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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/22/2008 3:07:09 AM   
hopelessfool


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Status: offline 		The only time I have asked someone who wanted to be "discrete" why is when I was interested in them on a level that is more then just curosity. Married men or women that message me telling me "If i try it ill like it" Get a wonderful little letter that tells them exactly how hard they can shove it.

I do remember reading one profile that stated he knew he needed D/s in his life, but married a woman who was not into it and asked him why? I got a response that was suprising and honest. As well as not a typical Cheating spouse response.


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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/22/2008 4:11:57 AM   
Aileen1968


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Status: offline 		Why on Earth would I care what a complete stranger does?  Why do you take things so personally? 

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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/22/2008 4:56:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		I could care less what others do.  And honestly I do have better things to do with my time then search people out

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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/22/2008 5:11:05 AM   
kc692


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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

No, most other people have better things to do than monitor the morality of absolute strangers.  Are you a Christian?  Have you been reading your Bible lately?  Check out John 8:7.

quote:

ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

When searcing my state, I sometimes run into profiles that state they are looking for something discreet. I often send messages asking why the need for discretion (I have to be fair and ask first in case the reason is simply a high profile job and fear of being outed). Once I find out they're a cheater, I let them have it. Does anyone else do this?



Or Matthew 7:1.  Seems like this is another incendiary ploy by the OP.....course, that's just my opinion....who am I to "let her have it", much less wish for her to leave the site?

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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/22/2008 6:38:03 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		"judge not lest ye be judged first"  or "he who is without sin cast the first stone"

that being said, if a dominant after perving my profile states he's married in his own, i immediately hide my profile from his view. i already know we're not compatible so there's no need to waste energy typing a note asking why a married is looking for something extra and discreet on the side.

if a married wants to look for something on the side, it's not my business to condemn them for wanting that.  however if they're going to bitch and whine a)why submissives/slaves won't consider a married man as their dom or b)holding a pity party because the wife discovered he's having an affair on a thread, then i'll share my pov/reasons.


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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/22/2008 8:54:44 AM   
parttimehotty


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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

It happens quite often here......cheaters ask for advice and receive the wrath of those of us who believe in honesty and respect. I'm always glad to see these jerks get the bitching out they deserve and hope they get so mad or embarassed they delete their profiles and leave the site. One less cheater on here to lie to unsuspecting play partners about their marital status. What I'd like to know.....is this the only time they are told off for their dishonesty? When searcing my state, I sometimes run into profiles that state they are looking for something discreet. I often send messages asking why the need for discretion (I have to be fair and ask first in case the reason is simply a high profile job and fear of being outed). Once I find out they're a cheater, I let them have it. Does anyone else do this?


Uh, no, i have a life

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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/22/2008 10:44:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

Once I find out they're a cheater, I let them have it. Does anyone else do this?


Yes. Right twix the cheeks...Either pair is acceptable.


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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/23/2008 9:36:41 AM   
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I agree with Lordandmaster here.


433 more posts, and he'll be declared INSANE

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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/23/2008 11:06:40 AM   
Floggings4You


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Status: offline 		I'm against cheaters as much as everyO/one else here--though I agree, in most circumstances, they aren't worth your time, even to send a damning reply.

Still, it often seems necessary to remind P/people in the lifestyle that not everyO/one who is married, is cheating.   My wife is a Domme, and after 12 years of marriage, We both still enjoy each O/other--but We each need submissive partners, as well.

(Greedy?  Twisted?  Who cares?  It works for Us...!)

I've never hidden My marital status from anyO/one, not on this or any other site--and certainly not in person!  My first collared submissive was a lady that My wife and I dominated together.  My current submissive has attended two munches with Me so far--both attended also byMy wife and Her boyfriend!

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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/23/2008 11:14:06 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		And you of course are absolutely perfect. You've never gotten back extra change at the store and kept it? You have, well then you are a thief. I should call the police and out you, tell your employer what a thief you are and how they need to hire someone more honest.

Pot meet kettle.

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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/23/2008 12:40:49 PM   
KatyLied


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quote:

I often send messages asking why the need for discretion


I know the internet is a big playground, but do you really spend time baiting people for no other reason than to find out if they are cheating?  Why do you care so much about what strangers do?  I couldn't be bothered to launch an investigation into cheaters.  I just do not care what others do as long as it does not impact me.


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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/23/2008 12:55:31 PM   
LikaLady


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

And you of course are absolutely perfect. You've never gotten back extra change at the store and kept it? You have, well then you are a thief. I should call the police and out you, tell your employer what a thief you are and how they need to hire someone more honest.

Pot meet kettle.



Hehehehe....thanks for the laugh today!!! *grins*

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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/23/2008 12:58:47 PM   
FullCircle


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quote:

ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl
I'm always glad to see these jerks get the bitching out they deserve and hope they get so mad or embarassed they delete their profiles and leave the site.


I think the aims and objectives of this thread went askew. Why is it people seek justification here for their actions? Do what you like; don't expect anyone else to understand why you do it. We aren’t all the same, never will be. Who ever thought of that phrase 'like minded people' was talking about pensioners that partake in Sunday bowls.

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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/23/2008 1:02:38 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		I am with peppermint. I do not care how they choose to do things themselves. However, if they contact me and wish to bring me into their little circle or if they make it public on the forums and then want us to pat them on the head and tell them it is alrght, thats a different story.
My ex was a cheat. I have little tlerance for them, but as long as they keep to themselves and do not beohter me or mine, they can cheat to their hearts content and I truly hope karma bites them on the ass.  I wont go out of my way to tell them that, unless they ask for opinions on their behavior.

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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/23/2008 4:29:00 PM   
Sundowner


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quote:

ORIGINAL: parttimehotty

quote:

ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

... some sad stuff

Once I find out they're a cheater, I let them have it. Does anyone else do this?


Uh, no, i have a life


What she said.

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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/23/2008 6:00:25 PM   
OrionTheWolf


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Status: offline 		I can understand venting back at the person, as they have come into direct contact with you. To actively seek cheaters smacks me as the Morality Police. If that is what floats your boat, so be it. Glad I am the person that sets my own rules, including my relationships. Damn hard to break my own rules, and cheat on myself. If the Morality Police show up, then they had better remember that we are not so civilized here in redneck country. There are consequences to actions, even when you believe yourself to be morally superior to another.


quote:

ORIGINAL: Leatherist

quote:

ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf

If the person is not dealing with me or  mine, then I could care less. Why would I want to go on some moral rampage? Why do you do it? I believe in honesty as well, but I don't make it a personal crusade.

quote:

ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

It happens quite often here......cheaters ask for advice and receive the wrath of those of us who believe in honesty and respect. I'm always glad to see these jerks get the bitching out they deserve and hope they get so mad or embarassed they delete their profiles and leave the site. One less cheater on here to lie to unsuspecting play partners about their marital status. What I'd like to know.....is this the only time they are told off for their dishonesty? When searcing my state, I sometimes run into profiles that state they are looking for something discreet. I often send messages asking why the need for discretion (I have to be fair and ask first in case the reason is simply a high profile job and fear of being outed). Once I find out they're a cheater, I let them have it. Does anyone else do this?



To instill a sense or paranoia, as a warning to others that there are consequences to thier actions.. and because they are such annoying fucktards.


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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/23/2008 6:04:27 PM   
OrionTheWolf


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Status: offline 		Judge not lest ye be judged by your own measure. If you judge, then be prepared to be judged by the same standards. It is talking about hypocricy.

Let he who is without sin cast the first stone. No way to gain forgiveness when you are dead, so the context of that passage means alot.




quote:

ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

"judge not lest ye be judged first"  or "he who is without sin cast the first stone"

that being said, if a dominant after perving my profile states he's married in his own, i immediately hide my profile from his view. i already know we're not compatible so there's no need to waste energy typing a note asking why a married is looking for something extra and discreet on the side.

if a married wants to look for something on the side, it's not my business to condemn them for wanting that.  however if they're going to bitch and whine a)why submissives/slaves won't consider a married man as their dom or b)holding a pity party because the wife discovered he's having an affair on a thread, then i'll share my pov/reasons.



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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/23/2008 6:10:11 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Leatherist

Naw, just lead them on until you can get a liscence plate number. Then get a friend in the press to find out who they are, and out them to thier spouse. THAT is entertainment.


   I will have to agree with your views on show, "Cheaters, it is like Jerry Springer meets Blind Date Gone Bad!

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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/23/2008 7:20:24 PM   
OrionTheWolf


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RE: cheaters and sarcastic messages - 4/23/2008 7:40:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		I used to be very judgemental. It's easy... especially if you, youself, have never fallen.

But then I started mentoring a guy who was very much in love with his wife and torn by his need for kink. We went back and forth, discussing the options. I wanted him to talk with his wife. He felt he couldn't take the chance. There were children involved. He loved his family. Over a period of two years, he resisted taking any action that would satisfy his need, and how long he resisted before that, I have no idea. I believe it had been building for a long time. Occasionally now he will engage in some small kink activity.

My heart breaks for this man. I know how ethical he is, what he is doing without.

There are no longer any easy answers for me.

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