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RE: More than grand gestures. - 4/16/2008 8:21:58 PM

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With Angel, its little things like making time to play video games. We do that online alot, since we cant find time to necessarly be together. When we are, there is very little physical contact becaue he cant always tolerate it, but I do stroke his hair when we do find a comfy cuddle place.

With Fox, well, I dont have enough space to write it all out. One of the best ones is that we bathe together. We took a bubble bath this evening, and it was lovely. Nothing sexual, nothing naughty, just relaxing in the hot water together and talking. That and he curls up on my lap when we watch TV and I put my hand around his throat.

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RE: More than grand gestures. - 4/16/2008 10:27:19 PM

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For a while I was going to school in Minnesota (friggin freezing winters). One particular snowy day my girlfriend at the time and I were going for a walk, and I was a dumb ass and forgot to bring gloves... so she gave me one of her gloves and then held my other hand in her pocket. I thought it was sweet.

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RE: More than grand gestures. - 4/17/2008 5:24:52 AM

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MH enjoys it when i address Him as: My Love when we are in public, or when i kiss his hand. He also loves gentle strokes and general signs of affection.

He strokes my hair when i lay my head in his lap to watch TV, or he rubs my feet and puts lotion on them.

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RE: More than grand gestures. - 4/17/2008 5:50:01 AM

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My man loves it when I gently scratch and trace gentle lines all over his back, I do this until he falls asleep, although it usually only takes 15 mins. The other night I had one of my on/off sleepings and found my self still stroking his back each time I became conscious, I am wondering who likes it more

Methinks it is equal...

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RE: More than grand gestures. - 4/17/2008 6:01:45 AM

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Oddly the way I most recently have shown how much I care was by relaxing and standing still giveing someone time to adjust and decide. This is very difficult for me and they are worth it but I am going nuts so we will see how long I can keep it up.

I know noone really gets this post but that is okay the person who does will know what I mean.

You would be surprized but I think quite a number probably 'get' Your post. If a girl is struggling with something, being patient with them, giving it the time it needs, helping them calm, focus and find the words to express what they need to say... Doing so in a calm and comforting manner rather than them feeling like you are standing over them waiting for an answer in a manner that raises the pressure thus making it harder.

This is certainly something My girl would recognise as I do the same.

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RE: More than grand gestures. - 4/17/2008 7:29:30 AM

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Mmmmm Corvidae. I don't think you want to try that with men. If you do I will walk you home.

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