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submale4u2spank -> top ten rules for a sub (4/26/2008 9:31:35 AM)

   So last night I was searching the internet and found a cool list of ten rules a sub should follow in a D's relationship, one of which was to always communicate your feelings and needs to your mistress without topping for the bottom, or something like that.  I can't find that list again but what are the best top ten rules for a submissive to follow in a relationship?



RumpusParable -> RE: top ten rules for a sub (4/26/2008 9:55:35 AM)

In my opinion, the same as in any close personal relationship:

Be courteous/respectful
Communicate well and honestly
Bathe regularly

All the rest is details of those and the personal kinks/interest of the dom and sub.



DesFIP -> RE: top ten rules for a sub (4/26/2008 11:15:00 AM)

Here maybe?
http://www.soj.org/rules.html



MladyHathor -> RE: top ten rules for a sub (4/26/2008 11:47:47 AM)

Rule Number one: Fantasy is just that--fantasy
 
Rule Number two--Never ever forget Rule Number one.



faerytattoodgirl -> RE: top ten rules for a sub (4/26/2008 11:48:43 AM)

1)must be able to choose from several types of bread.
2)must have option to be heated/toasted or not.
3)6" or 12" options
4)a variety of veggies is required.
5)a selection of sauces to choose from.
6)a selection of soft drinks to choose from.
7)must be a conveinent location.
8)under $10 for 12" sub
9)under $5 for 6" sub
10)must be delicious!!!!



MisPandora -> RE: top ten rules for a sub (4/26/2008 11:55:29 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: submale4u2spank

  So last night I was searching the internet and found a cool list of ten rules a sub should follow in a D's relationship, one of which was to always communicate your feelings and needs to your mistress without topping for the bottom, or something like that.  I can't find that list again but what are the best top ten rules for a submissive to follow in a relationship?

It would be wise to follow the rules that YOUR MISTRESS gives you rather than some random and not easily found internet site.  What SHE desires is far more important/significant than what a stranger thinks you should be doing.



khem -> RE: top ten rules for a sub (4/26/2008 12:15:16 PM)

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ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

1)must be able to choose from several types of bread.
2)must have option to be heated/toasted or not.
3)6" or 12" options
4)a variety of veggies is required.
5)a selection of sauces to choose from.
6)a selection of soft drinks to choose from.
7)must be a conveinent location.
8)under $10 for 12" sub
9)under $5 for 6" sub
10)must be delicious!!!!



12" sub....



submale4u2spank -> RE: top ten rules for a sub (4/26/2008 12:15:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Here maybe?
http://www.soj.org/rules.html

It was not that place but I like those rules too!  Does anyone have a web site were you can order a domme like you can with Russian brides?



faerytattoodgirl -> RE: top ten rules for a sub (4/26/2008 12:19:34 PM)

quote:

12" sub....


yes..only available in a store... and often found in womens drawers. [8|]



MladyHathor -> RE: top ten rules for a sub (4/26/2008 12:23:30 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

quote:

12" sub....


yes..only available in a store... and often found in womens drawers. [8|]



spews Her ice water----PRICELESS--and never attached to a real male--note: objects may appear larger in the mirror.



faerytattoodgirl -> RE: top ten rules for a sub (4/26/2008 12:25:12 PM)

quote:

note: objects may appear larger in the mirror.


yes and they often confuse centimetres for inches...  [8|]



ElanSubdued -> RE: top ten rules for a sub (4/26/2008 1:47:28 PM)

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MladyHathor: note: objects may appear larger in the mirror.


So I guess this means one should be careful when backing up (at least most certainly when Diane is around :-).

Note:  Just to be extra politically careful, my reference to Diane has nothing to do with her body.  CM Regulars will know exactly what I'm referring to.

Elan.



littlesarbonn -> RE: top ten rules for a sub (4/26/2008 3:06:09 PM)

My rules are always simple:

1. Always put the toilet seat back down.
2. Don't pee on the floor.
3. Always get a receipt.



Sunnyfey -> RE: top ten rules for a sub (4/26/2008 3:26:47 PM)

i dont know about rules for a subby to follow, but these are my house rules

1. DO NOT talk to me while I am in the bathroom.....thats weird.
2. Any man in any womans bed in my house....must sleep naked.
3.men take out the trash
4. the seat was down when you went in there it better be down when you leave
5. Dr.pepper....will get you everywhere
6. Do NOT go investigate the random screams/smacking noises in the bedrooms
7. Do NOT wake me up before noon...ever.
8. If the rats knock the water bottle over...fix it.
9.Knock on the door first.
10. repleace anything you use up the last of



DiurnalVampire -> RE: top ten rules for a sub (4/26/2008 3:31:03 PM)

1) Do not answer a question with a question, if I wanted to answer it myself, I would have made it a statement.
2) No not speak over me on the phone to make your point. I strongly dislike that.
3) Do not contradict me in front of other people
4) Try and remember to get your chores done
5) Do not put sugar in the coffee unless you have asked me if I want it that way.
6) DO NOT LEAVE THE TOILET SEAT UP!
7) Laundry goes in the hamper, not on the floor.
8) If something is bothering you, hurts, or is otherwise wrong, you have to tell me. I am not a mind reader.
9) Call when you say you are going to, show up when you are supposed to, call if you will be late.
10) When you adjust the seats in my car to drive it, put them back where I had them so I can reach my pedals.

Granted these may only apply to me, but thats sort of the point. My boys have rules about OUR relationship, tey dont all translate to anything anyone else might find useful.

DV



faerytattoodgirl -> RE: top ten rules for a sub (4/26/2008 3:53:33 PM)

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7) Laundry goes in the hamper, not on the floor.


crap....im out !!! damn!!!



faerytattoodgirl -> RE: top ten rules for a sub (4/26/2008 3:58:22 PM)

quote:

i dont know about rules for a subby to follow, but these are my house rules


i guess if we call you tiny...you'll beat us up? [8|]



submale4u2spank -> RE: top ten rules for a sub (4/26/2008 4:01:27 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

1) Do not answer a question with a question, if I wanted to answer it myself, I would have made it a statement.
2) No not speak over me on the phone to make your point. I strongly dislike that.
3) Do not contradict me in front of other people
4) Try and remember to get your chores done
5) Do not put sugar in the coffee unless you have asked me if I want it that way.
6) DO NOT LEAVE THE TOILET SEAT UP!
7) Laundry goes in the hamper, not on the floor.
8) If something is bothering you, hurts, or is otherwise wrong, you have to tell me. I am not a mind reader.
9) Call when you say you are going to, show up when you are supposed to, call if you will be late.
10) When you adjust the seats in my car to drive it, put them back where I had them so I can reach my pedals.

Granted these may only apply to me, but thats sort of the point. My boys have rules about OUR relationship, tey dont all translate to anything anyone else might find useful.

DV

 

These sound like some pretty reasonable rules, now if I could just find a non-vampire domme to enforce them upon me, I'd be doing swell.



bipolarber -> RE: top ten rules for a sub (4/26/2008 8:15:37 PM)

My rules for myself, as a sub... feel free to adopt, adapt, or improve as needed:

1) Don't treat your partner like a support system for a whip/strapon.
2) On a first playdate, make sure you have an extra set of car keys/cab fare hidden somewhere.
3) Always be appreciative of what the other does for you.
  3a) be sincere.
4) Remember to do warm ups before a scene. (As in excersises)
5) Don't speak unless spoken to.
6) Campfire rule: always leave your partner in better shape than when you found them.
7) Learn how your Domme likes her coffee.
8) Develop patience, especially during certain parts of her cycle.
9) Leave the seat down. If you have to, get a PA so you have to sit to pee too.
10) Remember, just because you are a sub, it doens't mean you are a doormat.



Pyrrsefanie -> RE: top ten rules for a sub (4/27/2008 12:20:34 AM)

1.) Shoes come off at the door.
2.) No procrastinating, no excuses.
3.) Chew with your mouth closed.
4.) Scary man feet are not acceptable.  Trim your damn toenails and keep them clean.
5.) None of the following are ever to be in my house:  football, country music, light beer, my father-in-law.
6.) If you have to go number two, spray air freshner after you're done.  When in doubt, spray it anyway.
7.) When I give instructions, follow them to the letter.  Do not add or subtract.  I consider this disobedience.
8.) No ugly girls for threesomes.  Seriously.
9.) Don't be an asshole.  I will win the asshole competition hands-down every time.
10.) First Blood is the worst movie ever made.  Stop asking me to watch it with you.



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