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lactation experiences - 4/20/2008 6:05:15 PM   
bbwdommelilith


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Status: offline 		I've been looking up "induced lactation" and have found a lot of info about the technical aspects. I have a new partner who would like to try this, and I think that the idea soundas INCREDIBLY erotic. I would like to know more about this experience - from the perspective of both the giver and the receiver. NOT the practical aspects- I want to know what it is like emotionally, sensually, erotically, dynamically (nursing or being nursed as a dom vs. as a sub, etc.).
 
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RE: lactation experiences - 4/21/2008 7:27:42 AM   
PoisonBeatrice


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Status: offline 		I've done this, kind of on accident. I've had a child, and it was a couple years after her birth. My partner was playing with my breasts and they began to leak, so we played with that for a couple of weeks. I found it interesting, connecting, confusing, and worrying.

Interesting, in that I could not breast feed my daughter when she was born because of medical reasons, so I got to feel that.

Connecting, in that we spent long hours with him at my breast for awhile, even falling asleep and waking up this way. That was nice.

Confusing, (i teach hormones and tracking, so this is where the info I'm about to say comes from), I began to lose my sex drive due to the prolactic effect which reduces estrogen and testosterone. I did NOT like that effect.

Worrying, I teach Fertility Awareness Method and use it as my birth control, and lactating was beginning to change my egg cycle and make it unpredictable, and I do not want to have another child, so we stopped playing with lactation because of this, and my changing sex drive.

So, good experience, but because of where I am in my life, not good for me long term.

Cheers

Beatrice : )

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RE: lactation experiences - 4/22/2008 6:35:13 PM   
FatDomDaddy


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Status: offline 		I have found many women who like the idea but few who actual want to play there

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RE: lactation experiences - 4/22/2008 7:16:56 PM   
TwistedLeather


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Status: offline 		The sensation of feeling your partner on your nipples when your milk lets down can be very erotic and intense. It's almost like a pleasurable pain, as the pressure that's built up inside of you is released. It is possible to have an orgasm this way... and it can be a very intimate experience with your partner.

However, a word of caution as i've nursed four children and have had every problem in the book that goes with it. Be sure you're aware of ALL the details and facts about nursing and see your doctor if you have ANY problems. Infections can and do occur, as do plugged ducts, swelling, soreness, nipple bleeding, etc.

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RE: lactation experiences - 4/22/2008 7:40:44 PM   
michaels4evr


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Status: offline 		I found this highly erotic when several years ago my trainer induced lactation quite by accident. Both he and I enjoyed the surprise, so he had me increase my supply by taking supplements and daily pumping and massage. We kept it up for a few months and it became more of a comforting thing between us where he was able to be at my breast and vulnerable to an extent. Sad to say I'm over the whole concept now because I birthed twin aliens two years ago and the lil male alien only stopped nursing about two months ago! I don't even want my nips touched or licked these days let alone suckled!

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RE: lactation experiences - 4/23/2008 3:44:40 AM   
adrian28


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Status: offline 		Got milk??

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RE: lactation experiences - 4/23/2008 6:14:23 AM   
malloves69


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Status: offline 		love breast milk  and yes it can be very erotic and itimate thing to share with each other ..very yummy too i must say  mal

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RE: lactation experiences - 4/24/2008 12:43:49 PM   
JonasW


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Status: offline 		I once made the experience with a lactating woman and it was great. She had wonderful breasts and her sweet juice tasted so good. It was overwhelming and she was so vulnarable...it really drove me crazy ;)

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RE: lactation experiences - 4/24/2008 3:40:36 PM   
Noah


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ORIGINAL: TwistedLeather
Infections can and do occur, as do plugged ducts, swelling, soreness, nipple bleeding, etc.


and so we can see that for a properly sadistic partner this can be a gift that keeps on giving.





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RE: lactation experiences - 4/24/2008 4:16:12 PM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		I tell ya what....you don't KNOW pain until someone's "latched on" to a raw, bloody, scabbed over nipple!

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RE: lactation experiences - 4/24/2008 4:21:34 PM   
KCherry


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Status: offline 		I second that motion as a woman who just stopped breast feeding last month, Ouchies.

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RE: lactation experiences - 4/24/2008 4:35:42 PM   
Downforlife


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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erotic_lactation
http://www.lactatings.com/erotic-lactation-stories/ (mostly porn.  But has stories, and stories usually have some attachment to reality)

"Mastitis is an inflammation of the breast and is most commonly associated with breastfeeding. About 1 in 5 breastfeeding women will develop mastitis sometime during their babies six months of life. Whilst this condition can be painful for the mother, there is no need to stop breastfeeding. There is no danger of the baby being passed this infection. In fact continuing to nurse may even help the condition to clear up without any medical intervention. A baby may sometimes refuse to feed because the breast milk may taste sour. When this happens, a mother can still feed from her other, unaffected breast or express the milk from the breast with the mastitis."


Possibly I am a freak; anything breast is what I seem to enjoy.  Induced or 'forced' lactation is a journey; induced lactation takes a little effort.  It is a process that you are willing to subject yourself.  Literally it is 'a part' of yourself you can offer.  I am not big on blood play but the more I hear others speak about their fetish I see an appeal - both give life.  I believe the person who is willing to offer this part of themselves in this way is very committed.  It is fairly primal as well; most will not allow anyone to 'milk' them.  Because of this it demonstrates confidence & commitment for both.  It can be 'brutal', humiliating, messy & fun - a little sticky at times too.  It is playing around with hormones though....  Because of this there might be some type of 'drop' associated with it.
 
"In a barn reduced to a milking cow, pumps pumping the tits while I'm on all fours on a bed of straw, being arse fucked .

Cups attached to breasts with pipes going from them to my mouth, having to drink my own milk , being fucked missionary so he watches.

Using the milk as lubricant (a cheap slut should come up with money saving ideas, don't you think?)

Having to have the milk drawn off everyday, like a farm animal.

Medical fantasies, with the Evil Doctor pumping my tits dry."

As a dom I find it very erotic.  I believe it speaks a lot about the women who will commit herself to do this.


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RE: lactation experiences - 4/24/2008 5:36:09 PM   
lovelylucy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: adrian28

Got milk??


Yup

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RE: lactation experiences - 4/24/2008 6:46:32 PM   
HornyToadsMI


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quote:

ORIGINAL: adrian28

Got milk??


Yep......it's my superpower....lol. 

I agree with michaels4evr - there are days that you just want your boobs all to yourself!!!    But it can really drive a man nutz, or freak him out.  i know Toad will miss it when it is gone.......

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RE: lactation experiences - 4/24/2008 7:08:51 PM   
ThundersCry


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Status: offline 		I was the....reciever.
 
The lady was in her 40`s and had never had children...
 
I agree what was said about *it* being a big commitment on both sides....it takes time and  patience in the beginning until lactaion occurs..
 
At times it was emotionally draining...the bond  became deep during that period...It took me to places I had never been as well as...her.
 
Erotic?...oh ya...
 
Sensual? Of course...she orgasmed constantly.
 
Enjoy...

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RE: lactation experiences - 4/24/2008 8:44:18 PM   
lighthearted


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ORIGINAL: windchymes

I tell ya what....you don't KNOW pain until someone's "latched on" to a raw, bloody, scabbed over nipple!


oh gawd, thanks for the reminder....

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RE: lactation experiences - 4/24/2008 8:52:35 PM   
toddlefeet


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Status: offline 		omg..this is one of my fav kinks. I looove breast feeding but I'mma guy lol..and an AB. but I'm gentle about it.

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RE: lactation experiences - 4/24/2008 9:53:48 PM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		ooooh great now i am hungry .. 

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RE: lactation experiences - 4/25/2008 1:28:12 AM   
KMsAngel


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Status: offline 		that comment, with that avatar..

*shiver*

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RE: lactation experiences - 4/25/2008 3:40:39 AM   
ZenDragoness


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ORIGINAL: JonasW

I once made the experience with a lactating woman and it was great. She had wonderful breasts and her sweet juice tasted so good. It was overwhelming and she was so vulnarable...it really drove me crazy ;)


Welcome to the boards Jonas, it is good to see you here.

Concerning the topic. I have no children and i do not think that this will change in the remaining time. But i was always fascinated by the idea of lactating in a S/M context, the hard work and the hormonal changes kept me till now away of trying it.

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