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RE: Why such problems with humiliation? - 10/14/2005 9:33:36 PM

LadyZee

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It seems to Me that the wonderful thing about the BDSM scene is that there is room for everyone. Given that I respect other Mistress' right to treat their slaves and submissive however they see fit, I would expect that same courtesy from others.

I do not believe there is a single set of rules/instruction for how a Domina should interact with every sub and slave in her acquaintance, and therefore it is up to each of us include/exclude humiliation in all of its flavors in the manner, and to the extent, that we choose. If one chooses not to include humiliation play, or limit it with a particular (or even every) sub, I do not view that as a "hangup". Rather, that is a Mistress engaging in play in the way she desires, which is as it should be.

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RE: Why such problems with humiliation? - 10/14/2005 11:09:41 PM

LadySadira

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LadyZee -

I totally agree with you - and I was not trying to implicate that every Domme/Dom should engage in anything they are not into. I was just aking the community in general why some people seem to have such a problem with it. Just trying to gain some insight into other relms

Lady Sadira ~

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RE: Why such problems with humiliation? - 10/15/2005 12:08:32 AM

lonewolf05

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i am told------there are degrees of humiliation. two basics..one is for fun n play.."she says to her boy..oh those pink panties look so cute" is one.
and the boy just loves it.

another is for being a bit meaner...but in fun-play also..sasying "you are such a little slut-bitch-whore..etc"

and the boy loves it.

and of course....the one where someone actually puts someone down..and tries to break their spirit-------which "I" don't understand because "I" am too alpha and it just triggers my temper....by this stage i am ready to rip someone's head off.

i figure.........if YOU..the Domme/Mistress have ''a boy'' that enjoys whatever level of this.....YOU and him go have fun....don't worry about anyone else........

take care Ma'am.
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RE: Why such problems with humiliation? - 10/15/2005 6:46:58 AM

londonsubm

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I did not read your profile, so it was not aimed specifacally at you.

I wasn't referring to pro Dommes.

But I think if i named names of profiles here i'd be breaking some rules of the site.

Lets just say alarm bells in profiles are "raping wallets" "online financial domination"

Don't know if it applies to you or not - will take alook at your profile to see.

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I really hope that comment about money whores was not meant towards Me?

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RE: Why such problems with humiliation? - 10/15/2005 11:01:13 AM

SweetDommes

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ORIGINAL: LadySadira

LadyZee -

I totally agree with you - and I was not trying to implicate that every Domme/Dom should engage in anything they are not into. I was just aking the community in general why some people seem to have such a problem with it. Just trying to gain some insight into other relms

Lady Sadira ~

Heh, see my first reply. I still hold that they are trying to get their own humiliation fix ...

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