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slavemaia -> RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? (4/14/2008 9:48:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: EXODUS1 EXODUS1 here. Just sitting here wondering what or how does your Bdsm day start? Who does it start with? Is It 24/7 thing for you, or is it part time? Would you do it full time if you could? What part of Bdsm gives you the Adrenaline Rush? EXODUS1 i'm curious to know exactly what part of BDSM you're referring to. i think it's a common mistake to think of it as existing around kink completely, like a sub or slave wakes up to a fully costumed Dominant who has absolutely nothing to do but administer pain or whatever other kink the bottom is in to. As a 24/7 live in slave - my daily life is full of "normal" responsibilities. my function in my Master's life is to make His life easier and more pleasurable in any way i can. For example one of my very unglamorous services to Him is sorting the trash. Our garbage disposal has gotten so complicated with one type going into one container and another in another - we actually have to sort things into 4 different containers - lol. Master doesn't want to have to deal with it, so i do it. Do i get any kind of erotic or sexual gratification out of it? ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha - uh nope. And as you can see by other responses to your post, life whether this lifestyle or another continues to be life.

AquaticSub -> RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? (4/14/2008 9:55:37 AM)
It usually starts with him kissing me while I'm still sleeping and him heading off to work. Later, my alarm will go off and I'll get up and brush my teeth. 24/7 relationships can be downright boring. Scenes give me the rush but life isn't play time.

kyraofMists -> RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? (4/14/2008 10:36:31 AM)
We don't do BDSM all day, every day. However, our relationship is based on a M/s dynamic and that exists 24/7. Unfortunately, for those who like wanking fodder, it is pretty boring and mundane. A typical weekday morning... The alarm for him goes off at 6:30 AM. I ask him if he wants another 15 minutes. If so, then go back to sleep and wait for the next alarm to go off. Once he gets up, he usually start working and I get another 30 - 45 minutes of sleep before I have to get up. Once he gets in the shower, Alandra makes the bed and I lay out his clothes for the day (usually they are picked out the night before because I don't think too well in the morning). If he doesn't get in the shower before she and I have to leave for the day then the bed is made and his clothes put out before we leave. If he leaves before us, then we put on his shoes and coat and help pack up his stuff for the day. Every now and then he will decide he wants to have sex in the morning and will either pick the slut on his left (me) or the slut on his right (Alandra). Pretty mundane and typical of just about any other couple. Knight's Kyra

RumpusParable -> RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? (4/14/2008 11:03:27 AM)
...dragging myself out of bed, peeing, then huddling over breakfast trying desperately to wake up. I am so not a morning person.

BoiJen -> RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? (4/14/2008 11:05:12 AM)
I believe the best way a BDSM day has ever started was (at least from this boi's perspective) was with being the toilet for the morning pee....then having to act quick to make breakfast.

tahlly -> RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? (4/14/2008 11:08:22 AM)
My day starts with a shower, then I put the coffee on, wake up my owner; then start breakfast. Yes, it is 24/7 for us; we also have another girl who stays with us on the weekends. As to what gives me 'the rush'. Just being able to be of use in service.

DiurnalVampire -> RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? (4/14/2008 11:08:25 AM)
Fox sets my coffee up before we go to bed, so I have coffee in the morning. If I have a morning, that means I am off to work. Otherwise my day doesnt start until early afternoon. When I am off to work, I wake Fox up long enough to say goodbye, get dressed out in the living room, have the aforementioned coffee and head to work. 8 hrs of toiling for the "man" and I come back ot another cup of coffee and a knealing Fox. After that, whereever my whims take us. On an off day, if he is here, just edit the top statement to remove the morning, work and saying goodbye. We will eventually drag ourselfs to the couch, loaf and watch TV or surf the net. He will make coffee or breakfast. Once we have the energy to do so, we head whever the whims take us. DV

LilMissHaven -> RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? (4/14/2008 11:12:32 AM)
Well, it used to start with a cuddle and a kiss and giggling under the covers. sighs I sure miss those mornings. I made the mistake of trying to replace the loneliness I felt for my X Master with a 150 pnd rottweiler. WTH was I thinking? Now my mornings start with him jumping on my bed and flopping onto my back and licking my face demanding food.

LadyPact -> RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? (4/14/2008 12:39:50 PM)
Once again, I realize I'm the real sicko* here. My personal schedule rotates, so I don't always get up in the morning. I wake up when even the alarm clock says I shouldn't be because it's still dark outside. I smoke (no comments on the habit, please, I already know). I go to the bathroom and brush My teeth. I DO NOT drink coffee, but there had better be a diet pepsi (better yet, diet pepsi max*) within reach. I then turn on lights and the computer for My 'waking up' phase. (I can't do that bit with the snooze alarm.) As others have said, I'm not a morning person. If it's a day off, I wake up in the bedroom, throw a robe on and do much of the same above, while trying not to wake My husband. If it's a weekend, My sub is usually puttering around the kitchen long before I've woke up. By the time I'm up, he's generally been up for hours. (Like Merc's beth, just wired that way.) He waits patiently while I go through My wake up routine, anxious to tell Me of the things he's already accomplished. The 'real sicko comment is My relation to the fact that I really don't drink coffee. ** Diet Pepsi max, for those who don't know, is diet pepsi with extra caffeine and ginsing.

azropedntied -> RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? (4/14/2008 12:47:25 PM)
I try not to fall out of bed as i awake with sounds of cartoons in my head ,kick atleast one dog off the bed and try not to trip over the other dog on the way to the bathroom .Remind kidlet its a school day get ready , slam something down nutritional ,groom and dress and hears the call to post in my head as we take off down the road .I am so not a AM person either my bdsm does not kick in til after noon ! guess i shall never be 24/7 , take s me too long to get going .

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? (4/14/2008 5:13:56 PM)
are you looking for "being chained to the bed and fucked all day" fantasy or are you looking for "normal" people with ordinary lives reality? merely curious since my BDSM day doesn't start like those fantasy stories you read on literotica.

domiguy -> RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? (4/14/2008 5:18:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: EXODUS1 EXODUS1 here. Just sitting here wondering what or how does your Bdsm day start? Who does it start with? Is It 24/7 thing for you, or is it part time? Would you do it full time if you could? What part of Bdsm gives you the Adrenaline Rush? EXODUS1 Gte up and take a piss. Wish that I was still smoking...as it would make my morning coffee all the more enjoyable. Oh, then I think about all of the magical shit that BDSM has done for me...My teeth are now whiter. My posture has straightened up along with my ever increasing Domship. When walking into work it is routine for women to hold the door for me and ask if I might have time for some head around lunch. The typical day to day shit.

MladyHathor -> RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? (4/14/2008 5:37:29 PM)
*the alarm clock, its the only damn thing that Master's Me.*

masterofdrkness2 -> RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? (4/14/2008 5:45:45 PM)
my day starts with the annoying buzzing sound.....yess it is the alarms clock.. which I return the favor by saying a few choice words to.... after smacking or throwing some thing at the noise that just will not go away .. I get out of bed... try not to trip over the dog .. dodge the cat (as he tries to bring me down at my weakest moment) on my way to the bathroom...stop by the fridge on my way back to the bedroom to get my life line ( Mt dew.. GIVE ME THE DEW AND NO ONE DIES!!).. get dressed...reset the alarm for pet.. kiss her on the fore head .. take out the dog ( which usually means dragging him out of his bed ).. grab my lunch and off to work I go... with that being said...I do live a great life...it is not all fun and games... you have to work hard to play hard !

Maya2001 -> RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? (4/14/2008 6:14:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: EXODUS1 EXODUS1 here. Just sitting here wondering what or how does your Bdsm day start? Who does it start with? BDSM itself is activities and behaviour that supplements real life it in itself is not a lifestyle (bondage/discipline/dominance/submission/sadism/masochism) I live real life sleep get up go to work spend time talking or with my dom or with family, do housework/chores/go shopping, I did not get rid of my prior life it is simply enhanced with in a D/s relationship with added activities. as to how my mornings start out... I am finishing off working the nightshift then go home and tend to my dogs, have a bite to eat, check my emails send of responses, read a bit on collar me then go off to sleep. Is It 24/7 thing for you, or is it part time? I am involved in a commited D/s relationship though we do not live together I do not consider it part time we have daily contact ...he is not just an occasional playmate ... if you are referring to a 24/7 authority transfer or Total Power Exchange then the answer is no. if you are referring to BDSM fulltime , as in activities and behaviour ...NO as I still have real life to attend to Would you do it full time if you could? Depends what you are referring to What part of Bdsm gives you the Adrenaline Rush? activities with in play, his dominance over me but is it depended on mood, frame of mind at the time and intensity EXODUS1

Tigrita -> RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? (4/14/2008 6:24:44 PM)
Starts of with the alarm at 6am, hitting the snooze and rolling over to enjoy those sweet 10 minutes when we're half asleep, half awake, and the only thing our minds have the capacity for is savoring the sensation of eachother's warm skin. If we're particularly alert there will be some fondling or more on either side, otherwise I grogily get up with the next rude alarm, start coffee, shower, get ready, get my stuff together, study a little if I have time, or play a little if he's awake and frisky. This is when he loves to get me riled up without getting me all the way off and then send me on my way to class/work delightfully horny. I leave his coffee and breakfast on the nightstand, make sure he's thinking about getting up some time in the forseeable future, ask him what his plans for the day are to help him get his head clear and ready for a productive day working from home, kiss him goodbye, and pass my 30 minute commute with thoughts of him. All pretty passive on his part since he works from home and doesn't have to get up early like I do, but he likes me to do those little things to start his day off right and it makes my morning to do so.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? (4/14/2008 7:03:46 PM)
We're also in the boring crowd. Half the time he's already up and working on the computer, I get up, do my toilette, get dressed, go get goodbye snuggles, grab my coke and drive to work. It's a 24/7 relationship, just not 24/7 expressed kink. On the weekend we either wake up lazily snuggling together and go share a shower, or again he's already been on the computer a few hours and I make us brunch.

Hisgirlonly -> RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? (4/14/2008 8:34:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: akisha Hmmm well on week days the alarm goes off I hit snooze twice lol, then wake Him, then I get up wake up lilbit. Lilbit gets up turns on the TV, Sir goes and turns on the coffee while I drag my ass into the shower and try and pry my eyes the rest of the way open. Get out of shower, do hair, grab cloths for me and lilbit, get us both dressed while My Dear One drinks coffee, turn off TV, put on eyeliner, put on shoes and coat, Either myself or Allen put lilbit in her carseat, then we both leave for work, I take a side trip and drop lilkbit off at daycare Weekends, well depends if lilbit is home or gone for the weekend, but really the only difference is on weekends there is no alarm and I'll cook breakfast. awww. i find that absolutely darling!!! so cute -- your post and your pic ;-)

ownedgirlie -> RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? (4/14/2008 11:15:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark Love you also OG (and your photo bloody rocks - yum) [sm=cute.gif] the.dark. Mwaa [sm=hyper.gif] (that guy's cute)

StormsSlave -> RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? (4/15/2008 1:42:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark This is Darcy My alarms goes off. My hand hits snooze. Ten minutes pass. My alarm goes off. My hand hits snooze. Ten more minutes pass. My alarm goes off. My hand hits snooze. .....this goes on for some time........ [;)] This is so familiar! I also take the dogs out, get ready for work if I work, and then go to work. It's just life, day after day.

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