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AlienMonopoly -> Chastity (4/22/2008 12:28:39 PM)
Collar Me Says Chastity IS Preventing The Submissive From Achieving Orgasm Usually By Means Of A Waist-Belt Or Other Device Now Does This Mean? No Sex Ever? Is It A Punishment? When Is It Done? Does The Waist-Belt Or Other Devise Cause Pain?

kittinSol -> RE: Chastity (4/22/2008 12:30:07 PM)
The world is your oyster, mon petit.

littlesarbonn -> RE: Chastity (4/22/2008 12:36:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kittinSol The world is your oyster, mon petit. Does it have to be my oyster? Couldn't it be my double cheeseburger?

Shawn1066 -> RE: Chastity (4/22/2008 12:49:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AlienMonopoly Collar Me Says Chastity IS Preventing The Submissive From Achieving Orgasm Usually By Means Of A Waist-Belt Or Other Device Now Does This Mean? No Sex Ever? Is It A Punishment? When Is It Done? Does The Waist-Belt Or Other Devise Cause Pain? You mean the actual -site- takes official stance on things now? Of course not. Chastity means different things to different people. My Owner doesn't use a device on me or her other pet. She trusts me to keep my hands to myself. I am only allowed to recieve sexual pleasure from her or under her direction. Do we engage in sex? Yes, tons of it. Is it a punishment? No, of course not, there's nothing negative about it. When is it done? After I became her property. Does a chastity device cause pain? She's put one on me before, just so I could see what it is like... It didn't hurt at all. DV's Fox

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Chastity (4/22/2008 1:14:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AlienMonopoly Collar Me Says Chastity IS Preventing The Submissive From Achieving Orgasm Usually By Means Of A Waist-Belt Or Other Device if you say so. i didn't know that was the site's official stance quote: Now Does This Mean? No Sex Ever? i cannot speak for other relationships except for mine with my pet. it doesn't mean no sex ever ...i simply use it as way to keep my pet focused and devoted to me. quote: Is It A Punishment? it can be if he disobeys quote: When Is It Done? mine wears his chastity belt 24/7 quote: Does The Waist-Belt Or Other Devise Cause Pain? depends on the device. my pet wears a device which has tiny pins to pinch the penis when he gets aroused or hard. from what he tells me - they do hurt

Andjew -> RE: Chastity (4/22/2008 1:24:45 PM)
It's usually done with a device that keeps your penis from being erect. Your master holds the key to the device. When your master desires, they remove the device so you can masturbate or have sex. You can pee with it on and bathe, it can be worn for a few hours or the rest of your life.

MladyHathor -> RE: Chastity (4/22/2008 2:24:42 PM)
*Possibly* *Possibly* *At the Dominants Discretion* *If you try to use bolt cutters to remove it, sure.*

DragonLady5 -> RE: Chastity (4/22/2008 2:54:43 PM)
As with a lot of questions, the answer is "It Depends". It depends on the master, the sub, their agreement, their desires. Some chastity devices can hurt when the man is erect. Some can be uncomfortable when worn for long periods of time or when wearing one is a new experience and you're not used to it yet.

shysub75 -> RE: Chastity (4/22/2008 5:53:14 PM)
Well technically, that is the site's definition of chastity. When you click on the word Chastity in some one's likes or dislikes, that's exactly what it tells him.

khem -> RE: Chastity (4/22/2008 7:00:15 PM)
I could imagine a scenerio where someone enjoyed chastity, but didn't want to use a device to enfore it. I'm really torn about the chastity device issue. On one hand, I'd like to believe a firm order would be enough to obtain the desired level of chastity. Using a device, would, in my opinion, suggest that the submissive is not able or willing to follow that order. On the other hand, the physical reminder of that order (because, afterall, bolt cutters are at every home depot) would be something I'd consider sexy. Knowing that someone would feel it under their clothes all day and knowing that something physically kept them from getting hard. Is getting hard without being able to touch yourself more tortuous than not being able to get hard? Discuss. [:D]

Lynnxz -> RE: Chastity (4/22/2008 7:58:27 PM)
Collar Me Says Chastity IS Collarme says a lot of things. Don't put too much faith in it. Preventing The Submissive From Achieving Orgasm Usually By Means Of A Waist-Belt Or Other Device Now Does This Mean? No Sex Ever? Probably not for 99% of the people that choose to use a chastity device Is It A Punishment? Does your dominant wish it to be a punishment? I could see how it could be- on the other hand I could see it as a way to make intimate times with your dominant that much more special When Is It Done? Whenever they want? I've only been locked into a device once or twice. Does The Waist-Belt Or Other Devise Cause Pain? One that I used, made of leather did not. The other, a huge steel thingy used for a photoshoot, pinched like a bitch. [:'(]

alphaleague -> RE: Chastity (4/22/2008 9:09:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: khem I could imagine a scenerio where someone enjoyed chastity, but didn't want to use a device to enfore it. I'm really torn about the chastity device issue. On one hand, I'd like to believe a firm order would be enough to obtain the desired level of chastity. Using a device, would, in my opinion, suggest that the submissive is not able or willing to follow that order. On the other hand, the physical reminder of that order (because, afterall, bolt cutters are at every home depot) would be something I'd consider sexy. Knowing that someone would feel it under their clothes all day and knowing that something physically kept them from getting hard. Is getting hard without being able to touch yourself more tortuous than not being able to get hard? Discuss. [:D] Practically any device could be defeated so the chastity is mostly mental. The physical act of just having it there and the attention it demands all day and can't be forgotten is truly mind blowing. The constant reminder of ownership and control is what give this subbie the shudders when he thinks of being in chastity. What better way to prove your devotion? As far as getting hard or not.. not being able to is very torturous especially when there is a device on you that reminds you of the control your under and causes you to constantly be excited.

khem -> RE: Chastity (4/22/2008 9:12:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: alphaleague The constant reminder of ownership and control is what give this subbie the shudders when he thinks of being in chastity. Ok, I'm sold. Who's first?[:D]

Marysboi -> RE: Chastity (4/22/2008 10:07:56 PM)
I''ve been in chastity, verbal..and I don't touch...except in the morning when I throw it over my shoulder and go to the bathroom. Seriously only wash the bajeezez out of it...If my Mary even had a thought that I had cum. she would remove the item in question and a good chunk of my ass as well. Effective ?? It is for me ??? It also serves as a item to tease and flirt about during contact with my Mary during the day..Would make every sub. here head for the hills or the lube.

MistressDolly -> RE: Chastity (4/23/2008 8:01:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AlienMonopoly Collar Me Says Chastity IS Preventing The Submissive From Achieving Orgasm Usually By Means Of A Waist-Belt Or Other Device Now Does This Mean? No Sex Ever? Is It A Punishment? When Is It Done? Does The Waist-Belt Or Other Devise Cause Pain? Not only do I use orgasm control as a principal test of his devotion, I also use it to enhance his consciousness so he can attend to more important matters, like me. "Tease and denial" on the other hand, is a play activity I incorporate for both our enjoyment. "Milking" can be implemented as a form of punishment if he is to be denied an orgasm for whatever reason.

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