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Chasity - 4/24/2008 5:05:18 PM

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So i am new at this. I am a Mistress that wants to try chasity with my sub but not sure on how to do this. I have gotten one. Wondering if any another Mistress has any ideas for me?

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RE: Chasity - 4/24/2008 5:12:04 PM

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Tell him to leave his pecker alone or he will face your severe displeasure.

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RE: Chasity - 4/24/2008 5:16:21 PM

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I would have the sub obtain a chastity device. Perhaps a CB3000 or CB6000. Begin by locking the sub into the chastity for a week, then allowing the sub to remove the device, under time constraint, to wash up, and even jack off. Start by allowing 5 minutes. Then the chastity device MUST be locked on again. Soon, give the sub 4 minutes for washing and pleasuring. etc. You may even wish to incorporate milking the sub .

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RE: Chasity - 4/24/2008 5:21:17 PM

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A chastity device isn't necessary (although fun) if your boy is honest (and why would you want him if he isn't?). My rule is that my boy can't have an orgasm without my permission, with me or without me. He can touch himself, but no orgasm without my expressed permission or there will be consequences. So far, he has been scrupulously honest and has had one "oops" during our two years together for which he was punished. Were I to find out that he was not as honest as I thought, he would go into a device until he learned to be more honest, or until he was able to chew himself out of the device after I dropped the key into the nearest ocean.

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RE: Chasity - 4/24/2008 5:21:22 PM

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I would have the sub obtain a chastity device. Perhaps a CB3000 or CB6000. Begin by locking the sub into the chastity for a week, then allowing the sub to remove the device, under time constraint, to wash up, and even jack off. Start by allowing 5 minutes. Then the chastity device MUST be locked on again. Soon, give the sub 4 minutes for washing and pleasuring. etc. You may even wish to incorporate milking the sub .

No disrespect intended, but unless the use of chastity devices is your own specific kink; if a submissive cannot keep his hands off of himself by simply knowing it is his dominant's will, then there are more serious problems here than chastity but actually the quality of his submission.

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RE: Chasity - 4/24/2008 5:27:09 PM

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...and how would you punish him for disobeying you, beelzebabe?

my slave has disobeyed me and I truly want to punish him for that...

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RE: Chasity - 4/24/2008 5:34:27 PM

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Punishment should suit the boy. The public humiliation as he told the ladies of our club what he had done and answered all of their very detailed questions about what, exactly, had happened, followed by a prolonged period of abstinence worked for us. This won't work for everyone.

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RE: Chasity - 4/24/2008 5:36:21 PM

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Thank you for your comments. Its not that i dont trust him its something i want to try and see. I want to see the fun it might add.

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RE: Chasity - 4/24/2008 5:39:03 PM

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Punishment should suit the boy. The public humiliation as he told the ladies of our club what he had done and answered all of their very detailed questions about what, exactly, had happened, followed by a prolonged period of abstinence worked for us. This won't work for everyone.

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Umm, I think this would be the worst type of punishment for someone like me. I would be very embarrassed to share. I generally do not talk about sexual things in public and am fairly secretive and mysterious. I would definitely not be comfortable in that type of situation and would definitely learn my lesson fast.

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RE: Chasity - 4/24/2008 5:41:15 PM

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Punishment should suit the boy. The public humiliation as he told the ladies of our club what he had done and answered all of their very detailed questions about what, exactly, had happened, followed by a prolonged period of abstinence worked for us. This won't work for everyone.

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Umm, I think this would be the worst type of punishment for someone like me. I would be very embarrassed to share. I generally do not talk about sexual things in public and am fairly secretive and mysterious. I would definitely not be comfortable in that type of situation and would definitely learn my lesson fast.

What do you know? You might learn a new kink instead. *winks*

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RE: Chasity - 4/24/2008 5:45:29 PM

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I want to take him to a strip club while he is in the chasity. While i have him receive a few lap dances. I think that would be a punishment.

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RE: Chasity - 4/24/2008 5:52:32 PM

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I want to take him to a strip club while he is in the chasity. While i have him receive a few lap dances. I think that would be a punishment.

How so? It's not like he's supposed to be touching himself while getting a lapdance, and if he can't keep his hands of after... well, that goes into my earlier argument.

But trust me, a professional lapdance from a beautiful half-naked woman is almost never a punishment to a hetero or bisexual man.

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RE: Chasity - 4/24/2008 6:00:22 PM

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How so? It's not like he's supposed to be touching himself while getting a lapdance, and if he can't keep his hands of after... well, that goes into my earlier argument.

But trust me, a professional lapdance from a beautiful half-naked woman is almost never a punishment to a hetero or bisexual man.

Hmm, I disagree and do take that as punishment. Though it may be fun punishment. Teasing and denying is definitely punishment to me.

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RE: Chasity - 4/24/2008 6:05:09 PM

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Yes i see your point but i was thinking of not allowing him sex afterwards or a way to get off. We have been a cpl for over a year and i want to try something new, Something different i see where you are coming on the strip club issue though. Im not sure how to present it. or yet where to go from here thats why i was asking for ideas he bought it and sent it to me in the mail. I have been looking at them for awhile just unsure on wheather to get on or not. I have it now i am thinking of ways to use it and ways to add the device into my punishments.

Any Ideas?

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RE: Chasity - 4/24/2008 6:23:23 PM

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From your profile and previous posts, i'm getting the impression that you're not seeking actual punishment for bad behaviour; but play-punishment. If this is so, it is an entirely different situation.

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RE: Chasity - 4/24/2008 6:31:11 PM

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Yes play punishment if thats what you would call it. Thats why i need ideas. I am having a hard time for some reason coming up with them. I like to read about peoples stories or little notes on what they have done or tried and it helps me being new i think it makes it easier on me. I like to try real life things.

Like i read somewhere about someone have teething gel put up the male penis because he was cheating on her. So one day i added it into a session. Well he said it burned when he peed for about the next 48 almost 72 hours afterwards. Now mind you he wasnt cheating he wouldnt but it gave me the idea to try it. I like real life things.

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RE: Chasity - 4/24/2008 7:28:23 PM

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Thank you for your comments. Its not that i dont trust him its something i want to try and see. I want to see the fun it might add.

duct tape it, leaving just enough room to pee.

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RE: Chasity - 4/25/2008 2:16:50 AM

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Oh yes ...duct tape it by all means.....this single action lends creedence to the term"one-eyed trouser snake"!!

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RE: Chasity - 4/25/2008 5:01:13 AM

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