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Prinsexx -> suggestions in the box please (4/15/2008 1:09:01 PM)
One of the most erotic short stories I ever read, and I don't know who wrote it, a story (written from a Dom's point of view actually) was about what he and his 24/7 girl did as an on-going process between them. They kept a suggestion 'jar'....a jar because it was see through. SHE wrote her suggestions on pink paper and he wrote his suggestions on blue. Once a week they each had a chance to take their opposing coloured piece of paper upon which was written a request for a scene. For example she would take a blue piece of paper and have to carry out the task/assignment/scene that was written on there. Likewise he would have to take her pink piece of paper and carry out (or deny her but let her know lol) the request/need/desire she had written. I thought the story was very well written (as it then elucidated one of his scenes and then one of her scenes). So: the thread is: If there is one suggestion that you would like your significant bdsm other to carry out. or if there was one scene that you would like your perfect bdsm other (if you are not in a relationship) to carry out. then what would that be. Suggestions in the box below please.

domiguy -> RE: suggestions in the box please (4/15/2008 1:14:17 PM)
be smart.

chamberqueen -> RE: suggestions in the box please (4/15/2008 1:17:36 PM)
What a wonderful question! I am currently traveling on business, and have already been promised many wonderful things this week. (From now on I will always undress Him when we are together - He will never undress Himself - because I told Him how much I enjoy it, W/we will get a matching pair of diamond earrings and each wear one so that W/we can feel the other one with us at all times, etc.) If I could put one pink slip into that jar it would be that I would love to have sex outside in a secluded place. I haven't done it since my early 20's, but it was a huge turn on for me. Heck, I'd be happy just for an extended kiss in public - something that would show everyone that He was proud to let the world see that I belong only to Him.

Prinsexx -> RE: suggestions in the box please (4/15/2008 1:34:25 PM)
If the pink paper blue paper thing is too gender biased any other colours will do (for the switches, and the sissy sluts. and for the intersexed and the gender-orientation differences and the queer folk here.......those who know me know I like mauve)

SailingBum -> RE: suggestions in the box please (4/15/2008 1:37:19 PM)
Why would a dom need the box. He can just tell his girl I want X. BadOne

Prinsexx -> RE: suggestions in the box please (4/15/2008 1:45:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SailingBum Why would a dom need the box. He can just tell his girl I want X. BadOne Maybe it might be creative, he could keep track of all his ideas, there is more fun and surprise in randomness.......barking a command and then just following orders can get tiresomely boring......... but I want X is a good idea...........

SteelofUtah -> RE: suggestions in the box please (4/15/2008 2:17:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SailingBum Why would a dom need the box. He can just tell his girl I want X. BadOne And that is EXACTLY why this would never work for you. It is a personal choice to give something special. I can order me girl to do all sorts of things, but this is different this is like a dance the two get to do. All in all I like the sentiment I just think I would find it hard to do the things my girls wants from me because I am just not really into them. (She likes for me to do Vanilla things that I have to really be in the mood to do, like serenade her, or moonlit dinners, and full body massages. she wants them all the time and I have to be in the mood to not do a half assed job, she never really asks for kink because it is ALWAYS there.) LOL Steel

Prinsexx -> RE: suggestions in the box please (4/15/2008 2:21:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah quote: ORIGINAL: SailingBum Why would a dom need the box. He can just tell his girl I want X. BadOne And that is EXACTLY why this would never work for you. It is a personal choice to give something special. I can order me girl to do all sorts of things, but this is different this is like a dance the two get to do. All in all I like the sentiment I just think I would find it hard to do the things my girls wants from me because I am just not really into them. (She likes for me to do Vanilla things that I have to really be in the mood to do, like serenade her, or moonlit dinners, and full body massages. she wants them all the time and I have to be in the mood to not do a half assed job, she never really asks for kink because it is ALWAYS there.) LOL Steel That's the dance Steel.....if you get to deny her the things she wants you to do maybe pin up the pieces of pink paper you picked out where she could see them. You know what? If I were with a Master right now it would just do me good to see what he was denying me....and I suspect he sure would make me work for the tiniest vanilla crumb. OR I would constantly be asking for the perverted and just get the vanilla! OR i would constantly kep putting the SAME suggestion in the jar but getting something different. It takes two to tango I guess......

SailingBum -> RE: suggestions in the box please (4/15/2008 2:27:25 PM)
I get it like a fun thing to do. Kinda like my family tradition of when reading fortune cookies you have to add the words "In Bed" at the end. makes for a fun time. BadOne

Prinsexx -> RE: suggestions in the box please (4/15/2008 2:31:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SailingBum I get it like a fun thing to do. Kinda like my family tradition of when reading fortune cookies you have to add the words "In Bed" at the end. makes for a fun time. BadOne http://www.chinaunique.com/cookie/fortune.htm ....in bed I just got anything that can be done is worth doing.....in bed (WOW)

DesFIP -> RE: suggestions in the box please (4/15/2008 4:58:35 PM)
I don't like the idea of he has to do what's on my slip or I had to do what's on his no matter what. I do like the idea of both of you writing down ideas and putting them in a jar. And then whenever you need things livened up, pull one out and read it. But sometimes I'm not up for very elaborate things, whether my idea or his. And sometimes neither is he. But you could both read it for ideas and incorporate bits and pieces whenever.

ProfJoe -> RE: suggestions in the box please (4/15/2008 5:16:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah quote: ORIGINAL: SailingBum Why would a dom need the box. He can just tell his girl I want X. BadOne And that is EXACTLY why this would never work for you. It is a personal choice to give something special. I can order me girl to do all sorts of things, but this is different this is like a dance the two get to do. All in all I like the sentiment I just think I would find it hard to do the things my girls wants from me because I am just not really into them. (She likes for me to do Vanilla things that I have to really be in the mood to do, like serenade her, or moonlit dinners, and full body massages. she wants them all the time and I have to be in the mood to not do a half assed job, she never really asks for kink because it is ALWAYS there.) LOL Steel All true. It would make a dynamite story, I'm sure. But in reality, I could easily write something on a sunny Tuesday morning that would get me going all day long. By Friday night I'm wiped and no more want to expend a buncha energy than the man in the moon. I love the idea ... but if it were going to work for me, it would need to keep the spontaneity I like -- maybe we sit across from each other and each write/speak a wish ... that might be fun. I might try that, ackshully. Thanks. ProfJoe

dodedo -> RE: suggestions in the box please (4/15/2008 6:24:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Prinsexx If there is one suggestion that you would like your significant bdsm other to carry out. or if there was one scene that you would like your perfect bdsm other (if you are not in a relationship) to carry out. then what would that be. Suggestions in the box below please. I would love to go on a hike/camping trip up away from everyone else. Away from any interruptions, or work, or family, or roommates, and spend a weekend doing dirty things together. Bondage against trees like in all the corny erotica, skinny dipping, finding things in the woods to use as toys (branches for smacking, etc) mmm... That sounds like a good fantasy for the jar ;)

junecleaver -> RE: suggestions in the box please (4/15/2008 6:35:06 PM)
I think it's a cute idea. If I ask for something kinky, I usually get it if it's a kink we both share. But there are plenty of my kinks that squick him---like needles, cutting, watersports, etc. If he isn't enjoying a scene, I'm not enjoying a scene, because I can easily pick up on how he's feeling. So I would have to write my notes with the caveat that he'd actually have to find some enjoyment in whatever scene he did. If he poked me with needles, he would need a trash can nearby for vomitting.

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