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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 4:25:33 PM   
wannacollarme


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thank u oldbastardly1, omegag, and hiswetness 4 all the suggestions but would like 2 know more of how 2 plz him by massaging his feet bc i will b @ his feet more than anything else.... i want 2 b able 2 plz him so he is happy and satisfied with everything i do 4 him.... what would some of u suggest that would b the best thing 2 use on his feet ( baby oil, lotion, etc) plz give me some suggestions on what i should do..... thank yall again 4 the suggestions that all of yall have suggested so far....

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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 4:30:05 PM   
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thank u hopelessfool 4 the suggestion but what i need 2 know now is how 2 b able 2 service my master/dom  and what suggestions can u or any1 else give me abt what i can use 2 b able 2 service my master/dom

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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 4:30:24 PM   
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I would suggest sesame oil....it does a body good. Warming it first is even better.

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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 4:32:37 PM   
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thank u very much i may have 2 try that and what other things could u tell me on how 2 make my master/dom happy and satisfied

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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 5:12:06 PM   
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No one can tell you what will make your master happy, except him.  It's your job to learn what he likes and eventually be able to anticipate what he wants.  For instance, you know that he likes it when you swallow his cum, so if you're giving head, it would be safe to assume that he wants you to swallow.  I think the previous posters have given you some great ideas on how to make it more enjoyable for you.
 
If you honestly want to know how to please him, just ask him.  Communication is very important in any relationship.  You should be able to ask questions and expect an honest answer.  If he's unwilling or unable to tell you what to do so that you can become familiar with his likes and dislikes, he might not be the one for you.  It's called training for a reason, and that's his job.

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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 5:41:53 PM   
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thank u 4 this information but i am only here just 2 get new suggestions on what he may like and try new things and my dom already has told me what he likes

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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 6:19:26 PM   
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At the risk of over simplifying it.... simply communicate to Him, in ALL your actions, how His pleasure is the most important thing to you and how He is the center of your world.
And good food, lots of it....and the best of your female friends.

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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 6:31:34 PM   
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quote:

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thank u 4 the suggestion but that doesnt give me any information abt swallowing cum its the taste of the cum that makes me sick could u give me advice abt this or do u not know


Detach the action from your thoughts and feelings of it. Don't psych yourself out. Don't tell yourself you're going to get sick. Just do it if it's your duty, or for whatever reason.

Then there's the ol' "Sir, I really can't do this without puking in your lap. Can we stop trying it now?"

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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 6:35:12 PM   
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quote:

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thank u 4 this information but i am only here just 2 get new suggestions on what he may like and try new things and my dom already has told me what he likes


m'Lord likes me to match his socks and watch historical documentaries with him.  He also likes to stop movies to discuss the accuracy with me.

Point is, only your master can tell you what makes him happy and just because he wants you at his feet does not mean he wants them touched.

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RE: need advice - 4/21/2008 7:06:25 PM   
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he does want me at his feet,and he wants them touched,and licked and cleaned,and i am just trying to think of new things,to please him,thats why i am asking for the advice!anybody got any erotic suggestions? 

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RE: need advice - 4/22/2008 5:22:10 AM   
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What exactly does it makes you sick mean? Is it a mental hangup or are you getting stomach pains afterwards? Because if the latter then you may be part of that minority that is allergic to the protein in cum. Is it the taste, because he can improve that by changing his diet.

Leaping out of bed to spit it out is frowned on, but allowing it to dribble out of your mouth onto a discreet tissue probably wouldn't go over so bad.

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RE: need advice - 4/22/2008 12:36:25 PM   
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ty very much 4 all the suggestions batshalom, omegag, desFIP.....


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RE: need advice - 4/22/2008 12:43:07 PM   
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i would like 2 here a few suggestions from other male or female doms on some new ideas and creative suggestions on how 2 plz or satisfy my dom on how 2 b creative things that i can try with my dom and some creative suggestions on what 2 say 2 my dom 2 make him plzed with me.... any new and creative suggestions r wlcm

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RE: need advice - 4/22/2008 1:13:41 PM   
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It make just take getting used to.  I never used to like  the taste either but i got used to it.  As to make him happy ever think of taking a belly dancing class or maybe do a striptease for him.  I can say that it is sexy and erotic.

Matt's littleone

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RE: need advice - 4/22/2008 1:40:55 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: wannacollarme

i can use some suggestions from other subs/slaves,on different ways to make my dom happy,when it comes to oral,especially when it come to swallowing,it makes me sick when i do,he respect that,but is there something i can take that i wont make me sick,and other suggestions on body worship,because my goal is to make him happy no matter what,that is what i live for,but i need some new suggestions
any advice? 


He respects the fact that you find it difficult to have his nasty tasting cum in your mouth. 
2 suggestions ~~  1.  mints before and after or mouth wash
                           2.  his cum is the by product of what he eats...
so if he respects, then he will make an effort to sweeten his load before its delivered, just like like you are attempting to enjoy it.
 
How you worship his body or I how worship my Sir's body depend on several factors ~~  1. what his expectations and wants are
                          2. whether he has discussed these with me
                          3. the fact that I do for him what he wants/expects
 
What another man wants, expects is gonna be VERY different than what mine does. 
So ask him...after you ask him...do as he desires.
Then your goals/desires are satisfied...you satisfy him and his desires... NOT another subs thoughts are on how to do for him what you can ask of him. 
 
But then again if you go to  http://www.literotica.com/  you might find something that amuses you that might find him happy.   

Edited to add...  if I emailed textez to my Sir in a letter, or had my profile in partial textez, as an educated woman,  I wouldnt be owned.  Go figure.

< Message edited by Sirsinini -- 4/22/2008 1:52:40 PM >


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RE: need advice - 4/22/2008 4:31:13 PM   
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ty sirsinini and littleone35 4 the suggestions they r greatly appreciated...

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need other male and female dom advice - 4/22/2008 4:33:15 PM   
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i would like 2 have new suggestions and creative ways 2 plz and make my dom satisfied and happy

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RE: need other male and female dom advice - 4/22/2008 4:38:49 PM   
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Sure fire way to make any Master happy.....

On your knees mouth and throat open wide. suck til dry
say "thank you for your cum, Sir" and kiss his feet.



Edited to say: The cum should be hitting the back of your throat so it shouldnt be that bad. If you really cant bring yourself to adore you master this way and suck it up like a good girl, than ask him to pull out and give you a facial.

< Message edited by lusciouslips19 -- 4/22/2008 4:42:07 PM >


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RE: need advice - 4/22/2008 4:44:29 PM   
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Ask him to drink pineapple juice. a glass or two the night before or that day, as long as he doesn't orgasm before he sees you will cause his cum to taste super sweet. That'll help a lot! Sometimes men drink lots of coffee or other things that make their cum taste, well, hard to swallow lets say. Perhaps we should invite them to taste test themselves to see how they'd feel. But then again, they are on top ; )

My partner, (I'm in a full power exchange), is nice enough to keep pineapple juice in his regular diet as he likes to use my mouth a lot.

Cheers

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RE: need advice - 4/22/2008 7:12:22 PM   
wannacollarme


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ty lusciouslips19 and poisonbeatrice i love yalls suggestions ty...

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