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bIondegirl -> RE: Attraction (4/27/2008 5:02:45 PM)
What a winner we've got here!

wwwkevinww -> RE: Attraction (4/27/2008 5:05:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: softness quote: ORIGINAL: UBERMUNSCHIST quote: ORIGINAL: softness attention seeking? ? Please use complete sentences. That is a complete sentence ...you could tell by the questioning indicator known commonly as the "question mark". A questioning indicator denotes that the preceeding statement was in fact a questioning statement. A questioning statement can be of anything as little as one word (Who? What?Why?When? Where? How?) In the long winded version that you requested "Attention Seeking" can be translated as this. Your profile has all the intellectual self indulgence of an educated 19 year old who wants people to admire his brain, no doubt you will do that in real life also. You come to a public forum to complain about how older women are throwing themselves at you. Anyone will realise after 10 minutes on this site that younger than you is illegal and so yes people will be older and yes there are a lot of married women around and so a piece of 19 yearold ass will be amusing and ultimately disposable...donot believe for a second that these women see youas a replacement for their successful and stable husbands ... its like the yard boy ... only kinky how do i know this ?... from the piles of mail from married men that I, and every two eyed non window licking submissive woman under 30 gets on this site, get everyday just like the real life attention you are getting and the reason that most of us dont start threads about it we are not attention seeking lol.....very funny.......anyhows.....Nothing wrong with being intelligent. I think some of your facts you expound in your profile are wrong. You find freedom in slavery? You trying to refer to subspace? As far as cheating goes, I agree with you, but don't preach to the choir, alot of cheating SOB people on here, and if they are going to do it, preaching isn't going to change them. According to the movie, which I'm too lazy to look up actual facts, they actually tried to do something with the boy in the bubble and that is what killed him. He could of survived forever in the bubble, besides the fact that he was going crazy because people are animals and do need human contact to keep sane. Don't answer questions with more questions....obviously you aren't interested in a convo......you sound very confused in your profile.... I think you're more of a switch, if you like giving and receiving pain....also, many of the people on here are not into playing games and are more interested in actual BDSM activities.... Not all BDSM activities are vanilla sex, like spanking, although it can be sexual in nature....and many derive sexual pleasure out of it.....at least in the right setting.....

Evility -> RE: Attraction (4/27/2008 5:10:15 PM)
You cannot control who is attracted to you.

impossiblesub -> RE: Attraction (4/27/2008 5:10:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UBERMUNSCHIST Do women really enjoy sincere compliments? Some do, some don't. Everybody is different.

wwwkevinww -> RE: Attraction (4/27/2008 5:11:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: impossiblesub I would suggest finding out as soon as possible if they are married or whatever. Then if they are just put a halt to everything. Politely. "Oh, what a shame it is you are married. You are such an attractive woman. pretend disappointment Oh well, nice to meet you." Giving them a compliment will help keep them from getting angry. Its good advice to find out if they are married before you meet them. I met this one girl at a burger king in a mall only to find out she was married and appearantly her marriage meant more to me than it did to her. She wanted to date and said her marriage only meant she was dating her "husband". At least she was honest about it to me, which is important to any relationship. At least the women you are talking to are honest about how they want to cheat, its alot worse if you meet someone you think is honest and find out later she lied to you.....gave you her cooties, and doesn't want to leave her stable husband to work in a burger king to support you thru college.....

wwwkevinww -> RE: Attraction (4/27/2008 5:17:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Evility You cannot control who is attracted to you. sure you can......picking your nose is extremely unattractive....telling someone a bunch of your problems isn't attractive, etc..... I remember me and my father went to a Pizza Hut, and we thought our waitress was very attractive, until he started telling us about how she had sculliosis and cavities, etc..... I remember thinking this one girl was attractive until I talked to her and found out she was mildly retarded and what not. I still shudder when she told me she was looking for a boyfriend point blank. ::shudder:: maybe I like intelligence too much.......

Level -> RE: Attraction (4/27/2008 5:24:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wwwkevinww quote: ORIGINAL: Evility You cannot control who is attracted to you. sure you can......picking your nose is extremely unattractive....telling someone a bunch of your problems isn't attractive, etc..... I remember me and my father went to a Pizza Hut, and we thought our waitress was very attractive, until he started telling us about how she had sculliosis and cavities, etc..... I remember thinking this one girl was attractive until I talked to her and found out she was mildly retarded and what not. I still shudder when she told me she was looking for a boyfriend point blank. ::shudder:: maybe I like intelligence too much....... Weren't you banned previously?

UBERMUNSCHIST -> RE: Attraction (4/27/2008 5:27:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wwwkevinww lol.....very funny.......anyhows.....Nothing wrong with being intelligent. I think some of your facts you expound in your profile are wrong. You find freedom in slavery? You trying to refer to subspace? > No. I'm refferring to Orwellian mindfucks. [1984] As far as cheating goes, I agree with you, but don't preach to the choir, alot of cheating SOB people on here, and if they are going to do it, preaching isn't going to change them. According to the movie, which I'm too lazy to look up actual facts, they actually tried to do something with the boy in the bubble and that is what killed him. He could of survived forever in the bubble, besides the fact that he was going crazy because people are animals and do need human contact to keep sane. Don't answer questions with more questions....obviously you aren't interested in a convo......you sound very confused in your profile.... > I'm not confused, I think My profile confused you. My profile has a lot of doublespeak and obscure meanings... I know very bad joo joo. [8D] I think you're more of a switch, if you like giving and receiving pain....also, many of the people on here are not into playing games and are more interested in actual BDSM activities.... > I'm not a switch, and I don't like "giving pain". I am not into playing games and I am interested in "actual BDSM activities" as you call it.

christine1 -> RE: Attraction (4/27/2008 5:28:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wwwkevinww quote: ORIGINAL: Evility You cannot control who is attracted to you. sure you can......picking your nose is extremely unattractive....telling someone a bunch of your problems isn't attractive, etc..... I remember me and my father went to a Pizza Hut, and we thought our waitress was very attractive, until he started telling us about how she had sculliosis and cavities, etc..... I remember thinking this one girl was attractive until I talked to her and found out she was mildly retarded and what not. I still shudder when she told me she was looking for a boyfriend point blank. ::shudder:: maybe I like intelligence too much....... how could you? how could you tell everyone that i pick my nose and have cavities? oh god, i'll never get over this....[sm=nervous.gif][image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m17.gif[/image] and you fucker, you think i'm mildly retarded? bwaaa haaa haaaa...i'll never get over it, i'm scarred for life! i'm going to get my pink sawed off street sweeper and go postal, how could you fucking say such things about me....sniffle sniffle sob....[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m12.gif[/image] ok, really dude, get a life and grow a pair.

SweetNika -> RE: Attraction (4/27/2008 5:30:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunlitflames i'm a tad confused.... your profile says you are a Dominant Male... yet you are seeking a Dominant Female? you say you like pleasure and pain...... the Doms i know enjoy giving pleasure and pain not receiving it. maybe clarifying how you see yourself would be a start. In my life I have known more than a handful of dominant men that enjoyed receiving pain and allowing their property the opprotunity to give them pain. I personally don't beleive being a sadist or masacist determines weather or not your dominant or submissive. blessed be, Nika

wwwkevinww -> RE: Attraction (4/27/2008 5:37:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UBERMUNSCHIST quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop practice saying it... if you can say it, with some degree of sincerity, chances are they'll feel better about the rejection (and if they ARENT particularly attractive, or don't feel like they are, then you'll have brightened someones day) Do women really enjoy sincere compliments? I never say them. I don't want to come off as cheesy. "Those are skin tight. How do you get into those pants baby?" - Austin Powers Its not cheesy to say what you really think. On the other hand, if someone hears all the time how great looking they are, etc, etc, it might eventually start getting old. On top of all that, vanity isn't all that attractive. Appearantly the blondie from Canada on here likes to hear other things besides she is wearing a nice dress (or not).... ::shocked::

MistressOfGa -> RE: Attraction (4/27/2008 5:41:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: softness quote: ORIGINAL: UBERMUNSCHIST quote: ORIGINAL: softness attention seeking? ? Please use complete sentences. That is a complete sentence ...you could tell by the questioning indicator known commonly as the "question mark". A questioning indicator denotes that the preceeding statement was in fact a questioning statement. A questioning statement can be of anything as little as one word (Who? What?Why?When? Where? How?) In the long winded version that you requested "Attention Seeking" can be translated as this. Your profile has all the intellectual self indulgence of an educated 19 year old who wants people to admire his brain, no doubt you will do that in real life also. You come to a public forum to complain about how older women are throwing themselves at you. Anyone will realise after 10 minutes on this site that younger than you is illegal and so yes people will be older and yes there are a lot of married women around and so a piece of 19 yearold ass will be amusing and ultimately disposable...donot believe for a second that these women see youas a replacement for their successful and stable husbands ... its like the yard boy ... only kinky how do i know this ?... from the piles of mail from married men that I, and every two eyed non window licking submissive woman under 30 gets on this site, get everyday just like the real life attention you are getting and the reason that most of us dont start threads about it we are not attention seeking [sm=threadhijack.gif] softness...I now have a crush on you. I didn't want to go back to the crush thread.. OK, return to your regularly scheduled thread <s> MoGa

wwwkevinww -> RE: Attraction (4/27/2008 5:42:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: christine1 quote: ORIGINAL: wwwkevinww quote: ORIGINAL: Evility You cannot control who is attracted to you. sure you can......picking your nose is extremely unattractive....telling someone a bunch of your problems isn't attractive, etc..... I remember me and my father went to a Pizza Hut, and we thought our waitress was very attractive, until he started telling us about how she had sculliosis and cavities, etc..... I remember thinking this one girl was attractive until I talked to her and found out she was mildly retarded and what not. I still shudder when she told me she was looking for a boyfriend point blank. ::shudder:: maybe I like intelligence too much....... how could you? how could you tell everyone that i pick my nose and have cavities? oh god, i'll never get over this....[sm=nervous.gif][image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m17.gif[/image] and you fucker, you think i'm mildly retarded? bwaaa haaa haaaa...i'll never get over it, i'm scarred for life! i'm going to get my pink sawed off street sweeper and go postal, how could you fucking say such things about me....sniffle sniffle sob....[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m12.gif[/image] ok, really dude, get a life and grow a pair. really cutie, I've got a pair. If you need confirmation, and you are genetically a female -> then I'd be happy to show you.... The girls I have met over my life is what I was refering to, as in examples.... I've never met you...do you have a pic? ::scared look:: I generally like to meet people with at least average looks.....sorry to be blunt...

Level -> RE: Attraction (4/27/2008 5:43:40 PM)
She's more than "average".

wwwkevinww -> RE: Attraction (4/27/2008 5:44:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetNika quote: ORIGINAL: sunlitflames i'm a tad confused.... your profile says you are a Dominant Male... yet you are seeking a Dominant Female? you say you like pleasure and pain...... the Doms i know enjoy giving pleasure and pain not receiving it. maybe clarifying how you see yourself would be a start. In my life I have known more than a handful of dominant men that enjoyed receiving pain and allowing their property the opprotunity to give them pain. I personally don't beleive being a sadist or masacist determines weather or not your dominant or submissive. blessed be, Nika okay, a dominant masochist......whatever....normally the one who is wielding the whip is the dom, explain why he is also interested in Dommes.....

christine1 -> RE: Attraction (4/27/2008 5:46:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wwwkevinww quote: ORIGINAL: christine1 quote: ORIGINAL: wwwkevinww quote: ORIGINAL: Evility You cannot control who is attracted to you. sure you can......picking your nose is extremely unattractive....telling someone a bunch of your problems isn't attractive, etc..... I remember me and my father went to a Pizza Hut, and we thought our waitress was very attractive, until he started telling us about how she had sculliosis and cavities, etc..... I remember thinking this one girl was attractive until I talked to her and found out she was mildly retarded and what not. I still shudder when she told me she was looking for a boyfriend point blank. ::shudder:: maybe I like intelligence too much....... how could you? how could you tell everyone that i pick my nose and have cavities? oh god, i'll never get over this....[sm=nervous.gif][image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m17.gif[/image] and you fucker, you think i'm mildly retarded? bwaaa haaa haaaa...i'll never get over it, i'm scarred for life! i'm going to get my pink sawed off street sweeper and go postal, how could you fucking say such things about me....sniffle sniffle sob....[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m12.gif[/image] ok, really dude, get a life and grow a pair. really cutie, I've got a pair. If you need confirmation, and you are genetically a female -> then I'd be happy to show you.... The girls I have met over my life is what I was refering to, as in examples.... I've never met you...do you have a pic? ::scared look:: I generally like to meet people with at least average looks.....sorry to be blunt... well yes, i do have a pic, i have several...give it a few days so my new avatar is approved and then check my profile and decide if you think i'm at least average or not...[8\|] if i'm not up to your "average" standards then just ignore me as i pick my nose and eat spicy pork rinds and run around in my cammo shorts....i'm sure someone like you has the intelligence to overlook such inconveniences in women.

MistressOfGa -> RE: Attraction (4/27/2008 5:48:19 PM)
Never mind.

MistressOfGa -> RE: Attraction (4/27/2008 5:50:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GimpinDenial <grabs coffee, sits back and relaxes to watch the show > Hi GimpinDenial, I don't believe we have met. My name is MoGa. Share your coffee? <s>

DesFIP -> RE: Attraction (4/27/2008 6:01:41 PM)
Enjoying sensation play does not mean you do not like being the leader in an interpersonal relationship. I'm submissive but I've been known to give him a massage, being the one delivering the sensation doesn't suddenly make me dominant. As far as never hearing of dom/domme or sub/sub pairing? That's your problem kev. There are lots of such pairings about. The dom/domme couples usually seek a third to serve them both, but sometimes they seek separate subs. The sub/sub pairs I've known of service top each other and seek out individual tops. Actually sub/sub pairings can work out really well because they both seek to make each other happy. And in situations where neither one can make a difficult decision, that's when you outsource it. An accountant can tell you if a house costing $350,000 is something you ought to go for in your present earning situation or if you should get the $175,000 and add on to get the other features you need. Marriage counselors can often offer ideas on compromises or solutions neither partner themselves thought of. There is more in heaven and earth Horatio, than is thought of in your philosophy. As always Shakespeare says it best.

wwwkevinww -> RE: Attraction (4/27/2008 6:13:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP Enjoying sensation play does not mean you do not like being the leader in an interpersonal relationship. I'm submissive but I've been known to give him a massage, being the one delivering the sensation doesn't suddenly make me dominant. As far as never hearing of dom/domme or sub/sub pairing? That's your problem kev. There are lots of such pairings about. The dom/domme couples usually seek a third to serve them both, but sometimes they seek separate subs. The sub/sub pairs I've known of service top each other and seek out individual tops. Actually sub/sub pairings can work out really well because they both seek to make each other happy. And in situations where neither one can make a difficult decision, that's when you outsource it. An accountant can tell you if a house costing $350,000 is something you ought to go for in your present earning situation or if you should get the $175,000 and add on to get the other features you need. Marriage counselors can often offer ideas on compromises or solutions neither partner themselves thought of. There is more in heaven and earth Horatio, than is thought of in your philosophy. As always Shakespeare says it best. Why do people love trying to tell me what is up? Nothing wrong with the points you bring up, btw, just do you really think what your saying is something to argue about? Or what I said is something to argue about? I got no problem with Sub/subs or Dom/Dom's......more power to them..... As for the doublespeak, I try to be a straight shooter, I think that is more admirable than pretending to communicate.....And appreciate the OPS honesty in at least admitting and being honest that he is doing doublespeak in his profile..... Also, I am a decent looking guy, so if you really want to argue and are worth argueing with, at least have a pic to show you are somewhat attractive so I know I'm not talkig to some jaba-the-hut woman and wasting my time.....

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