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RE: Question for Straight Male Doms - 4/26/2008 8:43:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MissHarlet

I am a Straight Fem Dominant and the best sub I ever had was a female submissive in a nonsexual relasionship.  I made her mine because she was a great submissive and we had a great time together and grew together ....I cant answer for others.

I dont look at gender when I look at the potential connection of a submissive and myself.


This is a great and thoughtful answer.

BDSM and D/s is not necessarily a sexual experience.  In fact... As a straight male.. I have done SM on a male bi-sexual.... The sexual appeal was absolutely nothing.... In fact, it was the only time that I have played were I felt the raw nature of my sadism that was not clouded by sexual desires.  The experiences with this Male was a very good learning experience for me with regards to my sadism and the effect it has had in my play with females.

Most people tie sexual desires to the interactions/relationships that people have in this type of lifestyle.  The fact is.... there are relationships that are void of sexual energies and very much are able to focus to the Authority transfer in very different and fulfilling manner. 


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RE: Question for Straight Male Doms - 4/26/2008 8:57:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		~fast reply~..We have owned males slaves bi,gay and straight.I am straight but don't think for one minute if I choose to use the sluts,  I would bend them over a chair in a NY second. with out having second thoughts..I wouldn't have a problem doing so as an owner using his property as I wish...Most males that serve her are into hard work fetish...Shoveling horse shit,working on fences and putting up hay in the summer just to hear Diane say Good boy..Now I am telling you there are many straight male DOM that will take a BJ from male subs/slaves and don't let them tell you different...Rasing my hand I have...One of my best slave ever a pain slut was a lez,she hate my guts but loved me for what I had to give her..bounty

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RE: Question for Straight Male Doms - 4/26/2008 10:27:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER

~fast reply~..We have owned males slaves bi,gay and straight.I am straight but don't think for one minute if I choose to use the sluts,  I would bend them over a chair in a NY second. with out having second thoughts..I wouldn't have a problem doing so as an owner using his property as I wish...Most males that serve her are into hard work fetish...Shoveling horse shit,working on fences and putting up hay in the summer just to hear Diane say Good boy..Now I am telling you there are many straight male DOM that will take a BJ from male subs/slaves and don't let them tell you different...Rasing my hand I have...One of my best slave ever a pain slut was a lez,she hate my guts but loved me for what I had to give her..bounty


I have always admired your honesty, Bounty.
It is easier to accept when men will admit this "gray" area.
I totally agree with you, many men will/would accept that BJ and even more,
from a submissive boy.
But of course, they will only say publically that they want to whip him.
I still wonder about all these men contacting this naked slave, only for non-sexual activities.


< Message edited by MzMia -- 4/26/2008 10:32:45 PM >

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RE: Question for Straight Male Doms - 4/27/2008 2:27:14 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Emperor1956

Uh...Focus...it looks JUST like a "red shirt" Star Trek jersey.  Sorry, fella.  It not only means you are cliched, it means you aren't gonna be in this episode long.  Hate the break the bad news.

And....North Sydney Bears?  Is that...rugger?   How quaint.  Actually I tried to play rugby back in college.  All I remember is it involved consuming a lot of beer.  Then again so did flag football.  So did frisbee...hmmmm.

The North Sydney Bears are a foundation (1908) Rugby League club.  So they pre-date Star Trek by about 60 yrs - which makes Trekkies cliche'd.... lol  But now that you've mentioned it, the upper part showing in my pic is annoyingly similar to a Star Trek costume.  The Bears added white to their traditional colours about 15 yrs ago and the 6" wide white waist hoop with black striping isn't showing in the pic.
 
Like most sports, Rugby League has gone a bit too professional and my beloved Bears were punted to the minor leagues about 6 yrs back - probably forever....  But maybe they drank too much, as you've suggested.  After winning back to back premierships in about 1921 & 22, the club has since been dogged by bad luck, dubious opposition tactics and poor refereeing etc (*wink* - I watch too much English soccer) to ever come close again.
 
And now, thanks to you, I've gotta think about a new pic that doesn't inspire any Johnny-come-lately Star Trek inferences.... 
 
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RE: Question for Straight Male Doms - 4/27/2008 5:04:19 PM   
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RE: Question for Straight Male Doms - 4/27/2008 5:54:14 PM   
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RE: Question for Straight Male Doms - 4/27/2008 7:10:46 PM   
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RE: Question for Straight Male Doms - 4/28/2008 12:38:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER

Now I am telling you there are many straight male DOM that will take a BJ from male subs/slaves and don't let them tell you different...Rasing my hand I have...


Bountyhunter I know that these men exist because I have been with some of them and I am continuing to hear from them.  I look up to you for your honesty about being one to raise their hand.   I have to say that, even if for the straight male dom the experience might not be viewed as sexual or intimate.  Giving a BJ to a "straight" dom is a huge turn on for me, the submissive.  It's like entering into the forbidden, a psychological mind fuck for me rather than a physical one.  It's hot.     

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RE: Question for Straight Male Doms - 4/28/2008 12:57:27 AM   
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ORIGINAL: PleaseUDaddy

Sorry but I, too, thought it was a Star Trek shirt.


Focus, Personally I prefer Gucci, Prada, Versace and D&G shirts, it's in my gay genes, I can't help it.  I also have white t shirt, jeans, tank tops, normal stuff.  Whether it's a star trek shirt or not, no big deal.  I have to tell you though, the comments had me cracking up.  About your photo as mentioned above, it's to bad you are so far away in Australia, I could help you out with that as I have photographed quite a few people in my day.  Here's an idea:  Ditch the shirt, go shirtless, have the pic in black and white, edgy, darker, slightly disturbing and push some peoples buttons with it.   Just an idea, what do you think?                     DV8

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RE: Question for Straight Male Doms - 4/28/2008 2:40:21 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MASTERat21UK

do you support a team in england?

I can't really get into soccer but I occasionally have lottery ticket bets with a pommie I work with.  He's an Arsenal nut and, for no particular reason, I seem to have adopted Liverpool....  He wasn't too thrilled after that grandstand finish in the recent Champions League decider... ;-)
 
Getting back to the reference in my previous post, I tend to crack up at post match interviews with losing managers....  I look forward to the day a Wenger (Arsenal), Sir Alex (Man U) or the recently departed Mourinho (Chelsea) could actually say something gracious like "We did our best but lost to the better team on the day" or a simpler "We just weren't quite good enough today" etc - instead of the usual garbage of dumping it all on the referee.  Fat chance, ay?  lol
 
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RE: Question for Straight Male Doms - 4/28/2008 2:46:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: PleaseUDaddy

Sorry but I, too, thought it was a Star Trek shirt.

My previous pic was getting a little tired so I was happy to have a half decent Chrissie photo to replace it with.  Barely 5 months later and I'm getting more depressed each day since the original Trekkie comment.  You're not helping...!  lmao
 
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RE: Question for Straight Male Doms - 4/28/2008 3:13:53 AM   
Focus50


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ORIGINAL: DV8fromthenorm

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ORIGINAL: PleaseUDaddy

Sorry but I, too, thought it was a Star Trek shirt.


Focus, Personally I prefer Gucci, Prada, Versace and D&G shirts, it's in my gay genes, I can't help it.  I also have white t shirt, jeans, tank tops, normal stuff.  Whether it's a star trek shirt or not, no big deal.  I have to tell you though, the comments had me cracking up.  About your photo as mentioned above, it's to bad you are so far away in Australia, I could help you out with that as I have photographed quite a few people in my day.  Here's an idea:  Ditch the shirt, go shirtless, have the pic in black and white, edgy, darker, slightly disturbing and push some peoples buttons with it.   Just an idea, what do you think?                     DV8

I don't think they carry those brands at Big W, Lowes or Target - though I do pronounce it Tarj-ay for added snootiness.... ;-)  Obviously there is something to having gay genes (and jeans?) and NOT, ay?  lol
 
As for your photo suggestions, I think I'll pass - no offense, btw.  I made comment of a Dom in another thread (critiquing his profile) that his chosen all black attire resembled a cliche'd Dom "uniform" and that same template of stereotypes seems to connect shirtless with gay.  That or it's just my lame perceptions....  Besides, posting a pic of a shirtless 54yo feels desperate to me, even though I'm mostly shirtless around home, esp outside when it's not too hot or cold. 
 
I do like bold colour (izzat closet gay?  Wait, I don't wanna know...!) so I think I'll get a similar snap to the existing done but with a different shirt.... lol 
 
Ummm, what was the topic of this thread again....? 
 
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RE: Question for Straight Male Doms - 4/28/2008 10:21:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		Focus,  You crack me up, laughing hysterically.     DV8

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RE: Question for Straight Male Doms - 4/28/2008 5:18:49 PM   
BOUNTYHUNTER


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ORIGINAL: MzMia

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ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER

~fast reply~..We have owned males slaves bi,gay and straight.I am straight but don't think for one minute if I choose to use the sluts,  I would bend them over a chair in a NY second. with out having second thoughts..I wouldn't have a problem doing so as an owner using his property as I wish...Most males that serve her are into hard work fetish...Shoveling horse shit,working on fences and putting up hay in the summer just to hear Diane say Good boy..Now I am telling you there are many straight male DOM that will take a BJ from male subs/slaves and don't let them tell you different...Rasing my hand I have...One of my best slave ever a pain slut was a lez,she hate my guts but loved me for what I had to give her..bounty


I have always admired your honesty, Bounty.
It is easier to accept when men will admit this "gray" area.
I totally agree with you, many men will/would accept that BJ and even more,
from a submissive boy.
But of course, they will only say publically that they want to whip him.
I still wonder about all these men contacting this naked slave, only for non-sexual activities.



Well thanks for your kind words MZMIA but no grey areas there just strict D/s nothing more nothing less.... 

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RE: Question for Straight Male Doms - 4/28/2008 5:22:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DV8fromthenorm

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ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER

Now I am telling you there are many straight male DOM that will take a BJ from male subs/slaves and don't let them tell you different...Rasing my hand I have...


Bountyhunter I know that these men exist because I have been with some of them and I am continuing to hear from them.  I look up to you for your honesty about being one to raise their hand.   I have to say that, even if for the straight male Dom the experience might not be viewed as sexual or intimate.  Giving a BJ to a "straight" Dom is a huge turn on for me, the submissive.  It's like entering into the forbidden, a psychological mind fuck for me rather than a physical one.  It's hot.     


You are correct its a mind fuck situation, strict D/s but must admit if I close my eyes there is some pleasure there lol... 

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RE: Question for Straight Male Doms - 5/3/2008 7:24:13 PM   
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RE: Question for Straight Male Doms - 5/25/2014 9:28:50 AM   
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RE: Question for Straight Male Doms - 5/25/2014 9:32:38 AM   
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Reviving it to add your own ad is likewise barking up the wrong tree.

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RE: Question for Straight Male Doms - 5/25/2014 9:39:35 AM   
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RE: Question for Straight Male Doms - 5/25/2014 9:40:27 AM   
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