What have you found to Disappoint you Most as a Master?

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JessCBKlilweirdo -> What have you found to Disappoint you Most as a Master? (4/11/2008 4:31:18 PM)
Greetings Master's Greetings Misstress Greetings serves I was wondering what can a slave do to disappoint you more then anything? and or What has a slave done to dissappoint you? Well wishes jess his lilweirdo

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: What have you found to Disappoint you Most as a Master? (4/11/2008 4:35:26 PM)
Not live up to their potential when we both know they could.

sirsholly -> RE: What have you found to Disappoint you Most as a Master? (4/11/2008 4:41:35 PM)
be a doormat

JessCBKlilweirdo -> RE: What have you found to Disappoint you Most as a Master? (4/11/2008 4:45:06 PM)
greetings holly how can someone be a doormat in your eyes? Just curious today. ( oy curious uh oh i might be getting the whip tonight) well wishes jess his lil weirdo

sirsholly -> RE: What have you found to Disappoint you Most as a Master? (4/11/2008 5:01:51 PM)
grettings JessCBKlilweirdo, First..i am a submissive married to my Dom. Perhaps doormat was the wrong term or i should have added "passive" with it. When we first met there was not the D/s dynamic between us(meaning he was not MY Dom and i was not HIS submissive...we were friends) and he saw my true personality...opinionated, strong, not afraid to speak my mind, etc. THIS is the person he wanted. After we were together I sometimes felt i was topping from the bottom or acting too much like a Domme and i tied to tone it down a bit only to find out he hated that. I can and sometimes do cross the line and push his buttons but a look...a change in his voice..a smack on the butt....lets me know when to stop. I am not sure this made any sense...i hope it did.

JessCBKlilweirdo -> RE: What have you found to Disappoint you Most as a Master? (4/11/2008 5:11:26 PM)
Yes thank you. you can call me jess sometimes i feel I top from bottom but Master has made it known when my fiesty red headed tongue has pushed his limits thank you again always jess his lil wierdo

sirsholly -> RE: What have you found to Disappoint you Most as a Master? (4/11/2008 5:15:43 PM)
Jess, i am a redhead as well. Hmmm...methinks i see a pattern. The bottom like is if your dynamic works for you don't worry about the "norm"...cause i'll tell you a secret...there isn't one. holly

SteelofUtah -> RE: What have you found to Disappoint you Most as a Master? (4/11/2008 6:07:17 PM)
Disappointment is at times something EASY to do and also very hard. If I see a girl Try and Really give it all she has got she can Fail and Fail and Fail and I will be NOTHING but proud. I get Disappointed when I know they can achieve something and give me an excuse that they tried thier hardest and then admit that they could have done more. It just makes me feel that I am not worth the effort. I get Disappointed when someone gives excuses rather than just admitting they did wrong. I get disappointed when someone won't take responsibility for themselves. Steel

DesFIP -> RE: What have you found to Disappoint you Most as a Master? (4/11/2008 6:24:58 PM)
Not tell him what's going on inside me that causes me to make the decisions I do.

Leatherist -> RE: What have you found to Disappoint you Most as a Master? (4/11/2008 6:49:57 PM)
Someone claiming to service, when all they really wanted was a nanny to coddle thier dysfunctional asses.

Real_Trouble -> RE: What have you found to Disappoint you Most as a Master? (4/11/2008 9:22:23 PM)
The thing that most disappoints me is lying and other breaches of trust, hands down.

Leatherist -> RE: What have you found to Disappoint you Most as a Master? (4/11/2008 9:47:12 PM)
And the biggest lies are the ones that we tell ourselves.

robertolapiedra -> RE: What have you found to Disappoint you Most as a Master? (4/12/2008 12:54:48 AM)
Hello JessCBKKlilwierdo. Screw up the coffee. That's the surest red flag you will ever find! RL.

slaveluci -> RE: What have you found to Disappoint you Most as a Master? (4/12/2008 5:58:07 AM)
To the best of my knowledge, the thing I've done to disappoint Him most was to keep worries and concerns to myself. I would silently stew over them and think I was "sparing" Him the misery or aggravation of them. Basically, according to His own personal definition of "topping from the bottom," that was instead what I was doing. He was not amused. It doesn't happen anymore[:)]................luci

RavenMuse -> RE: What have you found to Disappoint you Most as a Master? (4/12/2008 6:12:03 AM)
One of the worst is lack of effort, not trying. Regardless if they are going through the motions and 'technicaly' obaying, a lack of effort is NOT pleasing. I expect better. quote: ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah If I see a girl Try and Really give it all she has got she can Fail and Fail and Fail and I will be NOTHING but proud. Case in point and compleat agreement! The important part is giving 100%, achieving or not achieving the set task is much less important.

Sirandlil1 -> RE: What have you found to Disappoint you Most as a Master? (4/12/2008 6:45:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah If I see a girl Try and Really give it all she has got she can Fail and Fail and Fail and I will be NOTHING but proud. Steel Try not. Do or do not, there is no try. -- Yoda

RedAnhedonia -> RE: What have you found to Disappoint you Most as a Master? (4/12/2008 7:49:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly Jess, i am a redhead as well. Hmmm...methinks i see a pattern. The bottom like is if your dynamic works for you don't worry about the "norm"...cause i'll tell you a secret...there isn't one. holly Hmmm yes a pattern has been created! As a Redhead, sub, I often find myself 'topping from the bottom' even when I don't mean to, and most oft I feel ashamed once I have done.

antipode -> RE: What have you found to Disappoint you Most as a Master? (4/12/2008 9:10:58 AM)
Subs that lie - not out of malice, but telling me what they think I want to hear, and, on a couple of occasions, hiding an addiction. Addictions are curious (pot smoking, bulimia) - some young women hang on to them, subconsciously, because they are part of what defines their personality. The underlying supposition is often "He'll never get another juicy young piece of ass like me, so I can get away with anything". Not realizing, of course, that there are a lot more young asses than that there are old asses.

SteelofUtah -> RE: What have you found to Disappoint you Most as a Master? (4/12/2008 10:31:54 AM)
I get really disappointed when the sub gets her chocolate in my Peanutbutter but accuses me of getting peanut butter in her chocolate. Steel

LostLovedKnight -> RE: What have you found to Disappoint you Most as a Master? (4/12/2008 11:57:04 AM)
Lying would definitely be at the top of the list. I absolutely detest someone mis-representing themselves. The two things that I find that potential subs lie the most about is 1. Looks and 2. Their true nature. For someone to lie about their looks is just so ridiculous to me to defy explaination. Afterall, do they think I am not going to notice the first time we meet? It insults my integrity and my intelligence. As far as lying about their nature. I really hate it when someone that does not have a submissive bone in their body wastes so much time and energy trying to convince me or themselves that they are submissive. Just ask me about the time a "sub" decided it would be a good idea to grab the paddle and smack me. lol

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