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RE: What would you think? - 4/15/2008 4:12:21 PM

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Ditto to Darcy and Owned- if I signed up for it, then he's right.

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RE: What would you think? - 4/15/2008 6:51:47 PM

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If i was told that i would laugh. First of all bitch is not a word thats ok to use with me. i am a taurus and very much one aka hard headed with a temper. How things are said to me can make a world of a difference. Plus, i didnt sign up for just anything....there are limits. Now, if He said "your My little slut come here for what you signed up for" i would cream my pants and not be able to walk/crawl there fast enough. But if He called me a bitch i would be very upset and hurt.

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RE: What would you think? - 4/16/2008 1:20:03 AM

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Okay, what exactly DID you sign up for? What was your agreement 'up front'? What exactly is upsetting you? Is he changing the rules or just his language?

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RE: What would you think? - 4/16/2008 7:39:49 AM

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Actually changing the word to bitch from pet or princess changes the rules. The meaning is different. The actions and feelings toward a bitch are different than to a pet or little one.

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RE: What would you think? - 4/16/2008 8:25:25 AM

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Which then comes down to......some people have negative reactions to the very same words that turn people on. Knowing which is which involves simple communication.

As an aside.......not all Taureans are hard headed with bad tempers. Some have learned to open their minds and control their behaviour. As I would expect from anyone that belonged to me.

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RE: What would you think? - 4/16/2008 3:58:54 PM

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True, it does take a lot to set my temper off, but there are key buttons that when pushed go off. Never would i start yelling or show that temper, but it would be there all the same. Just with me, bitch is a word not used.

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RE: What would you think? - 4/16/2008 5:01:30 PM

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Actually changing the word to bitch from pet or princess changes the rules. The meaning is different. The actions and feelings toward a bitch are different than to a pet or little one.

That all depends on your POV and the relationship. Personally, I adore being Master's bitch, angel, whore, slut, good girl, baby girl ..... sigh. To me, the difference is in the 'my' prior to the word. I'd be his anything and be very happy about it.

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RE: What would you think? - 4/16/2008 5:09:18 PM

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If your Dom said " You signed up to be my bitch and to do anything I say" how would you feel?

I'd feel fine being as how that IS what I "signed up" for

. However, He and I didn't jump into His ownership of me from day one either. We talked about any things I wouldn't ever do (very short list) and fortunately for both of us, He also had no interest in doing or having me do any of them either. He is an honest, honorable Man of integrity who keeps His word. He has so far and I trust with all I am that He always will. Therefore, because it was communicated, discussed and agreed up BEFORE I became His, there has not and won't be an issue with me being forced to do things I couldn't handle. As I said, it's a very tiny list and new things can always come up. However, we communicate so well and so clearly that it has never been a problem. I know I am safe and protected and He'll never go back on His word................luci

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RE: What would you think? - 4/16/2008 8:18:57 PM

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When Master says something like that...it makes me smile....

That's what I wanted though...and after being with Him almost a year and a half I know, beyond a doubt, that He would never hurt me. So when He says something like that I know that He knows what is best for me, that I'm safe with Him and that's all that really matters to me.

If He said that to me early on in the relationship I probably would have paused and asked for clarification. I was really skittish starting out and back then I feared vague statements like that.

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RE: What would you think? - 4/17/2008 2:06:53 AM

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If your Dom said " You signed up to be my bitch and to do anything I say" how would you feel? and how would your view of him change? Would you still feel as if you are being protected or as if it is okay for you to be submissive?

i signed up to be His bitch and to do anything He says and it's more than okay for me to be submissive to Him because i am His bitch and as such He will protect me as His property. (keeping in mind that the name of His Harley is 'The Other Bitch' and He dearly loves her.)

The key is... i didn't 'sign up' for anything until i knew He was the perfect Master for me, that i could trust His judgement completely and that He treats His property with respect, love and care.

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RE: What would you think? - 4/17/2008 2:18:29 AM

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If you signed up for exactly that - then yes he is right.
Why would your view of him change if he has remained constant?

If you didn't - then he is incorrect.

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this is more or less what i wanted to say but wasnt sure how to put it, im glad you beat me to it. lol

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RE: What would you think? - 4/17/2008 5:05:31 AM

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Entirely depends on the situation and the implied activity. If he's using this as a means to tell me to do something we had previously agreed I wouldn't do... then I'd politely remind him, I DIDN'T sign up for BS, and let him take it for what it was worth.
If it was something I had agreed to cover, either ind etail or implied in generalization, then I'd do it, unless it was a serious issue/deal breaker. Then I might do it and insist on discussing and negotiating later, or if it was a deal breaker, I'd just say so and apologize that I had not included it in my lists of limits previously.

If the statement was simply made in a general basis and he's just puffing his chest a bit, then I'd just nod and act appropriately meek and desperate for his approval/attention (or whatever would provide the most ego'stroking for him), and enjoy being his bitch.

In my own personal definitions and petnames, I enjoy 'bitch' if it is preceeded by 'my' I find it a possessive endearment that makes me feel wanted. It tickles me in all the right places.

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RE: What would you think? - 4/17/2008 6:36:09 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: enslavederotica

If your Dom said " You signed up to be my bitch and to do anything I say" how would you feel? and how would your view of him change? Would you still feel as if you are being protected or as if it is okay for you to be submissive?

I'd get him some help for his memory, and possibly other mental help, because he's clearly forgotten what I did sign up for.

Edited because it sent too soon: But, as the others have said, it depends a lot on what you signed up for and the context. I could see Val saying that in a scene but not outside of one.

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