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searching for love n dominance - 4/21/2008 12:21:39 PM   
selena123


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Status: offline 		okay, I knew a sub who sent messages to like 50 women at one time telling them all he was loyal, faithful and looking for his true love. He told two or three that he thought he wanted to marry them. It was his plan to sort of have relationships with them all and then dump the 49 he didn't want? is this as stupid as it sounds to me?
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RE: searching for love n dominance - 4/21/2008 12:24:56 PM   
colouredin


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Status: offline 		lol did it work? thats the test.

I watched the misfits yesterday and there were a few lines

"since when did you get to know anyone by asking questions"
"maybe believeing what he said wasnt even fair to him"

You learn about someones character not by what they say but by what they do, i would suggest telling someone that you are loyal would instantly make them question it. You show people your loyalty.

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RE: searching for love n dominance - 4/21/2008 12:55:41 PM   
KatyLied


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quote:

is this as stupid as it sounds to me?


Not if he finds 50 stupid women who will fall for it.


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RE: searching for love n dominance - 4/21/2008 7:21:06 PM   
batshalom


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RE: searching for love n dominance - 4/21/2008 7:27:47 PM   
greenearth21


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quote:

ORIGINAL: selena123

okay, I knew a sub who sent messages to like 50 women at one time telling them all he was loyal, faithful and looking for his true love. He told two or three that he thought he wanted to marry them. It was his plan to sort of have relationships with them all and then dump the 49 he didn't want? is this as stupid as it sounds to me?


I think the fact that he claimed/lied he wanted to marry any of them without knowing them was a bit stupid.  Okay maybe not a bit stupid but....beyond stupid.  if the women fell for it that sucks...but it also depends on what these women believed based on what he'd possibly said to them.  All of that is stupid in my opinion as well.  If he wasnt honest with each woman about any other relationships he's had then thats a sorry piece of *&^%$

If he was honest about it, then i dont see anythign wrong with his plan.  There's nothign wrong with knowing more than one person and seeing if you are compatible with one and not the other.  Process of elimination....that i dont think is stupid.


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RE: searching for love n dominance - 4/21/2008 8:14:52 PM   
Daddyslilpookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: selena123

okay, I knew a sub who sent messages to like 50 women at one time telling them all he was loyal, faithful and looking for his true love. He told two or three that he thought he wanted to marry them. It was his plan to sort of have relationships with them all and then dump the 49 he didn't want? is this as stupid as it sounds to me?


Wow these women must be really naive and yes stupid

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RE: searching for love n dominance - 4/21/2008 8:15:31 PM   
TethersEnd


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Status: offline 		I see it as he's learned the numbers game.  Eventually one will swallow the bait.  

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RE: searching for love n dominance - 4/22/2008 4:46:52 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		He may run into the same problem that I have. How to get rid of 30 women. Next time I will stick to only sending out 10 mails at a time.

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RE: searching for love n dominance - 4/22/2008 5:06:52 AM   
ChampagneMojito


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Status: offline 		It's the level of personalisation that really makes Database Marketing effective. Which reminds me, I'd better get back to sending out these winning lottery notifications

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RE: searching for love n dominance - 4/22/2008 5:18:31 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		He told them he was looking for someone he could love and marry, not that he was proposing to them all unmet. Maybe he was telling the truth, that that was what he is looking for in a relationship.

Not that sending a form letter is the best way to go about it imo.

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RE: searching for love n dominance - 4/22/2008 5:37:17 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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i receive messages from male submissives professing their undyling love, devotion, faithfulness, etc while claiming to be "no limits i'll do whatever you want me to do" slave. then at the end, there's a marriage proposal.  messages like that only end up being deleted without reply.




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RE: searching for love n dominance - 4/22/2008 7:05:23 AM   
Leatherist


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Status: offline 		God, that would scare the living crap out of me.

I would think a woman doing that to a total stranger was insane.

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RE: searching for love n dominance - 4/22/2008 10:30:42 AM   
GoddessTeaze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: selena123

okay, I knew a sub who sent messages to like 50 women at one time telling them all he was loyal, faithful and looking for his true love. He told two or three that he thought he wanted to marry them. It was his plan to sort of have relationships with them all and then dump the 49 he didn't want? is this as stupid as it sounds to me?

And you think a real sub,
would do such a rediculous act????

No wonder Woman get tired of wanabees!

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RE: searching for love n dominance - 4/22/2008 11:40:01 AM   
KaineD


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Status: offline 		You pretty much have to play the numbers game.  Which kind of sucks, 'cause there are maybe 5 decent profiles in the UK for female subs in my age range.

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RE: searching for love n dominance - 4/22/2008 1:28:01 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		That is pretty stupid, but like others said if he gets just one to fall for it he will have got one he wanted.(Maybe)

Matt's littleone

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RE: searching for love n dominance - 4/22/2008 3:32:55 PM   
colouredin


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Status: offline 		wow there are only 5 decent subs in the uk in your age range? seriously? Im 21, never got a message from you, im actually rather offended *sobs*

< Message edited by colouredin -- 4/22/2008 3:33:26 PM >

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RE: searching for love n dominance - 4/22/2008 3:50:03 PM   
SteelofUtah


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Status: offline 		Of Course it works!!!!

If It didn't why would there be so MANY of them??

You know it works because of the ammount of sub sob stories about the Big Bad Dom that broke thier lil subbie heart.

Stupidity runs rampant.

The really sad thing is that once a girl falls for thier Bullshit they then Treat ALL DOM'S like they are the exact same way. I wonder is anyone knows the amount of Emotional Bullshit a person has to wade through all because this shit REALLY DOES WORK.

But for as often as it is pointed out people CONTINUE to think that somehow they are different.

Morons.

Steel

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RE: searching for love n dominance - 4/22/2008 4:24:10 PM   
KCherry


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Status: offline 		My question is where does he find time to juggle that many reply messages. Too much work. -.-; I'd lose track of who was who quickly.

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RE: searching for love n dominance - 4/22/2008 4:35:11 PM   
MladyHathor


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Status: offline 		Only if you were one of the 49 that got dumped.

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