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colouredin -> RE: When is it over........... (4/24/2008 1:54:01 PM)

no we arent, we are people that get off/work better like this that totally doesnt make us enlightened or better or more trusting or deeper *rolls eyes*



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: When is it over........... (4/24/2008 2:01:14 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DupedDom

No, it is not the way it works. There is a relationship, trust and understanding between an dom/sub. it goes deeper than any vanilla relationship. Maybe someday you will understand how we are. We are people that commit a little harder, we are people that trust and give more.

Maybe someday I will explain a little more about it to you.



so i wonder how my parents stayed vanillaly married for 40yrs if they didn't commit harder or have trust and understanding.



LaTigresse -> RE: When is it over........... (4/24/2008 2:02:37 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DupedDom

No, it is not the way it works. There is a relationship, trust and understanding between an dom/sub. it goes deeper than any vanilla relationship. Maybe someday you will understand how we are. We are people that commit a little harder, we are people that trust and give more.

Maybe someday I will explain a little more about it to you.




Well now it is time for you to pull your head out of your ass.

WE ARE NOT SPECIAL! We just like to kinkify our lives a wee bit more than the average bear. If you want an honest deep more commited relationship, become a freakin monk or something. Commit to god or whatever the fuck you wanna call your higher power but don't assume that just because a person calls themselves a slave, submissive, dominant, master, mistress or grandfuckinpuba that they are going to be any more honest or better in a relationship than your average Dick or Jane.........cuz it just ain't so.



christine1 -> RE: When is it over........... (4/24/2008 2:04:15 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DupedDom

No, it is not the way it works. There is a relationship, trust and understanding between an dom/sub. it goes deeper than any vanilla relationship. Maybe someday you will understand how we are. We are people that commit a little harder, we are people that trust and give more.

Maybe someday I will explain a little more about it to you.




you commit harder?  harder than what?  vanilla pudding?  an old pile of dog shit?

if your commitment level depends on vanilla or bdsm you suck dude, you deserve all the misery you get... here, have a peice of raw brocollay and the wittle tummy ache that comes with it...no fucking cheese for you.



colouredin -> RE: When is it over........... (4/24/2008 2:05:45 PM)

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ORIGINAL: christine1
no fucking cheese for you.


you evil bitch



CalifChick -> RE: When is it over........... (4/24/2008 2:06:49 PM)

Guess he commits about as hard to a sub as he did to his wife, huh.  Maybe he can explain that to me.

Cali



christine1 -> RE: When is it over........... (4/24/2008 2:08:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: colouredin

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ORIGINAL: christine1
no fucking cheese for you.


you evil bitch


brush the hair out of my eye and tell me that to my face!  then i'll give you a smoochy girl!



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: When is it over........... (4/24/2008 2:11:07 PM)

[sm=bowdown.gif]



colouredin -> RE: When is it over........... (4/24/2008 2:13:12 PM)

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ORIGINAL: christine1

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ORIGINAL: colouredin

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ORIGINAL: christine1
no fucking cheese for you.


you evil bitch


brush the hair out of my eye and tell me that to my face!  then i'll give you a smoochy girl!


wow theres the most tempting thing ive heard since ummmm... you mentioned brocolli and cheese :P



SassySarijane -> RE: When is it over........... (4/24/2008 2:20:08 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DupedDom

No, it is not the way it works. There is a relationship, trust and understanding between an dom/sub. it goes deeper than any vanilla relationship. Maybe someday you will understand how we are. We are people that commit a little harder, we are people that trust and give more.

Maybe someday I will explain a little more about it to you.




No, actually there are the same kinds of people here and into bdsm as there are in any walks of life. BDSM doesn't make you special, it doesn't make you better, it doesn't make you more than those not into it. It just makes you kinky and doing what fulfills you, doing your thing just as others do their's. Maybe stepping out of fantasyland would open your eyes because you come off like you're stuck in it vs reality and before you decide to "explain" it to any of us, be advised we'd be more likely to listen to John Warren, Jay Wiseman and Jack Rinella, among several others, than believing your version. Ever heard of them?



Lordandmaster -> RE: When is it over........... (4/24/2008 2:43:30 PM)

Actually, yes.  Why did you ask a question if you don't want to hear an answer?

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ORIGINAL: DupedDom

So, is this where all of the self proclamed, I am a true master and expert on everything BDSM chime in???



ResidentSadist -> RE: When is it over........... (4/24/2008 3:06:34 PM)

old adage... never fall in love with someone that is married, they cheat on their partners.
In your case it would read, never fall in love while cheating on your partner, you're married dude.
 
[Edit: type-o]



GreedyTop -> RE: When is it over........... (4/24/2008 3:12:18 PM)

thanks to those who said what I edited out for saying it ever so much more politely than I did (before I remembered that [sm=adminwatch.gif]



sirsholly -> RE: When is it over........... (4/24/2008 3:45:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DupedDom

No, it is not the way it works. There is a relationship, trust and understanding between an dom/sub. it goes deeper than any vanilla relationship. Maybe someday you will understand how we are. We are people that commit a little harder, we are people that trust and give more.

Maybe someday I will explain a little more about it to you.




Lemme get this strait...You have had a total of ONE sub but feel qualified to tell everyone how "it works". Ahh...lucky us.
Then you babble that a relationship between a dom/sub is deeper than any vanilla relationship. Wrong about this one too. It might be, but it is not a given. And tell me..if the relationship with the sub you dumped because your wife told you to was so deep and loving, why didn't you dump your vanilla wife for the sub?
And lastly (oh i love this one) you claim to be one of the select "we" who "commit a little harder". Guess what, pal....those who commit a little harder DO NOT CHEAT ON THEIR WIVES!



KCherry -> RE: When is it over........... (4/24/2008 4:09:13 PM)

Besides if you were really that commited you would have gotten a divorce and kept your sub when your wife found out instead of dumping her like she was worthless. But hey that's just me.



cjan -> RE: When is it over........... (4/24/2008 6:06:50 PM)

DopeyDom, you are obviously knocking the ladies dead here. Does it work equally as well for you in "real" life ?



sunshinemiss -> RE: When is it over........... (4/24/2008 6:49:04 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DupedDom

Thank you all, obviously, you are all perfect. All of your relationships are cookie cutters and there is one set of rules for everyone. There is no perfect Dom and no prerfect sub. Just people that are perfect for each other. I though, even in the midst of my infidelity that I had found the perfect women, someone that satisfied a carnal urge in me like no other had before. I am in my fifties, kids are graduating and hopefully moving out, I have the rest of my life to either find someone special and live every day ot the fullest, or to stay put. To give my grandkids and my extended family some stability. I made a noble choice and had trouble dealing with the consequences, that makes me weak, I know.

All I expected from the woman that I had grown to love so much as a woman and as my servant, to show me the last bit of respect. That is too much to ask???


You found the perfect woman, eh?  your kids are still at home, eh?  difficulty dealing with the consequesces?  hmmmm..

You loved her so much as a woman and as your servant that you dropped her like a hotcake.  and now according to your journal you and your wife are just sailing along beautifully cause she can swallow and lets you dominate her in bed.  ahem.

Yes, you are weak.

But a "noble" choice - sure, if the noble is Henry VIII.



GreedyTop -> RE: When is it over........... (4/24/2008 6:54:12 PM)

*snort*

Henry VIII....*snicker*



sirsholly -> RE: When is it over........... (4/25/2008 2:40:35 AM)

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ORIGINAL: cjan

DopeyDom, you are obviously knocking the ladies dead here. Does it work equally as well for you in "real" life ?


snort-worthy!!!!



DupedDom -> RE: When is it over........... (4/25/2008 12:56:08 PM)

Beaten to within an inch of my life by folks with a combined 500,000 forum entries I will say that I have seen the light. Our relationship started out with little hope of things ending pretty and they did not. When vows are displaced, it makes an impossible base to build on. And when two people married to others fall in love, well close your eyes and count to ten because soemthing is gonna explode in someone's face. What was once mine is now another's, he will help her heal, he will be there 24/7, not just on the weekends his wife is away. I let go the woman and made a tough choice. Like a limb that has been severed, I still feel her at my side. Anger, Denial, I know the other stages but seems I am stuck on the big D.

To those who attacked me personally, screw off and for those who with fervor defended my subs position, I fear you correct.



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