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SteelofUtah -> RE: Profile Advice Please!!! (4/25/2008 3:56:42 PM)

**Looks to both corners**

**Drops a Ruler**

**walks away**

Nuff Said.

Steel




madshysoul -> RE: Profile Advice Please!!! (4/25/2008 7:33:09 PM)

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Well, I see your point, though I read the advice as more "Ok, the point got made. Let's stop beating the horse now." At a certain point, advice continually repeated becomes simply annoying instead of constructive.

And yet I don't see your point....
 
I did a quick re-read and find the first to mention age/looks was *myself*.  Twicehappy2x mentioned that the tatts looked old and then along came Dnomyar preaching to 'people' about getting off the age thing. 
 
Then comes you practically joining Dnomyar's bandwagon mirage of advice "continually repeated"????  And I agree it is, btw (repeated advice); it just hasn't happened HERE.
 
Focus.


My interpretation of Dynomar's statement existed in a vacuum. He wrote, you interpreted a way I thought possibly didn't take everything into account, and I wrote my feedback. I'm hardly counting words in the thread.

I gave my intelligent feedback to the thread already prior. Any further commentary is for clarification/interpretations (and or purely to amuse me).




DesFIP -> RE: Profile Advice Please!!! (4/25/2008 8:11:40 PM)

One the pic cuts off the top of your head, makes you look like Frankenstein. Two you;re not smiling and that always is offputting.

Beyond that; the first thing you say is you're not a sugar daddy. Hell. why be mealy mouthed about it? Why not just say that you know all the bitches out there are gold diggers? And then you throw out that line about you might be generous. That just says, if she's good enough then you won't stiff her.

That enough would make me refuse to talk to you even if we lived next door. Ouch.

Beyond that, your profile says nothing about you. Do you like Star Trek marathons, build model railroads, play golf? Do you spend time with your family, go elk hunting with your buddies once a year? It takes a lot more than kinky sex to build a relationship Olaf.




Focus50 -> RE: Profile Advice Please!!! (4/26/2008 3:46:11 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

**Looks to both corners**

**Drops a Ruler**

**walks away**

Nuff Said.

Steel

Well looky here - cheerleaders...!       [sm=cheerleader.gif] Woo-hoo [sm=cheerleader.gif]
 
Focus.




KCherry -> RE: Profile Advice Please!!! (4/26/2008 6:23:54 AM)

OMG, so much yellow, retinas burning!




MasterOlaf -> RE: Profile Advice Please!!! (4/28/2008 12:17:02 AM)

I would like to convey My most heartfelt appreciation, to those fine Lifestyle folks here of this forum, who responded to My request for profile help!!!  Yes, some of the help given was painfully honest, but I wouldn't expect anything less than honest, to be of any real help.  As a result of all the fine advice offered,  I've begun to edit My profile, and ALMOST had the pleasure of meeting a gorgeous submissive this evening, if not for her disapproval of the meeting place chosen - it was apparently not up to her expectations and insulting.  I sent the time and place of meeting to her at about noon today, and haven't heard a thing from her since.  That's what makes meeting so difficult, as since I live in Scottsdale, everyone thinks I'm wealthy, and unfortunately I'm not.  There was one post that was in question of WHY I've been having such a hard time meeting submissives, with all of the many munches and other lifestyle activities being held regularly, and My reply is that I have gone to many of these events, and the folks I meet are couples, as well as regulars who I see at ALL of the events, with few if any single submissives within My age group.  I've DMed at all of the Southwest Leather Conference Parties held at the APEX Dungeon space, and once again mostly couples attended, and the single submissive women were mostly in their 20's and 30's, not close to having any interest of someone My age.  The women of My age group and older, are joining poly households with much younger Masters and Mistresses, so you could say I'm in a world of limbo being a single older male Dom here in the Phoenix AZ area.  Also, as I've experienced over and over again, most girls who aren't collared and looking, have visions of a sugar plum Dom dancing around in their heads, and thus the reason for saying what I did in profile prior to editing.  My mention of not being a sugar daddy was that of being honest of My financial position and to cut to the chase, so as I wouldn't be bothered any longer by girls looking for a permanent financial "Pot O Gold".  After all, I want a girl/woman to want/desire Me for WHO I am, and NOT for whatever I have in possessions.  I in no way meant My financial mentions to be insulting to anyone, and My apologies to everyone who took what I said as personal insult, or insult to womankind.  Not ALL women are gold diggers, BUT you have to admit that there are more than a few out there.   I AM seeking a "gold digger" literally speaking, as I do enjoy gold prospecting while on My regular camping trips, and would like to have My submissive join Me, so she can help dig up some gold of her own.  Anyway, thanks to ALL, for your time and most valued profile help advice - it will never be forgotten.  If anyone needs any help or advice concerning tattoos, piercings, leatherwork, or most anything else lifestyle related, I'm at your service.  I would be honored to consider you all My F/friends.  Most Respectfully Yours in the Lifestyle,  Olaf 




DesFIP -> RE: Profile Advice Please!!! (4/28/2008 5:25:15 AM)

The way around the financial expectations that occur when you live in an area normally inhabited by wealthier types is not to use negatives. Instead of saying "no gold diggers", say "I'm a working class man in an upper class area. Make my living providing landscaping/excavating/plumbing/electrical/etc etc type work to all those wealthy folk".

See the difference? BTW gold diggers come in both male and female, sub, dom and vanilla. And for all you know, one of those upper class divorcees may be perfectly fine with a working class dom. Just state it upfront.




TickledOff -> RE: Profile Advice Please!!! (4/28/2008 1:25:06 PM)

The new profile and pic are big improvements on the originals. Congratulations on that and good luck in your search.

Even with a self-timer, you can get a pic that doesn't cut the top of your head off. You just need to set your camera on a higher surface (raise your tripod if you're using one) or take a photo of yourself seated. It's easiest to do with a digital camera, so you can check positioning and move the camera, but not impossible to do without one.




lalbobbilynn -> RE: Profile Advice Please!!! (4/28/2008 3:32:12 PM)

Your profile seems to have a far more positive spin on it; much more upbeat and informative!!
Best of Luck!!
b.~




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