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undergroundsea -> RE: Attraction (4/28/2008 6:07:31 PM)
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ORIGINAL: clmcol
Should I tell her how I feel about her or should I just wait?
There are subs who have felt and expressed strong feelings before the first meeting and then have had a tremendously successful first meeting. If I faced the same situation, I would wait.
I think the process of becoming acquainted and coming to how one feels about another can extend into and past the first meeting, which has not yet occurred.
It is possible for a submissive to feel strong attraction because how strongly one feels about making submission a reality. If such (attraction based more on situation versus interpersonal reasons) is occurring with you, and how you feel about her is out of proportion with how she feels about you, it could make her uncomfortable. I would wait until you have had an opportunity to meet and let the chemistry unfold organically. I think this point is relevant both for avoiding the potential to overwhelm her with information that could be too soon, and for managing expectations towards containing disappointment for either person. For now, I think your actions (how you likely respond in your IM interactions by immediately making time, how present and engaged you are in current conversations and will be in when you meet her, and how you otherwise demonstrate you respect and value her) will help convey that you appreciate her.
Cheers,
Sea
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