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subdevon -> RE: Is it ever appropriate to beg for a Mistress to make you Hers? (4/26/2008 8:02:17 PM)



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MissMagnolia -> RE: Is it ever appropriate to beg for a Mistress to make you Hers? (4/26/2008 8:03:56 PM)

For some, begging is mandatory.




subdevon -> RE: Is it ever appropriate to beg for a Mistress to make you Hers? (5/1/2008 9:16:20 PM)

Well, this Mistress and i tried to work things out but i suppose She could never see past the behavior i had and was unable to see that it was only an obstacle which needed to be conquered.  at least i now know that it can not work and am able to focus my search for Another. Thank You all for the advice. 




MissKaine -> RE: Is it ever appropriate to beg for a Mistress to make you Hers? (5/1/2008 9:52:07 PM)

why is it that most subs/slaves have this sense of desperation?..i understand a desire to please ..but desperation?..now thats not what a Mistress would look for ..She is looking for someone who is comfortable with his/her state ...not a desperate soul..




subdevon -> RE: Is it ever appropriate to beg for a Mistress to make you Hers? (5/2/2008 7:42:06 AM)

i would not say desperation to find a Mistress in general but i did want to prove to this particular Mistress that i was not just playing games, as i know a lot do. i was not desperate but motivated to prove myself. 




LadyHugs -> RE: Is it ever appropriate to beg for a Mistress to make you Hers? (5/5/2008 6:35:53 AM)

Dear subdevon, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
My personal feelings on any relationship or business contract; if a person has to beg me -- its not worth the investment.
 
If I want someone in my life, they will make an impression on me in which I will want them to be mine and not 'begging' as to grovel or sell themselves.  If a slave hasn't 'sold themselves' on being their honest selves--regardless of all their flaws; to 'push' may/can have a negative affect.
 
If I need to block a slave/submissive -- that is very extreme for me.  I would hope that he will have learned from it but, I wouldn't have the same faith in his/her character.
 
Just some thoughts.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs




ravenandrea -> RE: Is it ever appropriate to beg for a Mistress to make you Hers? (5/5/2008 7:54:37 PM)

I don't believe it is appropriate to beg in your situation. You could try a very sincere apology for your behaviour and ask if you could have a second chance. My experience in a couple of D/s relationships, my Mistresses wanted unwavering respect and obedience. The only time begging was tolerated is when Mistress ordered me to beg to be punished because I questioned one of her demands.

Andrea - SLRN 616-763-198





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