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RE: Responses - 10/14/2005 8:17:53 AM

Guildenstern

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whoops

good point

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RE: Responses - 10/14/2005 8:48:02 AM

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Not a problem

ROFL!

< Message edited by Guildenstern -- 10/14/2005 8:49:06 AM >

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RE: Responses - 10/14/2005 1:31:09 PM

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I guess the first step would be to make your profile very descriptive of both yourself and what you are seeking. One or two sentence profile are not very indicative of a creative and ingenious person behind the profile. In short, be honest and real, but be intersting and intriguing.

Secondly, understand what others here have said already: girls get twenty tons of emails every day... be sure yours is sincere yet also as intriguing as the profile. Again, a two or three word email is not very unique. Spend some time... write about her profile in particular. Ask questions about what she says in it... Ask further questions about her. Let her know she is interesting to you, and make sure your email doesn't sound like some form letter. Oh, yeah, by the way... never send the same email to multiple girls and expect good results. Submissive does not mean stupid.

If, after all this, you do not get a response, chalk it up as a lost cause with the one who did not write and move on... when the right one gets your email, she will let you know.

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RE: Responses - 10/14/2005 4:38:21 PM

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I'll add one more knot to this. There are times when I just give up answering politely with a "No, thank you". The reason? Because frequently that "No, thank you" opens up a floodgate of "Why nots?" and "You're obviously not a 'real' submissive". And while you may not be someone who will do this, email is not a very conducive enviroment for to be able to tell whether you will or will not react this way. So, in the end, we say nothing and delete because sometimes it's just not worth the hassles.

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RE: Responses - 10/14/2005 6:36:29 PM

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OsideGirl Wrote:

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I'll add one more knot to this. There are times when I just give up answering politely with a "No, thank you". The reason? Because frequently that "No, thank you" opens up a floodgate of "Why nots?" and "You're obviously not a 'real' submissive". And while you may not be someone who will do this, email is not a very conducive enviroment for to be able to tell whether you will or will not react this way. So, in the end, we say nothing and delete because sometimes it's just not worth the hassles.

I agree, bobbi. Dude, don't... I repeat... don't be a dork who doesn't know when no means no. Nothing is less attractive to a girl, I am sure, than a rude guy who makes an ass of himself. Be a Gentleman, be a Man, say thank you anyways... and resume searching.

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RE: Responses - 10/15/2005 5:26:09 AM

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No problem there. I know that no means no. Wouldnt have it anyother way. Badgering someone never ever works. Even if they give in and say yes, what kind of situation is that? bad for both parties and sets a bad precident for the future interactions, only can go downhill from there.

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RE: Responses - 10/15/2005 6:08:37 AM

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I always answer politely any mails I get. If the man doesn't take no for an answer and begins to bug me then he will get put on ignore. Even with my profile clearly stating I have a Dom, I still get them. Not to the extent of girls looking for a Dom, so I do sympathize with how hard it would be to answer 20 or more mails a day.

Guildenstern, unfortunately it has been said already, but I do feel your age is a hinderance for you. If you live in an area where you can meet people in person that might be better for you. J

Good luck.

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RE: Responses - 10/15/2005 7:07:10 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Littlepita

Guildenstern, unfortunately it has been said already, but I do feel your age is a hinderance for you. If you live in an area where you can meet people in person that might be better for you. J

Good luck.

True, and I have been told that there are good places in Georgia, but aside from Dungeon 1763 all the links I have found are broken. Doesnt mean that I am gonna not look, just that it gonna take me time.

as some people have suggested patience seems to be more than a virtue.

The good thing about being young, is that I can only get older. If age is a problem all I have to do is wait.... :)
Not that I am going to let that prevent me from trying.

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