (the Poly relationship was the primary reason, the cuckolding play was an added bonus to the couple) but while I was not Dominated by the women I accepted her limits and she had to accept mine. we were power equal. sometimes we would act as though we were elite High Society with that air of Smuggness. Other times I was more of a Cool Uncle " listen... you are going about things all wrong ...if your really want to please her you have to Gyrate your hips more... thats How I get her to scream in pleasure" I guess the most important thing to establish is what kind of relationship YOU(as the female and the V in the poly relationship) want the Bull and the Cuck to have. once you establish that... find someone you like and actually want to fuck. present them with the situation and from there its up to them to accept it or walk away:) Cheers Skully

hairslave -> RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. (4/18/2008 5:06:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressVnus quote: I guess if you really want a cuckhold situation the Bull won't be submitting to anyone. His will reigns supreme. I don't think that is actually the "norm" (if there is such a thing) in a cuck situation regarding a FemDomme and her slave. It's more like humiliating him by witholding from him and forcing him to see what he is missing. Humiliation. Tease/denial. Emotional sadism. These seem to be more the elements a FemDomme might be looking for. The Bull, to me, would be for HER sexual pleasure and as a tool to torment her slave. I just had a conversation with a Bull that had your attitude. A Dominant Bull. Needless to say. The conversation didn't last long. I would think a "kinkster" or Alpha type sub would suit my needs better. IF, and only if, my planned scenario comes to pass. All is still in very inital stages. And, might all fall through. However, the thought of it all made me want to investiage the procedures others might have found successful in finding the right Bull(s) for their situations. i am intrigued by the power dynamics involved in cuckolding but, i am personally not into anything with a another guy involved and,… yes as i have read on the boards before, this seems to be the power dynamics of cuckolding but,.. i would add in this life style, the Domme decides the Who, When, and Where, solely for her pleasure in it and, not for any one else’s.

hairslave -> RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. (4/18/2008 5:56:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Madame4a Fascinating discussion ladies.. and gentlemen ... this is something very new to me, perhaps mostly because I'm a dyke and so the whole cuck thing has never been something I've been exposed to. It seems, to me, to be something from the Fem Domme and hetero side of things? Its fascinating... [sm=mademyday.gif] /[ qoute ] i am intrigued with the thought of the power dynamics held be the Woman involved in a Femdom cuckolding situation. i would not be interest in anything with a guy in it but,… have you ever thought of having a guy just for You two Women to use as You saw fit ?! i would be a welling cuck to be used by two Women, and,… no I would not need to witch !., but i could be kept in chastity for two Woman who may be intimate with each other but,... who would wish to use me in a cuck situation while I am only there to enhance ( “ serve “ ) They’re life out side of the bedroom. Lou intriguing this is the closes I would be to being a cuck. .

alphaleague -> RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. (4/19/2008 1:19:42 AM)
Most guys who claim this is what they want have never ever experianced it and I think would not be able to handle it. This is something that has to be taken in small steps and with a lot of communication at each step. It takes an extremely strong relationship and in my mind this will not be done the same for any two couples that do it. Since it is not, in reality, a widespread practice people have a lot of misconceptions on dynamics. There are a huge amount of roadblocks and issues with this lifestyle (Std's to jealously). But it can be done and I know because I was in such a relationship. The attraction to it for me was that it was an extremely high form of control. As a cuck I had never felt so "owned" by someone else. There... my three cents.

hairslave -> RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. (4/19/2008 6:09:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: alphaleague Most guys who claim this is what they want have never ever experianced it and I think would not be able to handle it. This is something that has to be taken in small steps and with a lot of communication at each step. It takes an extremely strong relationship and in my mind this will not be done the same for any two couples that do it. Since it is not, in reality, a widespread practice people have a lot of misconceptions on dynamics. There are a huge amount of roadblocks and issues with this lifestyle (Std's to jealously). But it can be done and I know because I was in such a relationship. The attraction to it for me was that it was an extremely high form of control. As a cuck I had never felt so "owned" by someone else. There... my three cents. Yes I would agree than it is the most ultrament (extreme) form of control. To be used in that way is the ultrament extreme in gratification for the cuckoldress, wile being the most humiliating for the cuck. The cuckoldress is in absolute control. I guess it’s the absolute control aspic that intrigues me a but it. And yes, one would have to take things a step at a time, in such a relationship.

MadameMarque -> RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. (4/19/2008 8:02:51 AM)
If I did something of this nature, it would be with two mates to me, one of them more alpha than the other. I wouldn't be interested in bringing in a casual sex partner.

ElanSubdued -> RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. (4/19/2008 8:56:09 AM)
MistressVnus, --- And he even talks about things besides bdsm. very confused scratches head Other things besides BDSM? What is this anomaly, this shift in the space-time continuum of which you speak? Elan.

MistressVnus -> RE: Grabbin a BULL by the horns. (4/19/2008 10:27:43 AM)
quote: Other things besides BDSM? What is this anomaly, this shift in the space-time continuum of which you speak? I guess I he didn't like talking about other things so much, after all. Profile now deleted...ROFLMAO. I just have to laugh at this point. However, seems one is removed, and even yet ANOTHER takes his place. looking to see how long the line is It has become quite entertaining, this search, to say the least.[sm=rofl.gif]

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