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swtnsparkling -> What is it to you (10/10/2005 3:23:07 AM)
Submission/Slavery - What is it to you? Is being submissive / slave something you are - or some thing you put on like new clothes - a chance to role play? or is it some thing you can't define but know you are or want to be?

littleone35 -> RE: What is it to you (10/10/2005 6:08:17 AM)
I cannot answer for everyne nor would i even try. For me being a submissive is what i am how i was born. as i child i had the desire to serve and to please. i did not realize what it was until met my late Master he opened my eyey to what it was that i was feeling all these years. So for me it was inborn. littleone

KatyLied -> RE: What is it to you (10/10/2005 7:07:03 AM)
Interesting topic. I found my sub nature in my mid-30's. It was a particular relationship where I ached to please, to be directed, to meet his expectations. It was different than any other relationship I'd ever been in. I don't have the urge to please all people in general, but a strong, dominant man, a connection, and it's there.

plantlady64 -> RE: What is it to you (10/10/2005 7:18:21 AM)
quote: Submission/Slavery - What is it to you? Hello There, Slavery to my Master for me is like coming home. I think it's who I've wanted to be my whole life and didn't know how to find it before him. It enables me to be excited to open my eyes and be with him every morning. In our relationship, under His loving control, I am freer than I've ever been in my life. I am very blessed to have his love surrounding me. Being able to do his will, keep his home, care for his kids & be his ultimate desire completes my ideals of how a Man and his woman should live. There are no power struggles in our path, and we both do well at our jobs in unison. Our power exchange strengthens our union. Where he ends I begin, and where I end He begins. We are very Ying/yang in our matrix. We are very suited to the Master/slave dynamics of our lives and have great joy and peace in our home. My two favorite places in the world are sitting in his lap and sitting at his feet. I love being his slave. Sincerely, sub suzanne

angelic -> RE: What is it to you (10/10/2005 7:24:00 AM)
i suddenly thought of a line from Roger Rabbit in responding to this thread. "i'm not bad, i was drawn this way.' Although i personally feel that i am a slave (have no idea why), it's just who i am. Prior to changing my profile to 'just seeking Ffriends', i had stated that, for me, this is not a 'lifestyle' but a way of life.

Quivver -> RE: What is it to you (10/10/2005 7:44:41 AM)
Submission is something I swore as a young adult wasnt a part of me, no way, no how. But . . . as the years past and the light bulb got brighter I realized how good I felt when I was helping or doing for another. The personal gain for me were the warm fuzzies I felt when they were content and smiled. Then I analized it more and realized I had surrounded myself with others since childhood that were more Dominant then I, much to my surprise. Yet Slavery is another story, at least for me. A few bumps along this road over the years has taught me self protection, I'm my own point man, slave to my unmentionables with wants and desires that are singular and unique to me. Those bumps have kept me from the blind trust I think Slavery takes. So I recognize my submission yet reserve that individual I know as me. Bottom line seems to be I've always been this way..... Q

perfection20005 -> RE: What is it to you (10/10/2005 7:57:28 AM)
I have always wanted to please everyone around me. I was born tht way, I think(can't remember much before the age of 5 o 6!). So to me, it just comes naturally.

ownedjulia -> RE: What is it to you (10/10/2005 11:20:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: swtnsparkling Submission/Slavery - What is it to you? Is being submissive / slave something you are - or some thing you put on like new clothes - a chance to role play? or is it some thing you can't define but know you are or want to be? i am slave. to the CORE but it took a long time for Master to bring it out in me, it also took a long time for me to trust him enough to have access to that side of me.

daddysprop247 -> RE: What is it to you (10/10/2005 11:48:43 AM)
being submissive is just how i was born...my nature for as long as i or anyone who knows me can remember. always striving to please everyone (which is impossible), even to my own detriment...unable to say no to anyone or let anyone down. it had absolutely nothing to do with what i liked to do or wanted to do. it was just a natural instinct. for a long time i hated my submissiveness, and wished that i could just be like everyone else, "normal", etc., because i was tired of being abused and taken advantage of. it was my Master who showed me the beauty that lies in natural submissiveness. i am also a slave, owned property, which is something i became once my Master claimed me for his.

Littlepita -> RE: What is it to you (10/10/2005 11:53:09 AM)
I always knew I was a people pleaser and hated taking the dominate role in anything. I have been forced to do so for many years since I didn't have someone to help me realize that my being submissive is natural and right for me. Now, I embrace it and look forward to the day when he fully owns me and I belong only to him. [:)]

Hallittlelolita -> RE: What is it to you (10/10/2005 2:14:15 PM)
It is pure bliss for me to be my Master's slavegirl, it is what i am meant to be and who i am. It isnt like changing clothes at all. It is somthing that i am and going to be for the rest of my life[:)] Sincerely andie and her master Hal

kimmypuss -> RE: What is it to you (10/10/2005 6:27:27 PM)
it is something I know I am when I am with the right person...

subversiveone -> RE: What is it to you (10/10/2005 7:38:36 PM)
i strongly desire acceptance, approval, direction, discipline, guidance, 'protection', loyalty, patience, dedication, and belonging... being submissive affords me the chance to express my strengths and weakness to someone who can appreciate them and be served by them. i also want intellectual sex for lack of a better term, that is all about each other's fulfillment, in an open and kink friendly sort of way! submitting sexually to a Dom has been the best way to acheive this as well, and overcome many inhibitions on both sides. so for me it's a choice moreso than a character trait. im not submissive to everyone, primarily those i care for romantically. i end up in more subly roles outside of the home than not, i enjoy being a people person, but this is not why i label myself as such.

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: What is it to you (10/11/2005 4:40:22 PM)
For me, submission is the way I express affection and love. It's how my father loves my mother, and how my sister loves her husband...although they have no idea it has a name. I have always (literally) sat at the feet of men I had crushes on or strong feelings for, if I could manage it. From the time I was a child. It's who I am, and it's only entrusted to those I adore and respect. Cindi

BalletBob -> RE: What is it to you (10/11/2005 9:57:04 PM)
I consider myself a Sub, since I don't have a Mistress now. Maybe if I do get a Mistress, then it wold depend on her if I am still a Sub or Slave. Still Looking, BalletBob

Evanesce -> RE: What is it to you (10/11/2005 10:16:51 PM)
quote: Submission/Slavery - What is it to you? Is being submissive / slave something you are - or some thing you put on like new clothes - a chance to role play? or is it some thing you can't define but know you are or want to be? I'm a slave within my current relationship. If that relationship were to suddenly be over, I doubt that I would be a slave to anyone else. Being His slave is something primal within me, and He is the only man who really makes me WANT to please Him. Every other man I meet, I tend to view in terms of their potential as MY slave.

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