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RE: Profile - 4/14/2008 3:17:54 AM   
Goddess2002


Posts: 226
Joined: 2/29/2008
Status: offline 		I really think Stephan's link is right on the money...I would've recommended it if he hadn't already. Excellent advice there.

Glad you'll be changing your username...generally speaking it is a major disqualifier. Also, although I appreciate your candor about your marriage (you are 100% correct in being upfront about it), understand that it is a limiting factor, especially since you specify a preference for non-pro Dommes. Also, a photograph would help.

Also...perhaps it's just Me but all your journal entries about not finding what you want can be tiresome...they suggest impatience and self-centeredness. I would start from scratch in your new profile.



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RE: Profile - 4/14/2008 5:09:08 AM   
undergroundsea


Posts: 2400
Joined: 6/27/2004
From: Austin, TX
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Stephann


FYI, my spyware blocking software gives a spyware warning for tinyurl.com

It could be the spyware software is wrong, it could be that tinyurl does do something in return for offering its service. In any case, since you are using a hyperlink, have you considered using the URL for the collarme thread directly?

Thanks for sharing the thread.

Cheers,

Sea

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RE: Profile - 4/14/2008 7:27:09 AM   
Mustardseed


Posts: 291
Joined: 5/27/2006
From: Seattle, WA
Status: offline 		I agree with the other folks who've been posting. Your profile reads like your assuming that women will be applying for the position of dominant rather than the fact that you're trying to apply for the position of submissive. Like with any other resume, the point is to sell yourself to the dominant. What can you do for her? What kind of service can you provide her? Professional-level massage? Driving? Errands? Housecleaning? Yard work? Cooking? Auto repair? Secretarial / administrative? How are you useful? If you don't think that you're all that useful at present, what are you willing to do to change that? There are community colleges and beauty schools that offer classes in basics. If you start to pursue that route then you could detail your progress in your blog here rather than complain about how you still haven't found a dominant yet. Be positive and proactive by actively working towards your goal.

Don't assume that your checklist says everything else the reader needs to know -- flesh out what makes you unique in your written profile. Why should you be considered a prize? Why are you such a wonderful submissive that a dominant should be willing to sidestep the constrains of your marriage just to take you on?

And please change the username. If you must describe your penis, you could say something like:
  • an ideal starter size for anal sex
  • does an excellent helicopter impression depending on rope tricks used
  • easily tucked away into a gaf for cross-dressing purposes

Given that I can't think of too many reasons why this would be necessary to state in your profile, though, maybe you could wait until she asks.

Photos of you -- clothed -- that either have your face blurred out, are taken from a distance, giving a back view or that otherwise dismiss your face could be useful if anonymity is important to you.

I also agree that fleshing out the information about you as a person and your interests in the day-to-day world will help your profile stand out more.

Good luck!

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RE: Profile - 4/14/2008 7:52:40 AM   
Dnomyar


Posts: 7933
Joined: 6/27/2005
Status: offline 		I have to agree with the others here. needledick is not going to get it. You should try peckerhead. You need to learn to be more creative. Good grief the pot calling the kettle black. Sorry about that.

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RE: Profile - 4/14/2008 9:31:07 AM   
undergroundsea


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Joined: 6/27/2004
From: Austin, TX
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Mustardseed
And please change the username. If you must describe your penis, you could say something like:
  • an ideal starter size for anal sex
  • does an excellent helicopter impression depending on rope tricks used
  • easily tucked away into a gaf for cross-dressing purposes



I once participated in a slave auction at an Fm party. Each slave was given a ridiculing name. I was named slave needledick. Umm, the names were assigned arbitrarily ;-)

Anyway, each slave was put in a cage when it was his turn, at which point he read an introduction of self. I said that I was skilled in foot massages. I added that I did not know reflexology or any other holistic health modalities but given my name I suppose I could provide vaginal acupuncture ;-)

Cheers,

Sea

< Message edited by undergroundsea -- 4/14/2008 9:39:22 AM >

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RE: Profile - 4/14/2008 10:07:20 AM   
dawntreader


Posts: 3045
Joined: 11/23/2006
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quote:

ORIGINAL: undergroundsea

...but given my name I suppose I could provide vaginal acupuncture ;-)

Cheers,

Sea


THAT was great!
 
To the OP, i am glad you are changing your name. i think you will find it will make a difference~

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RE: Profile - 4/15/2008 7:46:42 AM   
Stephann


Posts: 4214
Joined: 12/27/2006
From: Portland, OR
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quote:

ORIGINAL: undergroundsea

quote:

ORIGINAL: Stephann


FYI, my spyware blocking software gives a spyware warning for tinyurl.com

It could be the spyware software is wrong, it could be that tinyurl does do something in return for offering its service. In any case, since you are using a hyperlink, have you considered using the URL for the collarme thread directly?

Thanks for sharing the thread.

Cheers,

Sea


Hiya Sea,

Thanks for the heads up.  It's probably because they use a tracking cookie or something.  I use it in order to fit the text that I do into my signature (only 255 characters allowed.)

Stephan


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RE: Profile - 4/15/2008 1:23:03 PM   
leashseeker


Posts: 22
Joined: 3/23/2008
Status: offline 		Well i have posted my new profle leashseeker. i am still working on the pictures but hopefully it is a better profile.

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RE: Profile - 4/15/2008 1:33:20 PM   
Stephann


Posts: 4214
Joined: 12/27/2006
From: Portland, OR
Status: offline 		Leash,

A much better start.

Be prepared to face an enormous amount of rejection.  You can make things much easier by becoming a regular at a local munch and/or lifestyle group.  Women tend to be flooded online to begin with, so meeting them where they can deal with you in the present is the next step.  Good luck!

Stephan


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"The blade itself incites to violence" - Homer

Men: Find a Woman here

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RE: Profile - 4/15/2008 8:22:25 PM   
undergroundsea


Posts: 2400
Joined: 6/27/2004
From: Austin, TX
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Stephann
I use it in order to fit the text that I do into my signature (only 255 characters allowed.)

 
I understand. Thanks for clarifying :)
 
Cheers,

Sea

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Profile   Post #: 30
RE: Profile - 4/19/2008 10:07:28 AM   
leashseeker


Posts: 22
Joined: 3/23/2008
Status: offline 		Just wanted to say thanks for all the advice E/everyone gave me. My next step is to find a munch and attend and meet others.

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Profile   Post #: 31
RE: Profile - 4/19/2008 6:44:05 PM   
slaveintraning


Posts: 17
Joined: 3/30/2008
Status: offline 		My screen name is misspelled, not many have pointed out. Don't think I am going to change it as of yet. Finding it strange that if one or two words are misspelled on a profile, or sending email to a Mistress, is that bad, or make me look bad, as a slave?

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Profile   Post #: 32
RE: Profile - 4/19/2008 10:05:13 PM   
MZJULIA


Posts: 5
Joined: 10/10/2007
Status: offline 		Only thought I now have after reading through the many posts here regarding you and your new profile when I looked at it is....If your in an open marriage where your vanilla wife doesnt mind you seeking a Domme why are you in the bathroom , door closed taking your own picture? Why didnt your wife take one? sorry but just immediately thort ..secretive boi
                                                                                                                                      MZ.JXXX

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RE: Profile - 4/19/2008 10:57:15 PM   
leashseeker


Posts: 22
Joined: 3/23/2008
Status: offline 		I took it when no one was home and the door is closed so I had room to take the picture.

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RE: Profile - 4/19/2008 11:00:56 PM   
khem


Posts: 300
Joined: 8/8/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveintraning

My screen name is misspelled, not many have pointed out. Don't think I am going to change it as of yet. Finding it strange that if one or two words are misspelled on a profile, or sending email to a Mistress, is that bad, or make me look bad, as a slave?


One of the things that makes me happy is someone with an attention to detail.  I think maybe some of us translate a poorly written profile to just not caring enough.  If someone can't be bothered to form sentences or use a spell check, it really makes me afraid of what might happen when they try to do hand-washables.  Just my 2 cents.

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Profile   Post #: 35
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