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Leatherist -> RE: When is it over........... (4/21/2008 10:47:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DupedDom I am married and so is my sub. My wife found out about us and i told my sub that I could not see her again. We tried finding some alternative ways that we could keep our dom/sub relationship alive but could not find anything that suited her. That was in Sept. 07. We talked a bit and she told me that she wanted another master but I resisted. I found out last week that she has been collared by another. Do I have any rights to ask her or her new Dom, that they at least ask me, before they comtinue their relationship. It is sort of after the fact but I want my due. Karma is a right old bitch queen, eh?

angelicbitch -> RE: When is it over........... (4/21/2008 11:04:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DupedDom Thank you all, obviously, you are all perfect. All of your relationships are cookie cutters and there is one set of rules for everyone. There is no perfect Dom and no prerfect sub. Just people that are perfect for each other. I though, even in the midst of my infidelity that I had found the perfect women, someone that satisfied a carnal urge in me like no other had before. I am in my fifties, kids are graduating and hopefully moving out, I have the rest of my life to either find someone special and live every day ot the fullest, or to stay put. To give my grandkids and my extended family some stability. I made a noble choice and had trouble dealing with the consequences, that makes me weak, I know. All I expected from the woman that I had grown to love so much as a woman and as my servant, to show me the last bit of respect. That is too much to ask??? You have got to be kidding right ... where do you think that everyone is perfect ??? Because we were all allowed to put O/our two cents in.... or because most of the people that responded think you are wrong on SOOOO many levels ??? You thought y ou found the perfect woman in the midst of your infidelity ??? Ummm shouldn't that "perfect person" have been your wife??? You want respect ??? Hmmmm and where in this whole sorted mess did YOU show anyone any respect ???? I am sorry ... I guess I fail to see where in there this is about you. You involved a married woman * which she was wrong as well if her husband didn't know*, and YOUR wife .... what respect did you show either of them?? I guess it just escapes me ... , and maybe alot of things escape me. But that doesn't give you the right to act like you are the one who was screwed over. I believe that someone had mentioned in a previous post something about Karma..... What comes around goes around Mr. Dom.... and when it comes around to bite you in the backside it will be worse than what you did. ~shakes head~ I am telling ya... its a shame stupidity isnt PAINFUL !!!!!!!!!!!

angelicbitch -> RE: When is it over........... (4/21/2008 11:24:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DupedDom I am sorry, I though my wife had grown away from me but she still loves me very much. I will never cheat again, she will never let herself get to the point where she was, killing herself slowly, one day at a time. For 27 years, I remained faithfull, a good father boy scouts, PTA, I did it all, while my wife sat on her ass and contributed little, my kids were read bed time stories because I did it. Yes, it is what I was supposed to do but not alone. Does anyone think that I just did this on a whim?? I was weak and in my weakness, found a woman like no other. I worked so hard to be a good Dom, being kind, being strict, punishing and rewarding, taking and giving. To anyone who says I am lesser of a Dom than they, I say thee NAY!!! I hurt the woman who loves me probably more than any other and I make up for it every day. She is very gracious for not kicking me out on my ass. Guys, I am not that stupid. Hmmmm wonder where one can find a father of the year award!!! Sounds like you deserve one!!! When I was 18 I dated my first Dom.. * and I use that term loosely he was an abusive ass* I went to cosmotology school, took care of my two daughters ( ages 2 1/2 and an infant), cooked, took care of the house, and got my ass beat for breathing wrong. And he sat on his fat ass and did NOTHING!!!!!!!! I left because I wanted better for myself and for my girls! And I did better for myself... and for my girls!! And God have mercy on a soul they would ever post or say something as mean and hateful as you did about your wife!!! I am sorry men like you and my youngest daughter's dad need to be shipped to a far away island!! Where you can't hurt the ones you are too hold DEAR!!! Your pity me routine is old and tiresome. But yet you sit there and try to justify what you did.... weakness that is an excuse!! Everyone gets weak ... but most people with half a brain cell don't act upon it! Like I said in a previous post.. if I was your wife you would bounce so far and hard you wouldn't even hit the curb!!! The other thing that amazes me ... shortly after I posted the first message to this thread... I had a guess who is veiwing you .... and I will give you all three guesses who it was and the first two don't count !!!!! I am sure he checked out alot of profiles that posted messages on here..... just galled me when I saw it... okay I am now done ranting..... need a cigarette and some caffine.... and all will be fine

SoulPiercer -> RE: When is it over........... (4/21/2008 11:24:40 PM)
Married, single or anywhere in between, it's over when "your sub" says it is. In fact, as is apparently the case, she doesn't actually have to say anything to you. It's called Power Exchange. The Power was her's to give and take back whenever she so choses, as you have obviously discovered. In case you haven't figured this one out .. although it's been a knonw fact for many a year: If they cheat WITH you .. they WILL cheat ON you. Your wife found out and you're still alive .. your mistress found herself another playmate. Count yourself lucky and move on. Karma went relatively easy on you. Keep pushing and looking to get your "due" and you could end up getting a serious ass beating or worse by jealous hubby, new playmate or both at the same time.

peppermint -> RE: When is it over........... (4/22/2008 12:32:16 AM)
quote: The other thing that amazes me ... shortly after I posted the first message to this thread... I had a guess who is veiwing you .... and I will give you all three guesses who it was and the first two don't count !!!!! I am sure he checked out alot of profiles that posted messages on here..... just galled me when I saw it... Yeah....he checked out my profile too. I think he's hoping to find someone who is married and cheating who might have commented on him being married and cheating. That way he can believe that we're all married and putting him down because we are the hypocrits he's called us. He was quickly deleted.

GreedyTop -> RE: When is it over........... (4/22/2008 12:43:46 AM)
snicker

DupedDom -> RE: When is it over........... (4/22/2008 5:04:09 AM)
There is no such thing as Karma and stupidity, who is immune?? I knew that the response would be mostly negative and you folks are providing the same arguments that my sub has and that I have wrestled with myself. For those who have given me their opinion, well, that is what I posted for. Thanks for taking your time to write!!

DupedDom -> RE: When is it over........... (4/22/2008 5:08:33 AM)
I recieved similar messages, that my profile was being checked out. Most of the profiles, I had never seen. I realized it was because of this post and wanted to see who was checking me out. Do not worry, your pretty little head, I have NO designs on anyone in here. I had a slave that is prettier, more dedicated and who has a larger sense of what it means to serve, than anyone of you. Did you ever recieve correspondance from me? I don't think so. So don't flatter yourselves.

DupedDom -> RE: When is it over........... (4/22/2008 5:12:30 AM)
I appriciate you taking the time to post, you have some good insight. I know what a power exchange is. That ass whipping thing, not gonna happen, even if her new buddy is a biker type.

sirsholly -> RE: When is it over........... (4/22/2008 5:22:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DupedDom I have NO designs on anyone in here. I had a slave that is prettier, more dedicated and who has a larger sense of what it means to serve, than anyone of you. Did you ever recieve correspondance from me? I don't think so. So don't flatter yourselves. TRANSLATION: The op can't get laid.

DupedDom -> RE: When is it over........... (4/22/2008 5:29:06 AM)
So it is my fault that you have no better judgement than to marry an abuser and decided to bring children into the world with him, right???

purepleasure -> RE: When is it over........... (4/22/2008 6:05:41 AM)
Eh, time to let this thread go. What more can be said? Cheating married dominant met amazing but married submissive. Both ignored the marriage vows they took with their respective spouses. One spouse found out, got pissed and demanded an end to the D/s dynamic - aka AFFAIR - dominant wants to keep control of cheating submissive with online only dominance. Subbie ain't having it, as her real time fun with original Dom has terminated. Old story, new actors. I'm waiting for the remake starring Vin Diesel and Charlize Theron to hit the silver screen. Popcorn anyone? [sm=popcorn.gif]

DupedDom -> RE: When is it over........... (4/22/2008 6:13:49 AM)
Is the ability or lack of ability to get laid an important thing in your life??? Is it some type of barometer that you measure a man??? Are you in junior high school???

DupedDom -> RE: When is it over........... (4/22/2008 6:17:19 AM)
Eh, time to let this thread go. What more can be said? Cheating married dominant met amazing but married submissive. Both ignored the marriage vows they took with their respective spouses. One spouse found out, got pissed and demanded an end to the D/s dynamic - aka AFFAIR - dominant wants to keep control of cheating submissive with online only dominance. Subbie ain't having it, as her real time fun with original Dom has terminated. Old story, new actors. I'm waiting for the remake starring Vin Diesel and Charlize Theron to hit the silver screen. Popcorn anyone? [sm=popcorn.gif] [/quote] I agree, thanks for the input. If you ever saw my sub, Charlene Theron, could't fill her leather pants!!!

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: When is it over........... (4/22/2008 6:19:47 AM)
you didn't ask your wife beforehand to have a relationship outside your marriage. so why should you be given that curtesy which you didn't give your wife? this is a main reason why i reject married doms (or submissives)

purepleasure -> RE: When is it over........... (4/22/2008 6:20:36 AM)
[/quote] I agree, thanks for the input. If you ever saw my sub, Charlene Theron, could't fill her leather pants!!! [/quote] Anybody want to touch this? Anyone? This is soooooo begging for a fat chick remark.

GreedyTop -> RE: When is it over........... (4/22/2008 6:23:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: purepleasure I agree, thanks for the input. If you ever saw my sub, Charlene Theron, could't fill her leather pants!!! Anybody want to touch this? Anyone? This is soooooo begging for a fat chick remark. snickersnort

Twstdkinkerbell -> RE: When is it over........... (4/22/2008 6:24:19 AM)
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KMsAngel -> RE: When is it over........... (4/22/2008 6:27:44 AM)
to the op, what EXACTLY do you feel is your due? specifically, not just vaguelly

sirsholly -> RE: When is it over........... (4/22/2008 6:29:01 AM)
~~fr~~ oh grow up!! You call yourself "duped"? How so? You were screwing around on your spouse and got caught so you dumped your sub. She went out and found another and you have the balls to say you are duped because she did not run back to the clown who ditched her and ask "may i". Then you diss every female on this thread as not good enough for your lying, cheating ass when in reality there are few, if any, submissives here who would pee on you if you were on fire. And my guess is you already KNOW this. There is no doubt in my mind you have scored...oh...i would say a big fat ZERO with the subs you approached. My guess...your former sub did not approach you for "permission" because you simply do not matter in the least.

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