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Profile advice - 4/22/2008 2:46:36 PM   
impossiblesub


Posts: 150
Joined: 4/20/2008
Status: offline 		Could someone give me some advice on filling out my profile as far as interests are concerned? I notice there are many different activities and I am a little unsure how to complete it. I see that there are Dommes who seem to do everything and Dommes who do nothing. I am looking for a Domme that "fits" me, as opposed to one that will "tailor" herself to me or me to her tastes. I am willing to drop some activities for the right Domme or maybe learn to enjoy some new ones.
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RE: Profile advice - 4/22/2008 3:20:42 PM   
Shawn1066


Posts: 987
Joined: 10/7/2007
Status: offline 		It sounds to me like you need to start looking for a Pro-Domme or a service top.

Or a slave.

I'm not being crude, but I honestly don't think your profile is going to speak to many female dominants...but at least you're up front about your wants, which is good.  You intent do have full control of the situation, however, will turn a lot of people off, I think.  Regardless, I do wish you luck.

I would recommend being honest about your likes and dislikes as well when you fill that out.  I wouldn't bother with the "beginner" "expert" thing personally.  Simply because I think that's something you can be more honest and open about in private, likely.  I don't even know why I filled mine out. :-p

DV's Fox

< Message edited by Shawn1066 -- 4/22/2008 3:31:29 PM >

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RE: Profile advice - 4/22/2008 3:34:13 PM   
Venatrix


Posts: 2238
Joined: 11/28/2007
Status: offline 		I'm going to assume that your profile is intended as a joke, because you can't possibly be serious.  It sounds as if you have little to offer and want everything in return.  Though I do admire you for your loyalty to your dog.

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RE: Profile advice - 4/22/2008 3:51:52 PM   
RumpusParable


Posts: 1923
Joined: 7/7/2005
From: NYC now!
Status: offline 		I'm betting on the satire/joke theory.

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RE: Profile advice - 4/22/2008 3:55:26 PM   
impossiblesub


Posts: 150
Joined: 4/20/2008
Status: offline 		Well, honestly, the idea is to turn off a lot of Dominants who would not be suited to keeping me long-term. A Pro-Domme is really not what I am looking for either.

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RE: Profile advice - 4/22/2008 3:58:31 PM   
impossiblesub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Venatrix

I'm going to assume that your profile is intended as a joke, because you can't possibly be serious.  It sounds as if you have little to offer and want everything in return.  Though I do admire you for your loyalty to your dog.


Excuse me, but, have we met? For all you know I am a rich, good looking stud. I am not being egotistical or making any claim to the aforementioned. I am just pointing out that you are making an unverified assumption.

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RE: Profile advice - 4/22/2008 4:03:10 PM   
BitaTruble


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quote:

ORIGINAL: impossiblesub

Well, honestly, the idea is to turn off a lot of Dominants


I think you've succeeded in a most admirable fashion!

Celeste

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Rock, paper, scissors."

He laughed. "You are the wisest woman I know."


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RE: Profile advice - 4/22/2008 4:11:54 PM   
impossiblesub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

I think you've succeeded in a most admirable fashion!

Celeste


I'll take that as a compliment. Thank you.

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RE: Profile advice - 4/22/2008 4:13:34 PM   
Venatrix


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quote:

ORIGINAL: impossiblesub

quote:

ORIGINAL: Venatrix

I'm going to assume that your profile is intended as a joke, because you can't possibly be serious.  It sounds as if you have little to offer and want everything in return.  Though I do admire you for your loyalty to your dog.


Excuse me, but, have we met? For all you know I am a rich, good looking stud. I am not being egotistical, just pointing out that you are making an unverified assumption.


Indeed, that is the case; I was making assumptions.  Given that you haven't had the bollocks to post a photo, your looks could run the gamut from ghastly to gorgeous.  In any case, my experience with rich, good-looking studs is that they actually require much less than you do. 

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RE: Profile advice - 4/22/2008 4:19:31 PM   
lusciouslips19


Posts: 9792
Joined: 9/8/2007
Status: offline 		Are you sure you are a sub? You dont seem to be. I think you have a better chance of getting your needs catered to if you are the Master. Can you say,"down on your knees bitch"? Seems like you are a masochist that wants to top from the bottom/ 

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RE: Profile advice - 4/22/2008 4:25:31 PM   
abytchgoddess4u


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Status: offline 		~fr~

My best advice is to focus on what you can bring to the table...as opposed to the list of demands you have there. Myself? I'd prefer knowing the specifications you have posted b4 making contact, b/c  it's then quite easy to wade through the chaff. You'd be useless to me...far, far too high maintenance, not masochistic, not open to chastity, unwilling to do housework, useless for your strength, etc.

Btw, you are REALLY showing your emotional neediness with this: "I require female attention or presence 100% of the time and want to sleep in a bed WITH a woman. If Mistress is going out without me I need babysitting. I also occasionally need the attention of several women and would prefer a household with another female sub." If you are wanting to show your insecurity, that's the way to do it...:)

Personally; I think you're a kinky bottom who likes to swing...based on that profile.


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Ask all from yourself." Rumi

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RE: Profile advice - 4/22/2008 4:50:48 PM   
impossiblesub


Posts: 150
Joined: 4/20/2008
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quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

Are you sure you are a sub? You dont seem to be. I think you have a better chance of getting your needs catered to if you are the Master. Can you say,"down on your knees bitch"? Seems like you are a masochist that wants to top from the bottom/ 


Yes, I can say "down on your knees bitch", however I prefer not to. I am not going to kneel just because you say you are a Domina. You must be worthy of my affection and devotion, and the fact that you were born female does not award you that status in my eyes.

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RE: Profile advice - 4/22/2008 4:57:13 PM   
MsStarlett


Posts: 1879
Joined: 12/23/2007
Status: offline 		Damn boy!  You're as useless as a Dom.

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RE: Profile advice - 4/22/2008 5:00:41 PM   
lusciouslips19


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quote:

ORIGINAL: impossiblesub

quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

Are you sure you are a sub? You dont seem to be. I think you have a better chance of getting your needs catered to if you are the Master. Can you say,"down on your knees bitch"? Seems like you are a masochist that wants to top from the bottom/ 


Yes, I can say "down on your knees bitch", however I prefer not to. I am not going to kneel just because you say you are a Domina. You must be worthy of my affection and devotion, and the fact that you were born female does not award you that status in my eyes.


You dont get it. I was asking if you could say it to another because you obviously cant do it.Your attitude isnt submissive at all. I can more picture you ordering someone asround then I can see you submitting to anyone. Except as a spoiled "do me" sub.

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Charter member of Lance's Fag Hags,
Member of the Subbie Mafia
Princess of typos and it's my prerogative

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RE: Profile advice - 4/22/2008 5:01:55 PM   
impossiblesub


Posts: 150
Joined: 4/20/2008
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quote:

ORIGINAL: abytchgoddess4u

Btw, you are REALLY showing your emotional neediness with this: "I require female attention or presence 100% of the time and want to sleep in a bed WITH a woman. If Mistress is going out without me I need babysitting. I also occasionally need the attention of several women and would prefer a household with another female sub." If you are wanting to show your insecurity, that's the way to do it...:)


 
 Not sure if it is insecurity or not. I am just used to the presence and attention of females.
 
quote:



Personally; I think you're a kinky bottom who likes to swing...based on that profile.



I don't really care for swinging, but if you want to then I suppose I could enjoy it as long as it is an appetizer and not the main course.

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RE: Profile advice - 4/22/2008 5:02:38 PM   
Venatrix


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

Damn boy!  You're as useless as a Dom.


Thanks to that remark, I now have tea all over my clothes.

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RE: Profile advice - 4/22/2008 5:06:14 PM   
impossiblesub


Posts: 150
Joined: 4/20/2008
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quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19
You dont get it. I was asking if you could say it to another because you obviously cant do it.Your attitude isnt submissive at all. I can more picture you ordering someone asround then I can see you submitting to anyone. Except as a spoiled "do me" sub.


blah, blah, blah. I can do it but not for you.

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RE: Profile advice - 4/22/2008 5:08:51 PM   
impossiblesub


Posts: 150
Joined: 4/20/2008
Status: offline 		Yeah, I must admit that was pretty funny. I am casting aside all remarks intended to insult as I am fully aware we all have our own tastes and preferences for whatever reason. If I am not to yours, then so be it.

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RE: Profile advice - 4/22/2008 5:11:01 PM   
YourhandMyAss


Posts: 5516
Joined: 6/25/2006
From: Sacramento
Status: offline 		your entire profile is about me me me me me me me my demands my wants, mine mine mine me me me. You have nothing in there to attract any one, let alone a Domme. I do give you points though for truth in advertising. Far better to paint yourself accuratly up front, than to portray anything else an then change tactics once you have a partner.

The comment about needing baby sitting when ever the domme is away makes you sound like a 5 year old who's incapable of taking care of themselves. You can cook an you can clean and you can assumably poop and pee by yourself, you're assumably not going to play with matches and set the place of fire, or run amuck, or break rules you know are rules, so unless you're just looking for someone to play with while "mommy" is away you don't need babysitting.

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RE: Profile advice - 4/22/2008 5:13:29 PM   
abytchgoddess4u


Posts: 268
Joined: 10/17/2004
Status: offline 		Used to the presence and attention of females...hrm. Well; are you looking here for more of the same that you've already had, or are you looking outside the box? In my experience, men such as yourself get the most value from a relationship with a very clear power dynamic...involving chastity. Take the penis out of the equation and you learn one hell of a lot about yourself.

As to the swinging deduction...it was based on these statements:

"I also occasionally need the attention of several women"

"I expect Mistress to either use me solely for her sexual satisfaction or consider my feelings and desires regarding sexual encounters with others and be willing to allow me the same pleasures."

"I am very turned on by bisexual female activity and would enjoy watching or participating."

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"Everything in the Universe Is within you.
Ask all from yourself." Rumi

"The world will know and understand me someday. But if that day does not arrive, it does not greatly matter. I shall have opened the way for other women."
George Sand

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