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KaineD -> RE: sick of dominants? (4/22/2008 11:44:52 AM)
Basically it sounds like the OP is going for the wrong people. Hope you find someone decent and loving.

stella41b -> RE: sick of dominants? (4/22/2008 9:05:05 PM)
How old are some of you people? Like.. mentally? Okay, so it says Dominant, submissive, whatever on the profile.. But like, stuff the Dominant bit, stuff the submissive bit, in fact stuff everything you read on the profile. GET TO KNOW THE PERSON FIRST Yes the person, the human being, someone who's like you, human, fallible, imperfect, prone to mistakes, weaknesses, faults, and so on. Get to know them, learn to accept them for who they really are, start a friendship, invest some time, effort, listen to them, talk to them, share with them, interact with them. Wouldn't this be better than pigeonholing them, labelling them, categorizing them, and getting pissed off when they don't live up to your expectations? Look at it this way.. there's tens of thousands of profiles here on this website. There's got to be at least a few people who you can get on with. True? Why not look for them? Forget the rest.

Dnomyar -> RE: sick of dominants? (4/23/2008 9:16:35 AM)
There are to many to forget on here. After a while you will forget who you forgot. How are you going to judge how old mentaly people are. By your own mentality? What if a young one calls you a stupidhead. Are we to judge you by his judgement?

CalifChick -> RE: sick of dominants? (4/23/2008 9:30:13 AM)
I had an answer, but I forgot. Cali

stella41b -> RE: sick of dominants? (4/23/2008 9:40:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar There are to many to forget on here. After a while you will forget who you forgot. How are you going to judge how old mentaly people are. By your own mentality? What if a young one calls you a stupidhead. Are we to judge you by his judgement? You can judge me whatever way you like. I can even understand cries of frustration of people against some sort of herd mentality.. .. but it's Dominant this, Dominant that, Dominant the other, just as submissive this, submissive that, submissive blah blah blah.. If you've reached the point where everybody's wrong, then there's probably a reason why.

pettingdragons -> RE: sick of dominants? (4/23/2008 9:45:41 AM)
i am not sick of "dealing with" Dominants.....in fact there are many out there that are wonderful. i have good friends and (old) playmates since i am currently collared that i am still friends with....i love dominants IRL.(in real life)...their voices that give commands, looks of hard passion at your submission, the strong energies, the burn of the whip then the feeling of Masterful hands soothing the burn to prepare for worse....LOLyou just need to get out and actually experience life not live it or try to live it all on line...i have met many good friends here and gotten in touch with many local groups....its a better life...pamelaMaster Dragons considered slave

tigerstyle -> RE: sick of dominants? (4/23/2008 9:48:03 AM)
We can be annoying with out self-centered ways, true. On the other hand, we are very sexy. That is why you love us. smug smirk

Dnomyar -> RE: sick of dominants? (4/23/2008 10:46:16 AM)
Stella I am not judging you. Im asking you how you think people should be judged.

sexysubtlesubm -> RE: sick of dominants? (4/23/2008 3:36:17 PM)
I agree with the other responses that you're either chosing the wrong doms for you, or they're not true doms. I am new to the site, and believe me I have recieved some really strange emails. My profile states that I am being considered but a dom felt the need to email me telling me to get rid of the other dom and he might train me. lol I had a few giggles over that one. You might just need to take some time off for yourself, think about what it is that your really need from a dom and go from there.

Dnomyar -> RE: sick of dominants? (4/24/2008 7:43:27 AM)
sexy quit giggling. Forget the others and come to me. I will Train you. You be the Caboose and I will board you from the rear.

metalmiss -> RE: sick of dominants? (4/24/2008 10:14:12 AM)
i only ever get sick of the ones who don't own my ass.. and when i get tired of them i do one of two things.. a) ignore them or b) turn it round and amuse myself with them. An ego isn't always a bad thing.. its just the one's who can't seem to get their head out of their own arses that annoy me/provide the most amusement.

stella41b -> RE: sick of dominants? (4/24/2008 5:33:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar Stella I am not judging you. Im asking you how you think people should be judged. With an open mind.. But that's what I think.. I kind of see it Person First Dominant Second.

justnewsub -> RE: sick of dominants? (4/24/2008 5:50:58 PM)
Geoff, I just wanted to offer a big hug and a shoulder to lean on. I feel for you... not too long ago I posted something similar to yours... I have gotten so frustrated I wanted to scream and delete my profile and forget I ever admitted to being a sub... then that stupid masochist side kicks in and I give it another go hoping "this one" will be the good Dom and treat me the way I have always dreamed... Hang in there, maybe take a break for a while read the message boards and gather yourself... then dive in again... come sit next to me and we can share a pan of brownies fresh out of the oven... chocolate makes everything o.k. again...

youngsubgeoff -> RE: sick of dominants? (4/24/2008 6:56:04 PM)
justnew, what chocolate doesnt fix, my good buddy jack daniels will

justnewsub -> RE: sick of dominants? (4/25/2008 2:53:48 PM)
then jack and brownies it is ;) I have to warn you tho, i'm a silly drunk

youngsubgeoff -> RE: sick of dominants? (4/26/2008 1:00:23 PM)
thats ok, so am I [:D]

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