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Another Do You Think question.... - 4/12/2008 11:59:47 PM   
chya


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Status: offline 		Would you think it strange if your Owner is there all the time mostly during the weekdays and some nights but is not there on the weekend?
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RE: Another Do You Think question.... - 4/13/2008 12:04:00 AM   
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It depends

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RE: Another Do You Think question.... - 4/13/2008 2:07:04 AM   
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Status: offline 		Strange?  No.... 
 
My first two choices would be A), he has the kids on weekends then B), he sees his r/l g/f on weekends.  And even C), maybe A & B at combined....
 
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RE: Another Do You Think question.... - 4/13/2008 2:13:13 AM   
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It depends

Same informative post in consecutive threads - way to rack up the post counter....
 
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RE: Another Do You Think question.... - 4/13/2008 2:59:23 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'd find it strange only if I mistrusted the reason he gave for that to be the case. Some people actually only work on the weekends. My mom used to be a nurse. She worked six hours on Friday, then 12 on, 12 off Saturday and Sunday...and got paid a premium for it.,

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RE: Another Do You Think question.... - 4/13/2008 3:43:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		Problem is with both of your questions there is no context, if the Master worked 15 hour shifts every weekend, then no. You need to provide a bit more of a framework. 

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RE: Another Do You Think question.... - 4/13/2008 4:14:05 AM   
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ORIGINAL: chya

Would you think it strange if your Owner is there all the time mostly during the weekdays and some nights but is not there on the weekend?


Ummm...maybe he has a life.

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RE: Another Do You Think question.... - 4/13/2008 4:21:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		If he was with me that often during the week, i could only hope He was being industrious on the weekends! 

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RE: Another Do You Think question.... - 4/13/2008 4:26:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		The first thing that came to my mind was vanilla girlfriend.

If he doesnt give a plausible explanation and if you tell him you have a need for him to arrange a weekend visit and he makes up alot of excuses, I would rethink things.

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RE: Another Do You Think question.... - 4/13/2008 5:17:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		As others have said.... to answer that there would need to be context. If he works all week and is only in touch with an online girl from work.... I'd probably suspect that home included a wife and the online girl was nothing more to him than a daliance, entertainment and wank fodder, a bit of spice behind the wifes back.

If He worked weekends, then there would probably be nothing strange about it at all.... the only person who can answer the question is you as you know the context.


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RE: Another Do You Think question.... - 4/13/2008 6:49:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		It sounds like he fills his weekends with activities and family instead of sitting in front of the computer.  It also sounds like it is easier for him to communicate with you when he's at work, and not at home.  Take that for what it's worth.

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RE: Another Do You Think question.... - 4/13/2008 8:49:10 AM   
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Not strange if you accept it with out asking why

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RE: Another Do You Think question.... - 4/13/2008 9:19:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		Harsh!  i was thinking more along the lines of...weekends are when he runs errands...meets his buddies for a few beers and watches the game...cleans the house...calls his Mom...maybe home 'puter is dial-up...goes to church...temple...lives his life outside of work.

i had a LDR with  a Master who wanted me available at His whim...the only problem with that was, somehow the world didn't stop turning at His whim. One has only so much time for sitting in front of a screen or on a phone while life happens...  Cherish the time He is available.  Now if there are a lot of things happening besides the weekend thing that makes you question, that's another story.  But in my experience...we go looking for problems when there aren't any...and usually that will say more about you than him.  Best of luck!

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RE: Another Do You Think question.... - 4/13/2008 9:39:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		Sounds like me :)  Only reason I've been on much this weekend is because my partner is out of town.  Otherwise, I'm online during the weekdays and not much else. 

As others have said, depends on WHY he says he's not online at those times.

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RE: Another Do You Think question.... - 4/13/2008 11:21:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		That would depend on the owner.. Maybe he has commitments.. Have you thought of asking him perhaps?

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RE: Another Do You Think question.... - 4/13/2008 11:23:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		If i were you I would ask him, why he isn't with you on the weekends maybe he is at work? You need to communicate this to him.

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RE: Another Do You Think question.... - 4/13/2008 11:31:04 AM   
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RE: Another Do You Think question.... - 4/13/2008 12:09:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		Maybe he's a Stripper??

Ever give him the benifit of a doubt.

I however am not a Stripper, Unless Deja Vu opens up a Male Strip club and Changes the sign to read "100's of Handsom Men and 3 Ugly ones!"

In case you are curious Deja Vu is a Strip club where they have 100's of beautiful women and 4 times a night they bring out the Three ugly ones as a way of cleaning out the house to let other people come in..... Odd thing is when I was Bouncing for Deja Vu Showgirls in Vegas The 3 ugly ones "Big Momma Mess", "Betty Boobs", and "Miss Anti-Barbie" Always made 200 to 300 MORE dollars a night then the Show Liners did. In Fact when we had Chloe ( a Major name Porn Star) Head line Big Momma Made TWICE what she did

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RE: Another Do You Think question.... - 4/13/2008 4:34:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		My biggest issue is not that its strange but that you have doubts about the relationship and the trust level (weather warrented or not).



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RE: Another Do You Think question.... - 4/13/2008 5:52:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		How is one "owned" by someone you see on the computer weekdays, some nights and not on the weekend at all?  Maybe it's just a state of mind.....

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