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impossiblesub -> RE: Profile advice (4/22/2008 9:31:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GimpinDenial Honestly, IMO, you sound more suited for the role of a switch... I could switch and have thought about that but I would want to be under a Mistress to do so I think. In a household with another female sub this would probably be good. I have had the Dom role in past relationships, although admittedly with little BDSM play. I have never found it to be completly satisfying. After a while having someone who does everything you want all of the time gets to be BORING, I don't know how some of you can stand it. These relationships were lacking things other than sexual attraction often, so that may have been another part of the issue. I may be better with another switch and I as a switch, but there seem to be fewer women who switch than those who take either the Domme or Sub role.

abytchgoddess4u -> RE: Profile advice (4/22/2008 10:39:27 PM)
Exactly my point. D/s ain't about the sex...at least in my mind.

impossiblesub -> RE: Profile advice (4/22/2008 11:09:48 PM)
A large part of it is about the sexual attractiveness for many people I would say, otherwise people would not want photos. I would have to find the other person sexually attractive. I am interested in more than just sexual attractiveness though.

GentleMistress5 -> RE: Profile advice (4/23/2008 2:23:24 AM)
Impossible sub, what confuses Me here is that your initial post was asking for advice about your profile, and now you're getting an attitude because you're getting said advice? I think you forgot to provide your list of "demands" for how you expected us to reply... Your nickname fits! Good luck to you. GM

Goddess2002 -> RE: Profile advice (4/23/2008 2:44:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GentleMistress5 Impossible sub, what confuses Me here is that your initial post was asking for advice about your profile, and now you're getting an attitude because you're getting said advice? I think you forgot to provide your list of "demands" for how you expected us to reply... Your nickname fits! Good luck to you. GM This was My thought as well. I don't understand asking for advice then getting defensive because you don't want to hear it...this thread seems to be going nowhere.

MsStarlett -> RE: Profile advice (4/23/2008 4:39:14 AM)
>After a while having someone who does everything you want all of the time gets to be BORING, I don't know how some of you can stand it. That's the first intelligent thing I've seen you say! Bravo. That's why it's important to select the correct Dom/sub for your needs. I can't stand a sub with no back bone or will of their own. It's the difference in a broken down old plow mule and a spirited stallion.

Venatrix -> RE: Profile advice (4/23/2008 7:44:46 AM)
In defense of the OP, he wrote me a nice note on the other side. Could his "impossibility" be a facade? We await the television series: Impossiblesub: Tamed.

kc692 -> RE: Profile advice (4/23/2008 10:51:25 AM)
I had a feeling he was by looking at the other nick,

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Profile advice (4/23/2008 12:23:07 PM)
And what other nickname was tht? quote: ORIGINAL: kc692 I had a feeling he was by looking at the other nick,

abytchgoddess4u -> RE: Profile advice (4/23/2008 5:50:51 PM)
Sexual attractiveness is not sex...it's chemistry. Which; oddly, can occur with someone exactly the opposite of what one thinks one might want. In fact; being bound into chastity by one that just blows your stack is probably the most gracious gift of submission.

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Profile advice (4/23/2008 6:51:08 PM)
I want photo's cause I want to know who I am talking to, not nessisarily for sexual chemistry. All though I won't lie if someone looks truely hideous or ugly, I wouldn't be attracted to them but my main goal is to be able to say, oh so that's who ( nickname is here) is, to put a face to the name. quote: ORIGINAL: impossiblesub A large part of it is about the sexual attractiveness for many people I would say, otherwise people would not want photos.

Sirsinini -> RE: Profile advice (4/23/2008 9:19:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kc692 If I told you I would have to kill you........... Just Kidding!!! Dear Weal Twue Mistwess, I always knew you were a weal twue Moderator. Jus mwe buggin U agin.

impossiblesub -> RE: Profile advice (4/24/2008 12:02:04 AM)
I have changed my profile to switch, as that is probably more suitable as a 24/7 submissive relationship may not be exactly what I am really looking for. With the right person possibly, however the probability of that is probably %0 I realize now. In reply to the poster above: I asked for advice, not insults - some of you Dommes really don't read people very well.

impossiblesub -> RE: Profile advice (4/24/2008 12:09:19 AM)
I don't think that would allow me to get the desire to Dom out of my system either. Dunno, it could be incredible, but then again it just may be aggravating.

impossiblesub -> RE: Profile advice (4/24/2008 12:25:56 AM)
Crap, I keep clicking on quote instead of edit. I am probably not likely to find anyone who "blows my stack" that is around my age. Maybe, but chances are slim and I probably could not get into a submissive role unless someone did. Hmm, I suppose that is why you do not sleep in the same bed, no seeing each other first thing in the morning. I need another body in my bed though. It will probably be better for me to try to find another switch who I like. Thanks for all of the input.

kc692 -> RE: Profile advice (4/24/2008 4:17:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sirsinini quote: ORIGINAL: kc692 If I told you I would have to kill you........... Just Kidding!!! Dear Weal Twue Mistwess, I always knew you were a weal twue Moderator. Jus mwe buggin U agin. I see that you are tryingto big me, smiles(even though its not working).....but I promise, I am not a moderator. I wouldnt have XI's job, even if it was paid(not saying its been offered just making a comment). I think they are awesome for doing it, but I have neither the patience or the "niceness" needed to be a moderator. That is the only answer I am giving you, but it does address your question.

kc692 -> RE: Profile advice (4/24/2008 4:19:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: impossiblesub Crap, I keep clicking on quote instead of edit. I am probably not likely to find anyone who "blows my stack" that is around my age. Maybe, but chances are slim and I probably could not get into a submissive role unless someone did. Hmm, I suppose that is why you do not sleep in the same bed, no seeing each other first thing in the morning. I need another body in my bed though. It will probably be better for me to try to find another switch who I like. Thanks for all of the input. That may be something that some do (the no bed or seeing each other thing), but I have had different relastionships with different subs. There is no bdsm handbook, no matter what anyone says, lol...we are all different (thank goodness!!). I hope sincerely that you do find what you are seeking.

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