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Please excuse my ignorance ... - 4/13/2008 4:30:29 PM   
sighsinTexas


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Status: offline 		but .... so i am ready to take first step and meet a Dom for real.  A Dom friend recommended this site.  So i am giving it a try.  Does this really work?  Can I really find a Dom in CollarMe who will guide me gently?
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RE: Please excuse my ignorance ... - 4/13/2008 4:40:55 PM   
chamberqueen


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RE: Please excuse my ignorance ... - 4/13/2008 4:50:31 PM   
lalbobbilynn


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Status: offline 		Certainly it can work! i have meet a vast array of folks from here R/T. Subs/slaves, switches, Doms. i have not meet a Domme as of yet, nevertheless, i have spoken to a few.
Good luck! 
b.~

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RE: Please excuse my ignorance ... - 4/13/2008 4:50:59 PM   
sighsinTexas


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Status: offline 		ok then i will hold out hope

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RE: Please excuse my ignorance ... - 4/13/2008 4:52:02 PM   
sighsinTexas


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Status: offline 		Thank you - i hope i find my true Dom then

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RE: Please excuse my ignorance ... - 4/13/2008 5:07:13 PM   
daddysblondie


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Status: offline 		I did and i'm thankful everyday that I listened to the friend of a friend that told me about cm.
good luck to you!

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RE: Please excuse my ignorance ... - 4/13/2008 5:11:03 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		The real question is "How will you go about it using good judgement, good sense and in a way that fulfills who you are as a person in the long term?"

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RE: Please excuse my ignorance ... - 4/13/2008 5:44:10 PM   
sighsinTexas


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Status: offline 		Thank you, me too

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RE: Please excuse my ignorance ... - 4/13/2008 5:45:32 PM   
sighsinTexas


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Status: offline 		I am a smart lady and will use good judgement ... i was just ready for a real meeting and the site where i was exploring made that near impossible

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RE: Please excuse my ignorance ... - 4/13/2008 6:17:37 PM   
sunshinemiss


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Status: offline 		I"m going to respond to you, and it's not going to be all happy happy joy joy.

There are some really wonderful people on this site.  Ablsolutely no doubt about it.  There are also absolute bullies and abusers and users.  Absolutely no doubt about it.  Most people - like all of life - are somewhere in the middle.

There is something called "sub frenzy" which can cause us to lose our good judgment (that "ohhhh god, take me now" kind of feeling in BDSM terms). 

I looked at your profile - You joined on 4/13, you asked this question on 4/13, and then you updated your profile on 4/13 to state

Update: Currently under consideration ... please respect that.  Friendly inquiries only.
 
What are you doing?  How is it possible that in a matter of hours you are "under consideration."  Sounds like you may be getting a bit hood winked. 

LA has an excellent point   -    use your brain girl.  You are fresh meat and new to the scene.  That makes you cat nip for certain types of men. 

Either you are being foolish or you are playing us. 

peace  

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RE: Please excuse my ignorance ... - 4/13/2008 6:21:49 PM   
xxblushesxx


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Wise words the OP would do well to pay attention to.

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RE: Please excuse my ignorance ... - 4/13/2008 6:25:20 PM   
mstrjx


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Status: offline 		You can have good fortunes and meet potential friends and partners.  Many people here have done so.  You can also meet less desirable people, as has been mentioned.

What you need to consider is your own level of patience in how things are going.  You might have great luck quickly, or your search might take months or years.  Only you can determine your own level of seriousness to what this world has to offer and what part you will play in it.

Good luck.
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RE: Please excuse my ignorance ... - 4/13/2008 6:28:49 PM   
Aileen1968


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The OP writes like a guy pretending to be a woman.  Just my opinion.   

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RE: Please excuse my ignorance ... - 4/13/2008 6:39:34 PM   
Level


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RE: Please excuse my ignorance ... - 4/13/2008 6:42:35 PM   
Aileen1968


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RE: Please excuse my ignorance ... - 4/13/2008 6:43:46 PM   
sunshinemiss


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Status: offline 		Come on Level, there's something fishy going on ... anybody can see that just from the timing.  I was gonna write a sweet nice, welcome be careful kind of email until I saw the dates.  There is such a thing as reality checks.  I'm just saying.

*sends a big ole hug to Level cause I like your posts, darling.

peace

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RE: Please excuse my ignorance ... - 4/13/2008 6:50:12 PM   
lalbobbilynn


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Status: offline 		Ohhhhhhhh the things i have yet to learn, LOL!!

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

*fast reply*
The OP writes like a guy pretending to be a woman.  Just my opinion.   

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RE: Please excuse my ignorance ... - 4/13/2008 6:52:19 PM   
Level


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

Moi???  Nevah!


I thought we had a Pinocchio smilie now..... .

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Fake the heat and scratch the itch
Skinned up knees and salty lips
Let go it's harder holding on
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RE: Please excuse my ignorance ... - 4/13/2008 6:52:25 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		ASide from the whole excuse my ignorance being my huge pet peeve...
Id say someone was trying to pull our legs. and I am not into that kink.

DV


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RE: Please excuse my ignorance ... - 4/13/2008 6:56:18 PM   
Level


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

Come on Level, there's something fishy going on ... anybody can see that just from the timing.  I was gonna write a sweet nice, welcome be careful kind of email until I saw the dates.  There is such a thing as reality checks.  I'm just saying.

*sends a big ole hug to Level cause I like your posts, darling.

peace


*hugssssssssssss* Thank you for saying that
 
Fishy....... maybe so. There are quite a few threads that would draw a pack of cats, IMO  they just sound so...... hmm. Hard to say. Let's just stick with "fishy"

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Fake the heat and scratch the itch
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Let go it's harder holding on
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