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BRNaughtyAngel -> Stripping for your Master? (4/25/2008 5:45:32 PM)

First let me share that I'm an introvert, shy, easily embarassed, HATE to be the center of attention, have body image issues, not overly graceful......  [sm=sigh.gif]

And with that said, our local BDSM club (RSVP) is having a roleplaying night next month called the Flesh Playhouse where our dungeon will become a "strip club" for the night[sm=flash.gif], complete with a pole for pole dancing.  [sm=pole.gif]  There will be play dancer dollars for the patrons to give the strippers, lap dances and a "champagne" room.  Everything is considered a negotiated scene amongst the participants.

My Master has informed me that He wishes me to be one of the strippers!  [sm=runaway.gif]  I think I'm having an anxiety attack already! [sm=nervous.gif]

I can imagine myself doing this in my mind, but in my mind I am smaller, confident, graceful, coordinated and not shy.

I want to do this for Him, but I really am having some major anxieties over it and need some help from you lovely ladies (and gentlemen) in how to deal with these anxieties, and just get up there, have fun and do my best for Him.  Similar experiences from any of you?  *hmmm, wonder what the dominants think about this too?*

I anxiously await some words of wisdom, comfort, ideas, stripper/dancing tips....... anything! from y'all.  *getting ready to take notes* [sm=writing.gif]

Ummmm, those will be coming.... won't they? [sm=hewah.gif]

[sm=couch.gif]   <----------- I'll be waiting over there.



camille65 -> RE: Stripping for your Master? (4/25/2008 5:47:36 PM)

But you are lovely! I haven't a bit of practical advice because I happen to feel the same way, yet you say in your mind you are a tiny dancer.. so maybe you can do it but just sort of stay in your head space?



christine1 -> RE: Stripping for your Master? (4/25/2008 5:49:39 PM)

i wish i could give you some advice...i wouldn't be able to do it, i'd be puking i'd be so nervous lol.  now that's a sexy mental image huh?  seriously, i've got some pretty wicked body image issues in my noggin that would have to be addressed before i could do something like that without bursting into tears i think.  sorry i wasn't more helpful...hugs girl!



OldBastardly1 -> RE: Stripping for your Master? (4/25/2008 5:52:44 PM)

I would suggest that if you must do this, find a happy place in your mind. As the music plays, allow yourself to feel the music. Close your eyes and imagine that you are having the best sex of your life.....then dance.

Most strippers don't look near as good as you do.

Have fun.



StayOfExecution -> RE: Stripping for your Master? (4/25/2008 5:54:33 PM)

Sexy is as sexy does.  Feel your sexuality, exude confidence and imagine it being for your Master.  And take comfort in the fact that the audience will be made up of average people in all sort of shapes and sizes.  Start practicing in front of the mirror with some sexy music playing.



daddysblondie -> RE: Stripping for your Master? (4/25/2008 6:17:12 PM)

I feel for you on the shy, hate to be the center of attention thing, I'd be feeling anxious too.

What about taking a pole dancing class if they have them in your area, or maybe a video?? Maybe if you felt like you had a couple "moves" in your repertoire it might help with the nerves a little???



BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Stripping for your Master? (4/25/2008 6:18:34 PM)

*makes notes*  [sm=writing.gif]

Find a happy place in my mind.  [sm=hippie.gif]

I'm doing it for Him.  [sm=yesmaster.gif]

Throwing up is not sexy....... *unless that's your kink*  [sm=eeew.gif]

Practice.  [sm=pole.gif]

Sexy is as sexy does....... life is like a box of chocolates. [;)]



batshalom -> RE: Stripping for your Master? (4/25/2008 6:26:15 PM)

Ommmmgggggggggggggggg how FUN! I'm envious, and not because I don't have body issues of my own, mind you, but because your Sir is asking you to do something that he surely knows is difficult for you. He has confidence in you, not only as his sub, but as a beautiful woman whom others would enjoy seeing. Instead of telling yourself that you're anxious or have issues with it, tell yourself that your Sir is taking you outside your comfort zone in order to teach you what an awesome creature you are. Ahhhhh. ~smiling~ Lucky girl.



christine1 -> RE: Stripping for your Master? (4/25/2008 6:29:50 PM)

okay, can i get just a spoonful of your awesome, positive attitude Batshalom?   [sm=yourock.gif]



BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Stripping for your Master? (4/25/2008 6:31:49 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: batshalom

Ommmmgggggggggggggggg how FUN! I'm envious, and not because I don't have body issues of my own, mind you, but because your Sir is asking you to do something that he surely knows is difficult for you. He has confidence in you, not only as his sub, but as a beautiful woman whom others would enjoy seeing. Instead of telling yourself that you're anxious or have issues with it, tell yourself that your Sir is taking you outside your comfort zone in order to teach you what an awesome creature you are. Ahhhhh. ~smiling~ Lucky girl.


What a great way to look at it!!    [sm=yourock.gif]

Thank you!



batshalom -> RE: Stripping for your Master? (4/25/2008 6:36:22 PM)

Thanks, beautiful women. ~smiling~ That makes me feel good.



GreedyTop -> RE: Stripping for your Master? (4/25/2008 6:42:46 PM)

If you can, choose music you are really familiar with (back when I was a dancer, I used Alice Cooper - Black widow, for instance).  That allowed me to 'perform' the song. if the DJ threw on something I wasn't as familiar with, it kinda threw me off.  I found it much easier to get into the right space with MY music.

*hugs*

Either way, sweetie, you'll do fine.. keep in mind what Batshalom so beautifully said *hugs*



BossyShoeBitch -> RE: Stripping for your Master? (4/25/2008 6:43:28 PM)

Once you get past all the emotional issues you have regarding the fact that you will be stripping in public, you might want to....PRACTICE before the time comes?  :)



BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Stripping for your Master? (4/25/2008 6:50:28 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

If you can, choose music you are really familiar with (back when I was a dancer, I used Alice Cooper - Black widow, for instance).  That allowed me to 'perform' the song. if the DJ threw on something I wasn't as familiar with, it kinda threw me off.  I found it much easier to get into the right space with MY music.

*hugs*

Either way, sweetie, you'll do fine.. keep in mind what Batshalom so beautifully said *hugs*



Once He made His wishes known, and I had that initial OMG! reaction, my next thought was what song I would use.  LOL!

"Closer" by Nine Inch Nails  [sm=dancing.gif]


Oh and BSB, I definitely know I need to practice!  Heh!

Hmmmmm maybe I'll break my ankle while practicing in my high heels? [8|] [;)]



pinkwind -> RE: Stripping for your Master? (4/25/2008 6:52:31 PM)

So, how is your Master helping you to overcome your anxieties?

Apart from making it clear that he wants you to be one of the strippers what else have you communicated between yourselves by way of helping you feel confident and able to do this to please him?

For all that we can say that you have nothing to worry about, that you aren't the only one having problems getting used to the idea of getting naked in public, and that i can almost guarantee that 99% of the folks there will look like ordinary people rather than supermodels there is nothing any of us can do to take away what i see as a natural level of reticence, shyness and trepidation.

At the end of the day it is up to your Master to help you feel able to go through with this. Just remember, he is proud enough of you that he wants to see you naked there, and should be aware just what emotions you are going through. It is his encouragement and pride in you that will carry you forward, not our words, well meant as they are.

Knock his socks off girl, and enjoy yourself, focus on your Master and everything else will disappear.




Twicehappy2x -> RE: Stripping for your Master? (4/25/2008 6:54:40 PM)

Lol, having some of your issues;
 
" HATE to be the center of attention, have body image issues, not overly graceful."
 
Combined with the ability to keep a beat equal to about that of a monkey on LSD and the grace of a grazing bull.
 
I can tell you still can do it. I know, i was a stripper for about 13 years or so. It put me through school and bought my farm while raising 3 ums.
 
Here are a few tricks, FORGET go go dancing. Find a few songs that you like the words or rhythm of. Try Lady in Red, or Kid Rocks song Only God Knows Why, or Janis Joplin's When a Man Loves a Woman. All of those are slow and easy to follow. Practice!!!!!
 
Next pick something sexy yet easy to get out of. A bra, garter belt, stockings and heels always work, a dress you can get out of easily on top, long gloves are good too. Take a shawl or cape or something you can use to play peek a boo body parts with.  
 
Now a few things to remember, strut by walking heel to toe. Put you foot forward, then place the next toe right behind your heel only a few inches apart. This will produce that classic stripper strut.
 
Keep you head up, chin up, do not focus on any one persons face but smile like you mean it.
 
Take a rug, lay down, roll off one stocking then the other. Remove your gloves with your teeth, one at a time. Unhook your bra lean forward slide your arms out but keep holding it on with one arm, tease them.
 
Use whatever you took like a shawl to drape your body, spin a bit, allow glimpses of parts. Try to avoid just baring it all, men are more intrigued with what they think they see than they will be once you spread it for them.
 
Remember, keep your shoulders back, head up and keep smiling.
 
Worse comes to worse go to this site for ideas.
 
 
http://www.lapdanceunleashed.com



derfrewop -> RE: Stripping for your Master? (4/25/2008 6:58:03 PM)

I may be out of place posting here in the sub forum but I have to say I admire your master. Clearly you are much better looking than you think. As Heinlien said, the truest of compliments comes as piles of folding money. Nothing will make you believe that you are beautiful like people giving you money simply to be with you.

Remember, he's going to be in the audience most likely reveling in all the others eyes being on you. Forget everyone else and strip for him with all of the love and devotion you have. You can be the ugliest woman in the room and if you show that, none of the others will make any money.





ResidentSadist -> RE: Stripping for your Master? (4/25/2008 6:59:16 PM)

You can always practice until it becomes a comfortable routine. 



TethersEnd -> RE: Stripping for your Master? (4/25/2008 7:03:39 PM)

Oh eeeeegads I'd be fretting this one too.

So I ran your circumstances through my mind and came up with two possibles that might work for me.
Make eye contact with Him, make it fun and pretend the others are just no there. 
or
If your lucky enough to have another Sub to dance with or near, make it a team, play with it, again make it fun.

If I remember right (sigh) the later is how I ended up loosing all those issues years back and had a LOT of fun! 
snicker................







BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Stripping for your Master? (4/25/2008 7:05:06 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: pinkwind

So, how is your Master helping you to overcome your anxieties?

Apart from making it clear that he wants you to be one of the strippers what else have you communicated between yourselves by way of helping you feel confident and able to do this to please him?


My Master is an amazing man and we definitely communicate about everything, including this.  He tells me constantly that I am beautiful and precious to Him. 

He actually helped me through a similar situation on a smaller scale.  He wanted me to go topless at our BDSM club and I was having major embarassment issues.  He looked down at me, held my face in His hands and told me that I was His beautiful property and that He loved showing off His beautiful treasures and I was His most beautiful treasure.  He told me that I have beautiful breasts and that others would appreciate their beauty as well.  Although I was still embarassed, I did it for Him and it felt wonderful. [:)]

He and I continue to talk about the stripping and He reassures me in that same way, while steadily and lovingly nudging me out of my comfort zones.  I am a very lucky girl.




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