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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 10:53:31 AM   
Lovesit


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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 10:54:46 AM   
OldBastardly1


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Status: offline 		I am wondering if he has made any requests ( even subtly ) that you send him money. It seems that him telling you that she is a coin slave, while knowing you are jealous, is telling you that if you send him money then he won't need her.


"it just i dont want to start an arguement again over it... "

This indicates that there have been issues about this that have been made vocal...so he knows how you feel.

BTW....nice boobs.

 

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 10:56:42 AM   
Lovesit


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Status: offline 		thanks i like my boobs too!! no he never ask for money and no he isnt poor either.... and no he can manage on his own.... he just doesnt like to be alone.... and well im really not jealous i just dont get it.... guess im not suppose too......

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 11:00:53 AM   
faerytattoodgirl


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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 11:11:47 AM   
OldBastardly1


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Status: offline 		I will relate a similar story I am aware of.

Master has a slave. Master starts a munch. Master meets another ( a newbie ) at his munch and she becomes his #2 slave immediately. Said Master refers to #2 slave as his "money slave". slave #1 has a family issue up north and with much trepidation, ( and with Master's encouragement ) she leaves. Master posts ( for all to see ) a sickenly sweet "poem" declaring his undying love for her as she leaves. Very shortly thereafter, Master releases slave #1. Master announces his pending marriage to slave #2, the money slave.

Any similarities with your situation are purely coincidental.

BTW...nice lips too.

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 11:15:24 AM   
derfrewop


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After a long relationship, you needed to leave for an extended period and suggested to your Master to find a temp. He has done so and continues to do everything to make you comfortable with it but you have had no communication with this woman. He is now suggesting a permanent position. You do not know what she is like,. how your Master is treating her and if she is going to undermine your position. Sounds like perfectly predictable jealousy fear and worry which can only be dealt with by actually meeting this woman.

I would question why he chose to violate a boundary set by you (temp vs perm position) when you were not present for him to deal with the feelings generated. I do not know your dynamic and your master may well be testing you with an extended period jealousy and fear. From what you are saying, it could well be there is no other woman and he is trying to find out how you would react to the idea.

Hold judgment until you get home and can find out who she really is. Who knows, you might enjoy her.


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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 12:20:03 PM   
antipode


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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 12:26:12 PM   
KatyLied


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quote:


Is he that helpless (clearly moneyless) when you're gone that he can't manage by himself for a bit? 


She's the one who suggested to him that he get a slave for during her absence.


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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 12:57:56 PM   
Argentopal


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Status: offline 		After reading your journal entries I have to join the ranks of the puzzled here.  On 12/3/07 you posted that YOU were looking for a submissive slave to replace you 24/7 while you  were gone.  You graphically describe a few things she must do - be tied at night with his cock in her mouth, be a 24/7 sex slave, take punishments meant for you, enjoy Ws, canes, whipping.  She must send you her picture and you and she will serve him together one day.

What part of all this are you confused and concerned about?  Your beginning question about whether 2 could serve 1 man as slave sisters ... why would you have written all that in your journal if that was a question in your mind?  Did you think this was a good idea and n now do not?  Was it just to act like it was all OK with you when it really wasn't?  Or did he leave you out of the choosing her part and now you are unhappy?

If she is not being communacative with you and you want to get to know her, ask your Master for help.  Have some 3 way chats and phone calls.  Find somethign in common to talk to her about, other than bdsm and all night blow jobs.  But most of all, do some serious and sincere thinking about what you really want and need.  Then talk to your Master honestly and let him know how you really feel.  I do hope your mother's health improves soon and your life straightens out somehow.
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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 1:17:23 PM   
Twicehappy2x


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ORIGINAL: OldBastardly1

Is there such a thing as a "scooter slave"? I want a new Harley. I am undecided if I want a Street Glide or a special Fatboy


LMMFAO.........i am Scooter's (ScooterTrash that is) slave but i do not think he would allow me to buy anybody a new Harley. Anyway, i am busy polishing the ones he already has.

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 3:06:57 PM   
windchymes


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ORIGINAL: OldBastardly1

I am too stupid...the 3rd party talk confuses me. Is "slave" the original...and you? Is "sister" the new girl....the one you resent?


When the Greek alphabet enters into it, I zone out.

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 7:59:14 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		When actions and words disagree, believe actions.

He claimed you would be able to order her about. In reality he knows she will not take orders from you, or even respond with common courtesy and he doesn't plan to do anything about it.

He's broke and she's got money. If you're smart you will make plans for a better life for yourself. Because she isn't going to leave when you get back, he isn't going to do anything about it, and he'll allow you to be more and more miserable until you walk. At which point he can tell everyone what a bad slave you were.

As far as him just happening upon her the moment you left town? Sorry, she's been his bit on the side for a while now, it isn't as though he just strolled into Toys R Us or Target and bought a slave.

Good luck and please take care of yourself.

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/25/2008 10:22:05 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		As you've experienced it- a lot of people talk about it, and try to force it.  It rarely ever actually works out very well.

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 4/26/2008 5:31:28 AM   
slaveluci


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quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

poly relationships are so hilarious... omg...i feel sorry for Lovesit.

Not all are "hilarious."  Some are actually extremely wonderful and fulfilling.  It seems not everyone is capable of handling one or living happily within it's particular dynamics.  Some of us are................luci

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 5/4/2008 3:39:06 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		you owe it to all parties to get a clarification of the new slave's role and of your new one.  your Master may be unaware that she is not responding to you.  If he is unaware, He needs to fix this.  If He is aware, then He needs to clarify what is going to happen.

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 5/4/2008 6:00:45 PM   
lanie38


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I may be wrong but I get the feeling that you made the "get a temp in my absence" comment a bit flippantly, and perhaps didn't expect him to act on it...and that's got you wondering....esp since he seems to have jumped at the opportunity pretty quickly.

How long have you been gone?

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 5/4/2008 7:09:27 PM   
sabirah


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Status: offline 		Exactly what I thought,  I don't think the OP was truly aware of the ramifications of her fly by night, playful statement to her Master as she left home. His ability to jump quickly and seek one out on CM, is what I believe her confusion to be.

quote:

ORIGINAL: lanie38

~fast reply~

I may be wrong but I get the feeling that you made the "get a temp in my absence" comment a bit flippantly, and perhaps didn't expect him to act on it...and that's got you wondering....esp since he seems to have jumped at the opportunity pretty quickly.

How long have you been gone?


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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 5/4/2008 7:11:25 PM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		It's probably not another person's place to say whether a sub/slave being outspoken is a positive thing or a bad thing unless they are YOUR slave.
I am sorry that your master handled this in such a poor manner...otoh...you did kind of suggest it, so...

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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 5/4/2008 8:35:25 PM   
variation30


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lovesit

can 2 slave woman be one mans slave...and really be thought as sisters


yes.

I'd prove it to you, but as my keyboard doesn't have a backwards E and an upsidedown A, you'll just have to take my word for it.


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RE: is there really a slave sister or Masters other - 5/4/2008 8:40:40 PM   
variation30


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lovesit

ok permission to speak freely.....


permission denied. in fact, the audacity of you asking to speak freely insults me to the degree that I order you to refer to yourself as "a girl such that is a slave".


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