silkenfire
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Oral fixations are interesting, and I don't think they can really be trained to start, they have to already be there, to get the full effect (although some individuals inexperienced may not realize they have one... ...who am I kidding, I have always known... Praise is a great step towards strengthening. Now, sometimes I feel like praise can also be taken too far. There must always be a way to improve. So, Doms, take the time while enjoying his/her mouth, to realize that there is always room for improvement even if you are really enjoying what you've got. My biggest thing is improvement personally. If I don't know how to make it better, it is less fun for me -- because I want to learn and do better for Him. Now, at the same time... it doesn't really have to be somehting "better" just something "harder to do". For instance, a pattern with the tongue a certain number of times... etc... (graphic section removed for those with sensibilities).But I am goal oriented with my oral, and I bet other people would also enjoy that. -silk
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