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RE: out of curiousity - 10/14/2005 2:12:01 PM

fyreredsub

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quite actually this girl heard from Master today and she will be getting all she needs and then some.

no short changing at all much to this girl's surprise!
Thanks for your support.

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ORIGINAL: plantlady64

Hello There,
I don't think anyone will be able to answer your question but you. If you think you can handle not getting what you seem to want then yes, if you think you'll feel short changed than no. You have to decide what's most important to you.
Good luck with your decision,
sub suzanne

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RE: out of curiousity - 10/14/2005 2:13:56 PM

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this girl is ALL smiles. Master is being very good to her.

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the pull is far too strong to ignore.

I think you answered your own question. *smiles*

If the pull is that strong you dont want to have "what if's " down the road.

Live in the present, the future has a way of taking care of it's self.

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RE: out of curiousity - 10/14/2005 3:51:31 PM

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ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2
OK that sounds all nice and yummy, and it certainly does have merit...but making big choices like what commitments you make in the long term SHOULD be based on more than how awesome it feels right now and how strong a pull there happens to be right now.

I totally agree with this! I'm in love with my Dom and plan to live with him in 4 months. It would be very easy to just be blissful in our love and excitement for our D/s life to begin and not to consider the future. But, that is foolish and could end up being very damaging. We try to be realistic as well as in love.

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RE: out of curiousity - 10/17/2005 9:22:28 AM

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this girl decided not to settle for the first offer even tho it was a wonderful one.she needed to be more than 'just casual play' or pleasure. Granted everyone has a starting point and perhaps some valuable lessons into her insight and needs were being met in some areas, something was missing from the equation.since the decision yesterday this girl's gut is at peace. reading alot of the input on new relationships and expectations in the forums put some things into perspective as to different types of Masters and Doms and some life/death occurances that went on over the weekend w/ a relative, helped this girl to realize some things w/in herself.

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RE: out of curiousity - 10/17/2005 9:46:21 AM

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I notice some comments that essentially say give it a try, you can always change your mind later. While I understand this attitude with casual play partners or even a more long term defined arrangement, I do not understand it when referring to a 24/7 TPE with "Master."

Am I just hung up on words?

When you enter into that type of arrangement, is there not a presumption of complete commitment for the long term?

Does it just vary so much between people that I should give up trying to understand the dynamics of the terminology?

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RE: out of curiousity - 10/17/2005 12:09:41 PM

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...Some relationships, last for ages. Some only a moment. But theyre all good. They each have their own lessons, and are not completely without merit....

Words of Wisdom,

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RE: out of curiousity - 10/17/2005 3:58:11 PM

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it was expected that this girl commit to 24/7 TPE but not the Master.

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RE: out of curiousity - 10/17/2005 6:27:40 PM

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Good luck may you all find peace and happiness. sincerely, fawne

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this girl decided not to settle for the first offer even tho it was a wonderful one.she needed to be more than 'just casual play' or pleasure. Granted everyone has a starting point and perhaps some valuable lessons into her insight and needs were being met in some areas, something was missing from the equation.since the decision yesterday this girl's gut is at peace. reading alot of the input on new relationships and expectations in the forums put some things into perspective as to different types of Masters and Doms and some life/death occurances that went on over the weekend w/ a relative, helped this girl to realize some things w/in herself.

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