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MladyHathor -> ooohhh Don't stop! (4/27/2008 5:59:58 AM)

Ok Dominas---time for a little love in the cottage--what is the ONE thing your submissive/slave (fill in your title)--does for You that You simply adore? Did he/she think of this? Did You have to teach them? Was he/she good from the start at this?
 
Let's have some fun and share some insight on a rainy sunday morn---




MsStarlett -> RE: ooohhh Don't stop! (4/27/2008 6:29:30 AM)

Non-Sexual:  He makes me brunch every Sunday morning/noon and serves it to me.

Sexual:  He lays me over his lap and does the most amazing things with his hands and toys soaked in hot water.




timsubspirit -> RE: ooohhh Don't stop! (4/27/2008 2:47:52 PM)

AHhhhh Lady Hathor, <shrieking> as only a sub can... i really would enjoy seeing a Few Dommes' say  something positive about us submissives. i'd bet there are a few subs who, unfortunatly, don't see or hear much about the nice things that they do that Please there Domme's / Doms...
                                                            Love Y/you A/all,      tim




thetammyjo -> RE: ooohhh Don't stop! (4/27/2008 3:34:55 PM)

From time to time, I think when Fox just knows I need an extra dose of his submissiveness, he will bow and back out of a room from me OR kneel down at my feet and just look at me while his head is technically bowed.

He came up with these on his own, I don't expect them. He based them on things we tried during training and by watching my reactions to things in movies and on tv.

I think if I required him to do them, they'd ceasing being so touching, so intense, and so arousing.




HardToTame -> RE: ooohhh Don't stop! (4/27/2008 6:16:43 PM)

................ cant they just buy you flowers or something?  When I wanna make my leading lady feel special I buy her crap.   She gets all happy.  I still don't understand the formalities of the whole bdsm thing




LadyHibiscus -> RE: ooohhh Don't stop! (4/27/2008 6:30:25 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: HardToTame

.  I still don't understand the formalities of the whole bdsm thing


Yet you remain!  :)




YourhandMyAss -> RE: ooohhh Don't stop! (4/27/2008 7:29:07 PM)

First of all for me personally Id on't like cut flowers, I think it's a waste of money and a waste of pretty blooms that would of lived 10 times longer on the vine than cut.

And second of all, that's a really shitty attitude to take, can;'ty ou just buy them crap? What's wrong with investing a little effort into spoiling and pampering a person one would usualy profess to love and desire to bring happyness to* if the relationship involved love.* and even if your relationship has nothing to do with love, what's wrong with putting a little effort into pysichally pleasing someone you're with.
quote:

ORIGINAL: HardToTame

................ cant they just buy you flowers or something?  When I wanna make my leading lady feel special I buy her crap.   She gets all happy.  I still don't understand the formalities of the whole bdsm thing




LadyHibiscus -> RE: ooohhh Don't stop! (4/27/2008 7:33:33 PM)

Even if the relationship does not involve love, there is the fine art of SUCKING UP which is sorely neglected these days!





khem -> RE: ooohhh Don't stop! (4/27/2008 7:53:55 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Even if the relationship does not involve love, there is the fine art of SUCKING UP which is sorely neglected these days!




Maybe that's why there are so many tribute dommes around.  The art of sucking up or charming has been lost. 




YourhandMyAss -> RE: ooohhh Don't stop! (4/27/2008 8:17:23 PM)

Yup. That and honest genuine acts of affection like rubbing feet if your partners feet are tired and stuff.

I'd quickly tire of someone's attittude of can't I just buy you stuff to make you happy in my relationship, personally, Somebody like that wouldn't last long with me. I'm not greedy and I'm not difficult, but I would hope someone who was with me would be willing to p ut pysichal effort into making me happy, not just throw objects and items my way lol.
quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Even if the relationship does not involve love, there is the fine art of SUCKING UP which is sorely neglected these days!






LadyPact -> RE: ooohhh Don't stop! (4/27/2008 10:24:25 PM)

I can't chose one.

Non-sexual:  It's the waffles.  I use to say, if you love Me, you'll make Me pancakes.  Well, the hubby makes pancakes, so that was taken.  My sub got Me on this thing of waffles, because that way, he could get Me to eat fruit.  I'm *not* a fruit person, but he wanted Me eating healthier things, so there are always strawberries. 

Sexual:  I have to give it to him.  My sub gives the best foot kissing, licking, mouth carressing jobs that I have ever experienced.  No teaching necessary.  Natural talent. 

Protocol Related:  It's the way his eyes look up at Me when he is kneeling.  There's nothing like it.




MissMorrigan -> RE: ooohhh Don't stop! (4/27/2008 11:34:09 PM)

This is such a nice question to answer, Lady Hathor

Non-sexual: Reality tickles me to sleep every night. This is something I have loved and found soothing since a baby, and have trouble getting off to sleep without it. He was a natural to it, I never needed to instruct him other than the initial explanation of how I enjoy being tickled (caressed with the fingertips only).

Sexual: Making love to my feet with his mouth, eventually bringing me to climax when he focuses on my toes. Again, he's a natural, and I didn't realise I could feel such ecstasy from this until he provided it.




MySweetSubmssive -> RE: ooohhh Don't stop! (4/28/2008 12:51:56 AM)

Oooooooo ... this thread is better than candy -- so sweet.

Some of the most charged things a submissive has done for me are those that they offer spontaneously and fully.  A dear submissive that I know was told to write a story for me, and wrote seven and half pages in 24 hours -- and then followed up the next week with a second story unbidden.  The talent was all his and didn't need to be groomed.

MSS




thetammyjo -> RE: ooohhh Don't stop! (4/28/2008 5:59:10 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: HardToTame

................ cant they just buy you flowers or something? When I wanna make my leading lady feel special I buy her crap. She gets all happy. I still don't understand the formalities of the whole bdsm thing


Just to be picky: someone buying me flowers is someone who doesn't know anything about me at all.





DominantJenny -> RE: ooohhh Don't stop! (4/28/2008 6:39:30 AM)

He doesn't have any one thing he does...he'll randomly do or say wonderful things. I teased him about not being able to come up with anything (the truth is that many things others would see as wonderful are pretty much just expected around here; I have very high standards), so I'll see if he comes up with anything good. :)




Madame4a -> RE: ooohhh Don't stop! (4/28/2008 8:11:09 AM)

There is no way I could pick just one... and I hate to divide them into sexual/non type things...

so quickly off the top of my head.. the little things I never asked her to do that she does.. makes sure the coffee is ready for me in the morning, takes out the garbage, takes care of the dishes, and she makes my bed (which I love but never do myself)

she lays her head in my lap when we're discussing something important, no matter the topic -- this simple act is on her part, submissive and for my easily disracted boi, I know its a sign she's really listening and thinking...

and I love flowers, no matter who brings them... I adore them and have them all over the house as much as possible..




MladyHathor -> RE: ooohhh Don't stop! (4/28/2008 8:31:48 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: HardToTame

................ cant they just buy you flowers or something?  When I wanna make my leading lady feel special I buy her crap.   She gets all happy.  I still don't understand the formalities of the whole bdsm thing



(A) anyone with an attitude of "buying Me crap"--won't make the team
 
(B) someone who uses that as a stand alone--shows Me little imagination--in the last few moments of My life I don't want to be reviewing an estate sale list, I want to be remembering moments.
 
But that's just Me.




DiurnalVampire -> RE: ooohhh Don't stop! (4/28/2008 8:36:34 AM)

Fox massages me. He knew I had a bad back, and he spent time online and reading a book of mine, learning what he thought I might like and what might help. He added in learning foot massages as well. He contacted a Domme here who helped him out as well. Completely self taught, and then presented to me at first as a surprise for our frst months "anniversary" of his collaring.  He still does it, and he is getting extremely good at it.

Angel is putting a lot of work into learning to snuggle. I know, that sounds crazy, but with his body wired as it is, touch is ot always posible for him. He is trying to learn what positions he can be in, with me, and still be comfortable enough to enjoy even when his body isnt playing nice. He has even learned how to slep touching, even if it is only our arms together. For him, that was a big step towards making me happy since he knows physical contact is a big thing for me.

DV




chezzy71 -> RE: ooohhh Don't stop! (4/28/2008 10:53:24 AM)

Ok Lady H...what are yours??..I for one am very interested in what you have to say..i know i am evil..smiles




MladyHathor -> RE: ooohhh Don't stop! (4/28/2008 11:13:01 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: chezzy71

Ok Lady H...what are yours??..I for one am very interested in what you have to say..i know i am evil..smiles


I don't have a submissive at the moment, hence no response on My part.




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