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Raphael -> RE: Training a new submissive (10/17/2005 3:18:49 AM)

The first question is what do you want to train her for?

Answer that question, and then meaningful replies can follow.

Soulhuntre found a way to make a good point without that, but it took some creativity.



fyreredsub -> RE: Training a new submissive (11/2/2005 5:24:28 PM)

i was contacted by a rather nice man,a master.
when i wrote to him about my past topping experience and my newness in submission,which is my heart's desire,well i haven't heard from him since.
one would think that a master would want a clean canvas to paint their masterpiece upon.
So now i am paying attention to this thread,lol.



IronBear -> RE: Training a new submissive (11/2/2005 5:51:02 PM)

For me, training is an ongoing situation. Time spent in investigating the new person, regarding their experiences in and out of the lifestyle, their wants, their desires and where they want to be is time well worth spending. This gives you a platform from which to start.

It is obvious that you too need to have detailed ideas of what you want with a sub/slave.

From all of this, you should be able to design a training program with targets, attainable goals and the ultimate goal all of which may be altered according to progress and changes in your own concepts. Probably the training of a kajira will be quite different to that of a BDSM sub/slave but what I have written here should be adaptable for both.



fyreredsub -> RE: Training a new submissive (11/2/2005 6:57:44 PM)

i do love to learn and being proactive about my training is good but it still isn't the same as knowing exactly what makes a potential Master tick.

one can only do so much research and training on their own.

i suppose i need to work on what exactly is it that i want/need in order to be able to better please/serve in the future.

i always wonder tho if someone may think i am a misguided switch,lol, for lack of a better term but they can keep in mind i could top others wonderfully under their direction,lol.






Jacques1000 -> RE: Training a new submissive (11/2/2005 7:15:34 PM)

1. Read voraciously
2. Listen attentively
3. Watch observantly
4. Talk openly

& utilise all available resources at your disposal--which you seem to be doing. [:)]



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