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Hippie03562 -> RE: Mutual Collaring (10/27/2008 1:32:15 PM)
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I and My Brandi, as with most (if not all), who posted here, are Switches. But, and I tend to believe this is true for any Switch/switch relationship, I am a Dominant/Switch, She is a submissive/Switch. For the most part, I take the Dominant Role in the day-to-day functions within O/our Relationship. But this does not preclude Her making a Decision that is actually far better for U/us than one I would make. I'm not perfect, either as an individual or a Dominant. But there are days when I just want to give up that control. I am the Dominant in a Household with 3 Adult Females (My 30+ Daughter and her two roommates) and four kids (no, there is no sexual undertones or components of this at all), as well as being the Dominant in Mine and Brandis Relationship. She also has Her Dominant Responsibilities to her slaves. And it gets very difficult at times. So having someone that is willing to "take the reins" on occasion, is a refreshing change.
As for SleepyDoms responses here, well, I and My Brandi are all too familiar with this sort of response. Neither of U/us respond to it anymore. But when someone expresses genuine interest, or at least, attempts to understand, W/we're more than willing to discuss it with them.
As for "Mutual Collaring", She has her neck collar, I have My scrotum collar, and W/we have one leash, depending on W/who's in Dominant Role. As for a visible symbol, well, THAT is more insubstantial, since it depends on how observant a person is. O/our "Mutual Collar" that the world in general sees is the Respect, Honesty, and Devotion that W/we exhibit for all to see.
Hippie (Hippie_n_Brandi)
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