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What or how does your Bdsm day start? - 4/14/2008 7:26:44 AM   
EXODUS1


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EXODUS1 here.
 
Just sitting here wondering what or how does  your Bdsm day start? Who does it start with?
 
Is It 24/7 thing for you,
or is it part time?
 
Would you do it full time if you could?
 
What part of Bdsm gives you the Adrenaline Rush?
 
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RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? - 4/14/2008 8:16:10 AM   
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I wake up - put the coffee on - make breakfast - get children up for school on a weekday.
If it's the weekend - I wake up - put the coffee on - and depending on what we are doing, get the children motivated or make breakfast.
I shower.  I'm not roped up to the kitchen sink 24 hrs a day and it's not all orgasm denial and floggings.
 
Its life.  Get on with it.
 
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RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? - 4/14/2008 8:17:32 AM   
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I wake up - put the coffee on - make breakfast - get children up for school on a weekday.
If it's the weekend - I wake up - put the coffee on - and depending on what we are doing, get the children motivated or make breakfast.
I shower.  I'm not roped up to the kitchen sink 24 hrs a day and it's not all orgasm denial and floggings.
 
Its life.  Get on with it.
 
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RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? - 4/14/2008 8:19:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

I wake up - put the coffee on - make breakfast - get children up for school on a weekday.
If it's the weekend - I wake up - put the coffee on - and depending on what we are doing, get the children motivated or make breakfast.
I shower.  I'm not roped up to the kitchen sink 24 hrs a day and it's not all orgasm denial and floggings.
 
Its life.  Get on with it.
 
the.dark.

 
My day is pretty much the same also, Master and I have a life and it's pretty busy most the time.

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RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? - 4/14/2008 8:21:03 AM   
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Love you also OG (and your photo bloody rocks - yum)
 
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RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? - 4/14/2008 8:25:55 AM   
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How does my bdsm day start?  feet meet the floor...bladder meets the bathroom...

The term "normal" comes to mind.


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RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? - 4/14/2008 8:33:07 AM   
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This is Darcy

My alarms goes off.
My hand hits snooze.
Ten minutes pass.
My alarm goes off.
My hand hits snooze.
Ten more minutes pass.
My alarm goes off.
My hand hits snooze.
.....this goes on for some time........


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RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? - 4/14/2008 8:34:26 AM   
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Hmmm well on week days the alarm goes off I hit snooze twice lol, then wake Him, then I get up wake up lilbit. Lilbit gets up turns on the TV, Sir goes and turns on the coffee while I drag my ass into the shower and try and pry my eyes the rest of the way open. Get out of shower, do hair, grab cloths for me and lilbit, get us both dressed while My Dear One drinks coffee, turn off TV, put on eyeliner, put on shoes and coat, Either myself or Allen put lilbit in her carseat, then we both leave for work, I take a side trip and drop lilkbit off at daycare

Weekends, well depends if lilbit is home or gone for the weekend, but really the only difference is on weekends there is no alarm and I'll cook breakfast.

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RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? - 4/14/2008 8:37:07 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

This is Darcy

My alarms goes off.
My hand hits snooze.
Ten minutes pass.
My alarm goes off.
My hand hits snooze.
Ten more minutes pass.
My alarm goes off.
My hand hits snooze.
.....this goes on for some time........



why do you men do this?


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RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? - 4/14/2008 8:45:03 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

This is Darcy

My alarms goes off.
My hand hits snooze.
Ten minutes pass.
My alarm goes off.
My hand hits snooze.
Ten more minutes pass.
My alarm goes off.
My hand hits snooze.
.....this goes on for some time........



why do you men do this?



It's not just men. I do it for between 30 and 40 minutes every morning lol. The first time the alarm goes off my hands moves, with each consecutive time my brain wakes up a little bit more lol

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RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? - 4/14/2008 8:49:34 AM   
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This might be a good topic for a survey.....

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RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? - 4/14/2008 8:55:33 AM   
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My BDSM day starts out quite different than my regular day which starts with coffee
 
When i am with a partner, there is alot that goes on between the sheets before my feet hit the floor...

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RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? - 4/14/2008 9:06:24 AM   
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These days, I get up at 6:15, get my son to the bus at 7:00, come back and get his tea ready in the kitchen at 7:30 or 8:00. Then I go in and wake him up, telling him his tea is waiting for him. If I bring it in he goes back to sleep, if it's in the kitchen he comes out for it. Always seems to shamble in like a bear waking up from hibernation.

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RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? - 4/14/2008 9:09:54 AM   
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Everyone else gave the best answers already so I will answer the next questions;
I couldn't imagine anything more tedious than engaging in bdsm 24/7.  It would be come mundane and there would be less sparkle.  I am pretty fond of my life as is.
The part that always gave me the rush is the "look".
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ORIGINAL: EXODUS1

Would you do it full time if you could?
 
What part of Bdsm gives you the Adrenaline Rush?
 


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RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? - 4/14/2008 9:15:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: EXODUS1

EXODUS1 here.
 
Just sitting here wondering what or how does  your Bdsm day start? Who does it start with?
 Like the others my day starts with 'normal' stuff with my pets. I roll over, turn on Frootloop (pc), roll out of bed and let the dog out. Make coffee, trip over the cat. Stumble back to bed/Frootloop with coffee. Turn on cam and talk to RR.
Is It 24/7 thing for you,
or is it part time?
 Even tho I don't live with him it is full time in my brain.
Would you do it full time if you could?
 If full time = living with him, you betchya.
What part of Bdsm gives you the Adrenaline Rush?
 It probably sounds goofy or dumb but I hear his voice in my head doing a running commentary. Certain words do it for me, words like 'his' 'owned' 'belong' 'lap' .
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RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? - 4/14/2008 9:18:27 AM   
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Nothing like starting the day with erotic spankings for the slave.  It helps puts us both firmly in our relationship roles and sex in the morning is always a wonderful way to start the day. 
 
…Have you had your spanking yet today?

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RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? - 4/14/2008 9:21:26 AM   
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Usually starts with coffee- strong dark and dominanting to get me started!

Then on to chores.. animals to be fed, floors swept, laundry.. whatever needs to be done, gets done.

The first part of the word lifestyle is LIFE. While i am owned and wear a collar 24/7- life still prevails. Part of being a house slave, is house work. Everyone has thier responsibilities here. One does not sit about naked in chains, and at her master's feet all day, nor does one expect unlimted hours in a dungeon. One does expect to care for children, house, pets, the Man of the house, and any number of others chores, errands, correspendnces and scheduling that need to be done. As well as all the other things every other person vanilla or BDSM alike do. Motor cycle riding, fishing, skating, reading, writing etc! We all have real life and BDSM.. its one and the same!

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RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? - 4/14/2008 9:27:53 AM   
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quote:

Just sitting here wondering what or how does  your Bdsm day start? Who does it start with?

 
from years of programming to wake early, this slave is awakened no later than 5:30 a.m.,no alarm clock necessary, every morning...unless we go to the Lair the night before.
this slave listens to his breathing, watches the curve of His shoulder move up and down and breathes in the sweet smell of His skin, touching His naked body softly with her fingertips.
If it is His desire, He uses His slave and then she goes to the kitchen to make His coffee and any other breakfast snack He requests.  His coffee is brought to Him with the whipped cream on this slave's nipples.

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Is It 24/7 thing for you,
or is it part time?

since there are neither wee ones to attend to, outside employment for this slave to prepare for, nor other Masters to serve, she spends the rest of the morning with Master as He reads His papers and gets ready for His day.  after He showers and dresses, she puts on His socks and shoes for Him, and receives specific instructions related to the particular day's activities.
 
quote:

What part of Bdsm gives you the Adrenaline Rush?

there are several parts...some of them are:
the part where this slave is listening to Him breathe, in the stillness of the morning,
the part where He reaches into the toybag/drawer/chest and pulls something out,
the part where she is getting dressed for an event/dungeon visit,
the part where He holds this slave close and tells her how much she means to Him.
 

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RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? - 4/14/2008 9:28:01 AM   
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When Master is here my mornings start at 5am. I get up before him quietly, get his coffee started and then go back to bed and wake him with a BJ or i bring his coffee to him. It all depends on what he has to do that day. in the evening i make him dinner get prettied and greet him at the top of the stairs and give him time to decompress before we eat.

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RE: What or how does your Bdsm day start? - 4/14/2008 9:45:52 AM   
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bdsm day?? pfft wtf is that???i would love to know...maybe one day there will be a Mistress who will give me a chance...till then...

i will just live my day normally but exhibiting myself here on CM!!!!!
cause i am a perv!


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