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RE: No Shows, Why? - 4/22/2008 11:45:10 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		Lynn what if his cell phone is out of range. Try finding a pay phone on the road. If he is living with his/her parents then he may be on a curfew.  Subtee Ron is way over there------------------------------------------>      

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RE: No Shows, Why? - 4/22/2008 11:57:21 AM   
Taboo4Two


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Status: offline 		It's not just a FemDom / male sub thing.  There are lots of no shows on all sides on the Dom / sub, Male / Female equation. Chalk it up to cold feet and move on. If you want to give them a second chance be sure they understand that its two strikes and you're out. This is not baseball.

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RE: No Shows, Why? - 4/22/2008 2:01:18 PM   
Sirsinini


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ORIGINAL: LadyRissa

Ive spoken with other FemmeDoms and we've all had the same problem, so Im going to the source here and asking. Why is it that so many male subs make appointments to meet a Domme and then dont show up? I know not all of them do this but it seems to be endemic. Can anyone enlighten me?

Lady Rissa


I've spoken with other female submissives  and we've all had the same problem.  Why is it that so many dom/mes make appointments to meet a female submissive and then dont show up?
I know not all of them do this but it seems to be pandemic.    

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RE: No Shows, Why? - 4/22/2008 2:18:32 PM   
MissHarlet


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Status: offline 		Perhaps it is simply that common courtesy is now a lost art ... there should be no excuse for a lack of manners and not showing .. and especially no explanation... is a BIG lack of manners ....

I have little use for rudeness or lack of manners ..... in anyone Dominant or Submissive .. but that is me ....its a part of the measuring stick I use to judge compatibility

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RE: No Shows, Why? - 4/22/2008 2:49:36 PM   
GoddessTeaze


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyRissa

Ive spoken with other FemmeDoms and we've all had the same problem, so Im going to the source here and asking. Why is it that so many male subs make appointments to meet a Domme and then dont show up? I know not all of them do this but it seems to be endemic. Can anyone enlighten me?

Lady Rissa

There will be many reasons..
It hasn't got to do with being pro here or not.
It's about an empty promise,
even when you're on cam & voice for a year,
they manage to stand ya up when
the time is there..

I don't know maybe they get off on that..


LadyRissa!

keep it up, and goodluck.

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RE: No Shows, Why? - 4/22/2008 4:37:54 PM   
MladyHathor


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Status: offline 		OMG, I get it--they are really Doms and are afraid of being outed!

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RE: No Shows, Why? - 4/22/2008 5:17:03 PM   
MissHarlet


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ORIGINAL: MladyHathor

OMG, I get it--they are really Doms and are afraid of being outed!


Busted out laffing on that one .. not that we all dont get our share of those letters too !!

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RE: No Shows, Why? - 4/22/2008 6:40:15 PM   
DelilahDeb


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What the hey, I've joined the club.
Damn it, and he was the closest thing to a service sub who'd actually serve that I've talked to yet.
I'm giving him 24 hours to make contact and let me know he was in an accident.
After that, block.

Delilah Deb

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RE: No Shows, Why? - 4/22/2008 6:45:49 PM   
stella41b


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Status: offline 		This is something which really gets on my tits.

We have the Internet, we have cellphones, payphones, regular phones, cordless phones, pagers, text messages, there's no excuse for no show.

But we also appear to have what I call anti-culture, where it's acceptable to be selfish, ignorant, disrespectful and downright moronic. But what do we expect after replacing families and communities with corporate culture and consumerism? Sunday parenting with childcare and nannies throughout the week doesn't work - kids need parental control, discipline, and interaction, they need love and security.

Otherwise they grow up into the anti-social yobs we have today who cannot comprehend anything which doesn't affect them directly or which doesn't give them instant gratification.

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RE: No Shows, Why? - 4/22/2008 8:07:33 PM   
Lynnxz


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Lynn what if his cell phone is out of range. Try finding a pay phone on the road. If he is living with his/her parents then he may be on a curfew.  Subtee Ron is way over there------------------------------------------>      


Too many what-ifs. -.-

So far...
The gas is too expensive
His GPS died
The cellphone is out of range
He can't find a pay phone
AND he has a curfew...

If you dip out on me, that's a permanent place on the wanker list for you... hahaha.

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RE: No Shows, Why? - 4/29/2008 6:52:15 PM   
FlamingRedhead


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Status: offline 		Add me to the list!  I've been stood up by 2....yes, you heard me....2 (TWO) supposedly dominant males from this site in a week.  Wow!  I must be going for some kind of record.
 
 

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RE: No Shows, Why? - 4/29/2008 7:02:21 PM   
missjan


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Status: offline 		I've been stood up by the same man twice. Then recently, a meeting  was cancelled after he was 8 hours late, by a text....

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RE: No Shows, Why? - 4/29/2008 7:04:08 PM   
KCherry


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Status: offline 		Yea I recently got the "Oh, it was too late to call" excuse after moving our meeting back a few times but meh, I've moved on to bigger and better things. I think they just chicken out.

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RE: No Shows, Why? - 5/3/2008 11:23:46 PM   
BotanicalMiss


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Status: offline 		It sucks, but it happens to all of us no matter how long we've been in contact with someone. I've had subs not show and not contact me for a week or longer, and then come up with some vague excuse only when pushed for one. My partner and I even had a situation where we invested a couple of months talking online and by phone with a girl a few states away, developing what we thought was a good solid base relationship. She was going to come here for a week and called every 2 hours on her "drive" here. Her last call was from a city an hour away... and she poofed into thin air... until about a month later when she showed up online again and blocked our messages. I know it's frustrating, but even more so when they do show up and expect sex, a collar, or both after sharing a cup of coffee!

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