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Marx -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 3:03:49 PM)
All this smug, beige, middle-class emotional censorship! Why are Americans so easily antagonised? Sorry if i've pissed anyone off, but really, you would think i'm talking directly to you! We aren't in a library! And instead of recommending i tone it down, change the profile etc, why not try to engage with me? You will be astonished at my reserves of compassion, empathy and open-heartedness! Take me on someone!

angelic -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 3:04:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Marx John Warren, You are kind to bother with a reply, and you're probably entirely right. I'm just sick of banging my head against this particular brick wall! As to what a woman might find attractive? Well i'm charismatic; open-hearted; compassionate; articulate; innovative; generous; loyal; funny, will those do to be getting on with? I have plenty to offer! i understand your frustration; however you are coming across as one who may have anger issues. Just my own observations. Also, isn't better to just wait for the 'right' One than to get the 'wrong' One? You have gotten some really good advice from these Ffolks. Learn from it, please.

TearCollector -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 3:04:48 PM)
JOhn I think thats both funny and terrible about your referance to a name change. Its funny how you said it. I laughed out loud. But its terrible that the internet allows us to show ourselves and go into hiding again with a few changes to our digital ID. I dont like the thought of discovering something about someone and have them talking to me again next week under a differant ID. I did change my ID here once because I wasnt getting responces and I saw that the profiles I veiwed all had similar characteristics to their ID. So I made a change. But I think thats differant from the concept I am posting about. TearCollector

greenie -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 3:09:25 PM)
quote: EMERALD SLAVE, You sound smugly Californian! i'm sorry but does this comment mean that all of us here in CA are a specific type? i think they call that type casting and i take offense to it. i've noticed that you are doing that alot, especially with Dommes (which i'm not). i know You're angry, and it does help to let the anger out, but please try not to alienate everyone because you choose to lump everyone up into certain groups.

Marx -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 3:16:07 PM)
Aakasha, It is categorically not about me. It's about people like you having a little empathy. You are smugly inside this scene, and exhibit precisely the jaded, patrician disdain for "newbies" and their foibles that i have come to expect! You're not dealing with some Neanderthal who is whinning because his date wouldn't take her top off, this is legitimate pain, and it isn't sexy! Marx

Marx -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 3:19:01 PM)
Greenie, California is a state of mind not a place!

topcat -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 3:20:33 PM)
Dear Marx- Now wait a minute- M. Aa in no way exhibitied distain, and in fact, my the viture of reply honestly to you display a depth of grandmotherly kindness that I really found quite touching. I know you can express yoursaelf better and more effectivly than you are here- take a breath and get back to it. Pain is pain- but it is often in poor proportion to the injury. Stay warm, Lawrence

Aileen68 -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 3:22:25 PM)
It has nothing to do with being a newbie. I'm a newbie and I don't get the kind of responses you apparently are getting. Maybe it has something to do with how you come across...angry, combative and desperate. Let's hear what you have to say about New Jersey now. edited for spelling

Phoenixandnika -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 3:22:52 PM)
Marx, You have called at least 2 people if not more in this thread specifically smug, as well as all those from California, which I am orginally. I think considering your whining and woes is me up to this point myself and others have tried to help you and make you feel welcome here but ya know what. I am done trying to help you. You come across at this point as a sniffling brat, who is pissed off because others are happy or simply because people do not make "you" a priority. There are people who have been here longer than 4months and not "found" someone and you do not see them making random insults or general name calling. People do read these threads and if this was the first time I read something you posted, ya know what I would not respond to an email from you either. Nika{Phoenix}

angelic -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 3:23:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen68 It has nothing to do with being a newbie. I'm a newbie and I don't get the kind of responses you apparently are getting. Maybe it has something to do with how you come across...angry, combative and desperate. Let's hear what you have to say about New Jersy now. LMFAO...

JohnWarren -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 3:27:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Marx All this smug, beige, middle-class emotional censorship! Why are Americans so easily antagonised? Sorry if i've pissed anyone off, but really, you would think i'm talking directly to you! We aren't in a library! And instead of recommending i tone it down, change the profile etc, why not try to engage with me? You will be astonished at my reserves of compassion, empathy and open-heartedness! Take me on someone! Why should we? You've shown yourself as not willing to listen to suggestions and have attacked people right and left. I'm not willing to "engage" with you. You haven't given me a reason. Frankly I'd rather ignore you and take my "smug, beige, middle-class emotional censorship" elsewhere where I might be able to help someone.

Marx -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 3:29:52 PM)
Topcat, Your responses were the most witty, warm and helpful i have had to this fraught thread: THANK YOU! As to AaKasha, you're correct; i was just lashing out i guess.

Marx -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 3:31:58 PM)
As for knocking Californians and the US? What do you care? You rule the world anyway!

Marx -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 3:35:09 PM)
JohnWarren Your loss mate! Far from me judging you, i think it's the reverse! You seem to have convicted me without trial! You don't know me from Adam, but still feel justified in condemning me! Don't ever become a counsellor!

Marx -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 3:37:50 PM)
Aileen68, Thanks for the reply!

Phoenixandnika -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 3:37:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Marx JohnWarren Your loss mate! Far from me judging you, i think it's the reverse! You seem to have convicted me without trial! You don't know me form Adam, but still feel justified in condemning me! Don't ever become a counsellor! Marx, Do yourself a favor and walk away from the computer take a walk then come back and reread this entire thread. That is what you are being judged on, your actions, your words, the image that you yourself are putting out there. Nika{Phoenix} waves to M. Lawrence before going back to cooking

Marx -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 3:43:00 PM)
Nika, You're a nice boy, but do you honestly think i care what you think of me? I'm being JUDGED am i? Shame on you! From your first reply to me, you felt duty-bound to inform me where i was going wrong - i could sense latent hostility from the off!

EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 3:45:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Marx Nika, You're a nice boy, but do you honestly think i care what you think of me? I'm being JUDGED am i? Shame on you! From your first reply to me, you felt duty-bound to inform me where i was going wrong - i could sense latent hostility form the off! Anyway, he's much more fun riled up. I wonder if he'll even still be posting next week or just be another one gone down in flames of his own making. Or is that too poetic an idea to waste on this thread? I'm not a California girl, though I have fucked a few...spent a weekend there once, great place.

Marx -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 3:47:04 PM)
NOW COME ON EVERYONE, WASN'T THIS A HOOT? IT'S NOT AS IF WE EVER HAVE TO MEET, SO WHAT'S ALL THE FUSS?

greenie -> RE: I AM SERIOUSLY ANGRY! (10/13/2005 3:48:05 PM)
quote: Greenie, California is a state of mind not a place! then maybe it would help others understand you better and be more empathetic to your plight if you possibly found another way to word things, also so that you are no longer offending those you mean no offense to. You said that she sounded smugly Californian not that she sounded smug, you specified Californians which are those of us who reside here in CA. Not all of us are smug.

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