Floggings4You -> RE: why is it (4/23/2008 12:58:33 PM)
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ORIGINAL: shykitty1 Can anyone answer this. Why is it when someone has that they are a slave in thier profile, everyone thinks that you must automatically submit to them, and its wrong for you to "shop around". There are many people (and, yes, it seems to be mostly men who think this way) who think that this lifestyle is a way to get laid without having to work at it. I guess the thought process is like, "Hey, if I just call Myself a Master, any subby-gal within earshot will have to fall down on her knees for Me-- --and I won't have to pay for dinner, buy flowers, brush My teeth (or actually converse with her--way too scary!) beforehand (or phone her after--way more scary!) It doesn't actually work this way, of course. If anything, a D/s relationship is more demanding, requires more thought, much more attention to detail, and greater discipline--on the part of the Dom/Domme!--than the average 'vanilla' dating relationship.
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