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Captive or not - 4/20/2008 9:39:04 PM

slave4abuse06

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Hi,
I would like to hear from other slaves/subs if you have the need or urge to be truly captured by a Domme and not just give your submission to someone. To be hunted, stalked or whatever and taken. Would you rather a Domme can recognize and take who She wants? Can you give to a Domme permanantly if She you simply doesn't do this. I guess I'm asking how far can and does Dominant behaviour in Female and Trans dominants go?

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RE: Captive or not - 4/20/2008 9:41:38 PM

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Can I interest you in some asbestos underwear?

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RE: Captive or not - 4/20/2008 9:42:11 PM

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I'm afraid unless they are independently wealthy and extremely isolated and living in a porn movie, the extreme you are discussing simply doesn't exist.

Kidnap for a few days? Sure no problem for most, even middle class.

It can be quite enjoyable to be forced down and taken, but that's not what makes an ongoing lasting relationship, certainly not with anyone you want to be able to expect consistent service from.

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RE: Captive or not - 4/20/2008 9:43:04 PM

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Fap fap fap fap fap.

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RE: Captive or not - 4/20/2008 9:44:45 PM

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ok, but how many of you dream of living in a chocolate palace with a marshmallow unicorn?

THAT would be HOT!

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RE: Captive or not - 4/20/2008 9:46:38 PM

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quote:

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ok, but how many of you dream of living in a chocolate palace with a marshmallow unicorn?

THAT would be HOT!

Only if i get to use the care bears for skeet practice.

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RE: Captive or not - 4/20/2008 10:25:20 PM

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ok, but how many of you dream of living in a chocolate palace with a marshmallow unicorn?

Droooools. You said the C word.

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RE: Captive or not - 4/20/2008 10:35:18 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

ok, but how many of you dream of living in a chocolate palace with a marshmallow unicorn?

THAT would be HOT!

This would be a very bad idea you know Id eat my own home and then id be out on the street!

SQUEE!

MS

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RE: Captive or not - 4/20/2008 10:48:15 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: slave4abuse06

Hi,
I would like to hear from other slaves/subs if you have the need or urge to be truly captured by a Domme and not just give your submission to someone. To be hunted, stalked or whatever and taken. Would you rather a Domme can recognize and take who She wants? Can you give to a Domme permanantly if She you simply doesn't do this. I guess I'm asking how far can and does Dominant behaviour in Female and Trans dominants go?

wow that is a hell of a first post.... and only 5 days after you joined...

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RE: Captive or not - 4/21/2008 5:12:42 AM

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i have done it both ways - with one, i stalked and hunted him as part of a Huntress party and with another, i simply recognized his need to be submissive which gradually turned into being my sissy pet.

within the yahoo groups i mod, some want that feel of dominant huntresses chasing them with paintball guns ...being hogtied and forced into submission. yet there are others searching for that Domme to call their own.

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RE: Captive or not - 4/21/2008 6:34:34 AM

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I know of people who have set up very elaborate kidnapping scenes which were gratifying for all involved. It takes careful planning, and each person needs to completely understand what is involved. You can live out any fantasy you desire if you can find the right person to work with you.

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RE: Captive or not - 4/21/2008 6:41:57 AM

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Can we toast the marshmallows?

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RE: Captive or not - 4/21/2008 6:51:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

ok, but how many of you dream of living in a chocolate palace with a marshmallow unicorn?

THAT would be HOT!

blushy, can we name him corny? we could all romp and play all day and finally, when there is nothing but chocolate running through our veins we could eat each other! ya know, it would taste better than chicken.

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RE: Captive or not - 4/21/2008 6:52:48 AM

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

Fap fap fap fap fap.

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RE: Captive or not - 4/21/2008 6:56:11 AM

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quote:

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quote:

ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

ok, but how many of you dream of living in a chocolate palace with a marshmallow unicorn?

THAT would be HOT!

blushy, can we name him corny? we could all romp and play all day and finally, when there is nothing but chocolate running through our veins we could eat each other! ya know, it would taste better than chicken.

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RE: Captive or not - 4/21/2008 7:34:47 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: slave4abuse06

Hi,
I would like to hear from other slaves/subs if you have the need or urge to be truly captured by a Domme and not just give your submission to someone. To be hunted, stalked or whatever and taken. Would you rather a Domme can recognize and take who She wants? Can you give to a Domme permanantly if She you simply doesn't do this. I guess I'm asking how far can and does Dominant behaviour in Female and Trans dominants go?

Before I came to terms with understanding my submissiveness, I was really uncomfortable admitting that I wanted to submit to someone, let alone persuing a relationship in which I submitted. I had trouble admitting my desires, fantasies and lusts, and so I loved the idea of someone just taking me and using me at will.

The problem with that is I had trouble distinguishing who was "good" and who was "not good" and I let a lot of "not good" people into a part of me where they didn't belong. Because I didn't understand my submission and what you said above was a hot fantasy of mine, I often mistook selfish domineering for healthy domination.

When I met my Master, he would not own me without my asking for it. This way he could ensure we both knew I really wanted to be there. Involuntary submission means nothing to him and doesn't interest him. But a submissive or slave whom he knows wants to be there leaves many doors open to possibilities.

Hopefully that's food for thought. I understand (I think) where you're coming from though. For me that wasn't a healthy option.

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RE: Captive or not - 4/21/2008 8:23:19 AM

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I'm sure most people enjoy feeling 'wanted' but it goes both ways. As a scene, sure a hunt/take-down would be fun. As a real life occurance? uhh no. If I'm hunting someone down it's because I intend to do bad things to them, not good. If someone is hunting me.. well, I'm not prey.
I don't tolerate being 'pursued' when I don't want to be, and if I want to be pursued, well I don't run away, I generally reciprocate the attentions.

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RE: Captive or not - 4/21/2008 8:33:58 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Can we toast the marshmallows?

Mmmm marshmallows, damn now I am hungry

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RE: Captive or not - 4/21/2008 10:34:41 AM

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   That's how I met my dom, actually. I was simply walking down the street, our eyes met. He sensed I was submissive, ::fwoop::-the blowdart hit me in the butt and down I went. I woke up chained in his basement, and that's where I am now, 6 months later.

   If he hadn't kidnapped me, I'd never know I was submissive and belonged to him. Also-he lives in a giant palace, his dungeon is bigger than a normal person's house, and there are about 50 girls down here with me (all with their own laptops for message-boardering!)

   Oh wait. No, I live in the real world. Sometimes, I do wish that I was forced into submission like some bad romance novel, but unfortunately, that's not feasable in the real world. If that's something you are looking for, it may be something a domme could help play out with you, but no one it going to take you off the street and force you into sexykinkytime adventures.

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RE: Captive or not - 4/22/2008 5:24:08 AM

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Of course if someone stalked and hunted you and you weren't interested in them, then they risk prison time for stalking and kidnapping.

Let's reframe this. How can you truly submit to someone who doesn't give you the opportunity to freely give her your submission?

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