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ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

For me and my girl:

I am a silent partner in her business and have survivorship rights. Same with her checking and savings account. I am the executor of her estate, if her husband chooses not to do it. I am her beneficiary except on things she and her husband own jointly (which isn't much). Even in most of those instances, I am part beneficiary. I have medical power of attorney, which means I, not her husband, make medical decisions if she's incapacitated. My decisions trump everyone, even her husband.

she is a beneficiary of my estate. she is the executor of my estate and knows my final wishes. she has medical power of attorney. she is on my checking and savings accounts with survivorship rights. I would drop anything and go anywhere if she should call and say she needs me. I would take her into my home, and quite possibly her husband as well, should they need it, even though that meant they'd be sleeping on the floor and there'd be three people in a studio.

Most importantly, we'd take each other's cats if we needed to find them another home. ;-)

Master Fire