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ORIGINAL: bipolarber

Like it or not, the reality is that some people fetishize certain aspects of their preferred partners. Some, like myself, have a thing for certain hair color, or eye color, or body type. (Yes, many men like BBWs. Probably just as many who love female bodybuilders, atheletes, or the Kate Moss greyhound type.) Why should race be any different?

To go back to the Jerry Sinefeld line: "... if I like their race, is it really racist?"

More like a sophisticated version of xenophilia. (The erotic feeling some get from diversity) BS4W has a fantasy, and would prefer to play that out with someone who's caucasian. Big deal. I'm about as upset about that as I am about the fact that I have this desire to meet and have someone in my life with black hair and bangs, a la Bettie Page.

BS4W's desires seem perfectly harmless, especially when he said that he has perfectly satisfactory relationships with dommes who aren't his ideal fantasy partner.

Dude, more power to you. I hope you find the celtic princess Domme of your dreams!